 Oh miss Wilson. Hello. Yes. Hello. How are you? Oh damn. Hi. How are you? What's going on? What up though? Oh my question is does it really pertain to the concept of high-earning men who want children? What about high-earning men that don't want children? I don't understand. Okay, so. High-earning men that don't want children? Well, high-earning men who already have children. You're speaking a lot about like high-earning men who want to start family. So what about those high-earning men that don't want to have children or high-earning men that already have children? Well, well, well, okay first off the ones that don't want to have children don't want yours. Okay. Because they didn't want theirs, they didn't want yours. Okay, no I'm talking about like they don't want children, period. Right. If they didn't want theirs, they don't want yours. If I'm gonna pay, if they're gonna pay for somebody, they're gonna pay for somebody that's a junior, it looks like them. They ain't gonna pay for yours because there's no DNA in that. There's no asset in that. It's all liability, all expense. So if they didn't make their own babies, they ain't gonna make a, they ain't gonna take yours. Okay. So what about the men who already have children who already? They already got theirs. They still don't want yours. They gotta provide for their kids. But who's to say that? Are you asked? So now see, hold on, stop, stop. You already answered your two questions. I get to ask a question. Y'all don't, y'all don't just get to pepper me with questions. I apologize, go ahead. Think about what I just said. If he doesn't want kids, he has, he could have had children. And it means you don't want to pay for yours. And if a man already has kids, anything he's doing for his kids, if he got to do for yours, he's taken away from his kids. Correct. So what if he doesn't have to do for my children? Are your kids living at home? I have an 18-year-old who's in college. So are you trying to actually tell me that this child will never need anything? I'm sorry. Ma'am, let's get to reality. Whether they live at home or not, he still will be a kid. They're still gonna be with some resources, maybe not as much as in-house. True. All right. Where's their father? The father's in the same city. All right. Is he a high-value man? Now he is. When we were married, he wasn't. Okay. So again, we're back to this old dilemma. Want to high-value a man older and later in life, when you had kids and babies and by men who weren't. But I look at it like... Listen, listen, listen. Why do you ladies feel like you should be able to raise the price on yourself when you get older? It's not about raising the price. Yes, it is. How is it raising the price? All right. Let's do the simple market analysis. All right. When you were younger, what age did you get married? I got married at 26. 26. And how do you now? 46. 46. Yes. Your husband, when you were at 26 years old, was earning how much? I don't know. Maybe 60,000. 60. And your ex-husband is earning about how much now? I mean, I'm not in his pockets now, but... But you said he's earning more. So I'm assuming you know... You said he's high-value business. He's doing well for himself. Yes. But I mean... Give me a number. I'm just going on what you said. I don't know. I mean, I don't know. It's 18 years later. I'm not married to him. I'm not in his pocket. I asked you a question. I asked about how high-value he said he's on his way. So what would make you think he's on his way there? I'm going to ask you for an accounting or WQ. Just give me a ballpark. I don't know. 90,000? 90,000. So he was making maybe 60 when you married him and 30 years later, or 20? 18 years later, he's making $30,000 more. All right. And you guys divorced how long ago? 2011. 2011. So nine years ago. And he was... Was he 60,000? 70,000? How much was he making when you divorced? Around about that number, yes. Right. So why can you expect to get a man who's earning more than a man you made babies with at 26 who was making 60,000 when you're 18 years older? The price on items that get older with use drops doesn't go up. Okay. So I would think what I married when I was 26 and what I was looking for should be different at 46 now. That's 20 years later. I shouldn't be my life has changed, my value, what I've brought to the table. So what? Like I asked the previous caller, like I asked the previous caller, name me a product on the market that whose price goes up with time and use. Okay. I'm not saying I know what goes up with time and use, but I guess... Because nothing does. But what I'm saying is why would... That's just like a person's income. If you started a job 20 years later, you shouldn't be making what you're making when you started. Like there's... No, but I've earned every year that I was there and they got benefit of my labor and I got benefit of the work experience. Someone meeting you has had benefit of none of your use. So you're trying to ask the highest price and they've got no benefit. It still works. Okay. So are you saying that people should not date where they're compatible with one another? You're compatible not on income. You're compatible on your overall... Well, listen, what do men value and what do men want in women? They're not... We know they want the looks. We want the image. They want, you know, all that stuff. That's what we pick. So, and that's what you and that's... Okay. And just like men date upon their resources and their ability to provide. A man who cannot provide and cannot have resources cannot date a supermodel. Sure. No, I agree. I was just speaking. So, again, back to the market. Okay. Older, more use and you want because you feel as though your value is increased and you're marking your value as in your socioeconomic status. Well, I guess I'm looking at the people who I'm around. So my colleagues, the people I work around, my friends, husbands, my brother-in-law, my father, I mean, all of them are high earning men. So... Okay. But that's not... I'm talking about you. Yes. Okay. Ma'am, on the market, do you think in general a woman's value should increase as she ages? I think it depends on how she takes care of it. No, ma'am. No, ma'am. No, ma'am. That's a real simple question. I mean... Should a woman's value increase with age? I don't feel like it decreases. I definitely feel like it depends. All right. Well, guess what? Good thing you're... But again, you're not the consumer. We are. And that's completely ridiculous. That is completely, absolutely ridiculous. And when asked a logical, simple question, ladies are just being delusional. You're telling me that a woman should be able to command the same or a higher price at $25... At $45, then she did a $25. And I'm like the person who is doing the consuming once like children or certain things like that, absolutely not. Well, men who are doing the consuming, all right, then let's go there. The men who are doing the consuming, the high value men, they don't go pick older baby mamas. Okay. Younger women. A woman who's never been married. So I'm not referring to those women. Okay. It doesn't matter whether you're married or not. The end of the day, ma'am, you ladies have a disagreement with reality. Okay. And the reality you're saying is... It's not the reality. I'm saying the reality that you live is what? What product on the market increases in value as it ages and is used? I don't have the answer to that. Nothing. So a woman on the market has a value. And as she ages and with use, hurt goes down. I ask you, as a woman ages, should her value increase? Well, it depends on how she keeps herself up. I don't care how she keeps herself up, ma'am. 40 is different than 20. Oh, absolutely. I know that. I've been 20 and I'm 40. So why is it so hard for you guys just to use that kind of logic when you look in the mirror and say, you know what? I'm average. And I should get an average man, because I'm not the hot little thing I was at 20-something-something-years-old. And I can't ask, but I ask for back before I had kids and before stretch marks, say, like in moles. Okay. So no, I get the whole concept of 20 is different than 40. I get it. It's common sense. But the thing that I'm looking at is when you kept speaking about children, and I was just kind of tricking on to that point where you kept saying, okay, well, men are going to want a woman who could give them children. I just wanted to know what was your perspective of maybe- Okay, man. We've had many different conversations. You asked me about what about a man who doesn't have kids, what about a man who doesn't want kids? Look, I'm pretty good listener, man. Do you have children? I do. I said I have an 18-year-old in college. All right. Good. And are you on the dating market? Not really. Okay. Why does this matter to you? Oh, I have a lot of girlfriends and, you know, I have like a woman's group and I'm doing like- Okay. And are they looking for a high value men? They are looking for a high value man, yes. Are they high value women? From what men value? Some of them are. Some of them aren't. If they're not high value men, from what men value, why are they looking for high value men? And I think that they feel like- You can feel like whatever you want, either you can get- You can feel like whatever you want. Well, what they've explained- The market decides. Is what I've explained, they've explained to me is dating men, like maybe let's say if I have a girlfriend who makes 300,000, then let's say she's average looking, but she's dating a guy who's maybe making 50,000. That kind of causes conflict, their lifestyles. Yeah, I know. I consult with these women all the time and here's the problem. Here's the problem. I get it and there's no resolution to this problem. I get it and there's no resolution to it. You want to hear the truth? I've had to tell three people this in the last two weeks. You waited too long, your value's too high. You're going to die alone. People have paid me to tell them this and I'm telling you, look, because when it came right down to it, these women have said, I really could not be okay with him. I'm making 300, he's making 50 because the mortgage, I'd have to pay 75 to 80 percent of the mortgage. All right. Well, if that's the case, I cannot make the world be more full of four or $500,000 men who would accept you. The men are what they are and you waited too long. I'm going to do a broadcast next week talking about how feminism was tied into the women's movement and how an editor for Carl's and Pollerson has had to finally come forward and admit that the things she did destroyed an entire generation of women by postponing marriage, by free sex. Problem is, I feel sorry for women, sisters in particular, because you were lied to. But we are what we are and if you got a $300,000 friend and the average black man is earning $42,000 with no kids, I can't make more black men be up there with your friend. And if she wants a man who's up there with her, he's going to want what he wants, regardless as to what she earns. And she does not look like what he wants or is going to have the mentality of the assets, just like she's not going to settle, he isn't either. And that's what hasn't been told to women. The men that they want are not going to settle for them. And so what your recommendation would be like for my girlfriends in that category by a dog die alone. What else can I say, man? I know I'm supposed to say something happy right now. I know I'm supposed to say something Jovial, but how old are we talking 35, 40 plus? Yeah, they're in their 40s. All right, ma'am, I can't make more $300,000 single available heterosexual men. I can't. And they can't go out and they can't date Bradley, America, Keith, and Enrique. I mean, they can't. Those guys over there are not en masse and don't want them like that. And the women over there, those other races aren't going to let their high value men go without a fight. Got you. So this whole notion of black women going over to white men and getting high value, you'll have sex with you, but you do not see high value men marrying out. We tend to get very, very race conscious the higher up we go. The bottom line, man, is have you ever had spoiled milk? Have you ever, have you ever drank some milk or put some milk on some cereal and spoiled? Yes. You know what happens? Think about the last time you drank some spoiled milk. Then you get this sharp taste in your mouth. You can spit it out. It was nasty. Absolutely. Exactly. But the only way you knew it was spoiled is you tasted it. You can look at the date, but look, their opportunities have spoiled. And this is what they're doing. They're rejecting the opportunities. But the reality is I can't make unspoiled milk. I can't reverse time. I'm not Dr. Strange. I'm not Thanos. They waited too long. And to settle. It's not settled because here's the thing. Let me let me go. They're feeling the other side. Here's also what's not going to happen. They're not going to go get a man who is happy with who he is. And just because he does not earn what she earns, then she's going to sit around and beat the shit out of him because he's her second or third choice or better what she can get. See what it really is, ma'am, is your friends need to line up their expectations with their sexual marketplace value, not their income or their education. And if they can do that, then they can honestly and really accept it. Then being average, they would be all right with the average man. Why is it that white women, Hispanic women, Asian women, Middle Eastern women, can out earn their husbands and not feel like they're settling with a plumber or something like that? I have a woman on my channel who graduated as a doctor of four children, 135 pounds, went to the Mayo Clinic, makes four or five times what her husband makes as a software engineer or something like that. And she's the breadwinner. Black women, they'll beat, in general, our culture is that women will punish me for earning less. So men are saying, I ain't going to go let you abuse me because you couldn't get an attorney, a doctor or whatever. I'd rather watch football and dial on myself. Right. And I feel like a lot of other women down, women saying, okay, well, you've worked hard, you've gone to school, you've gotten this level of education and this salary. So it's a form of settling, dating someone that's... Well, I'll tell you right now, women do that because that's a dirty macking. Because if they could get a hold of the dude they're telling you to get away from, I guarantee you they'd get on him because they don't want to die alone. That's what I could do for... All right. You know what I'm saying? It's not easy to hear, but it's true. I mean, I know it's true. I guess I'm just like, it's challenging for the women who... And I guess, you know, I have a daughter, like I said, and so it's funny, she hears some of this sometimes and I'm like... You say you have a daughter? I do. I have a six-year-old. Then what do you tell them? And then that... That's what I said. Talk to the younger... See, here's the thing I would ask your friends. Talk to the younger you. Talk to the current you, then talk to the future you. If they could talk to the younger them, they know they would tell them something different. Oh, I would do it totally different if I could talk to the younger... And so I just wonder about it because I listened to the show yesterday and I do feel like a lot of times people emphasize going to school, get an education, make money, but we don't focus on the other things. And so I look at my girlfriends who focused on getting their education, getting jobs, and then nailed their 40s, never been married, no children. And it's like, it's late for them. That's what made this video go viral. It was the dying alone part because it's stung because a lot of these women realize the one, they have no relationship skills. Sure. So even if they did find a decent dude, they don't know how to be around a man other than in a bedroom. Sure. That's true. But here's the thing. For the women who were on the fence, my mother decided to put all this bullshit down and she settled. And her selling was the best thing she ever did because she's lived better the last 24 years than the first 50. She married the most unlikely man I could have ever thought of and she has never been happier. And I'm a static for my mother because she picked the wrong guys all the time, include my dad. Okay. But we didn't own a home. We rented all the time. She got a anyway. Shit. If my mama couldn't win, but my mama got off that bull crap. But at what age did she find this? 50. So then there's still hope for my girlfriend. But her two sisters, one died alone and the other ones on the way. And her and the cousin, most of the women in my family died alone. So there's hope. But here's the other thing. My mother was a beautiful woman. It's always had men available. If you're an average looking woman and overweight, that wasn't my mama. Hmm. Okay. So that's not making it seem there's the hope. There's hope. The best thing you can do is either you're going to learn how to... See, the problem is your friends don't sound like that. They can sit across from a man who's not as educated, earning any money and not be an absolute condescending witch. Yeah, that's true. I had a girlfriend who specifically was like... They went out on a date. She went out on a date. And the guy, when they were ordering food, he was saying, um, entries. He didn't know it was entrees. But I can't... Just because he didn't know how to pronounce the word. Trust me. I work with women like this behind the scenes. Yeah. And I've helped some of them get themselves together. Okay. Uh, and this is the kind of conversation that's needed. Yeah. Because the stuff your friends are valuing... Yeah. Don't give your insulin shot or pick you or come... Or come help you get up off the toilet when your knee go out. Well, people get upset with me and think, um, but I know... I know of what I speak. I got to get on to some more... Okay. I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Right then. She came in with the very white. My darling, I can't get enough of your love, babe. Ashley, do you have a disagreement?