 This Asian guy wanted to improve his dating life, so he got the muscles He got the tattoos, but he's still not liking what he's getting. So what's he missing? Oh, man We got to talk about it. There was a viral reddit post where basically this guy Let's just call him Gordon because he looks like a guy named Gordon that I grew up with in Seattle He said, uh, hey guys, can you guys give me a hinge profile review because it seems like lately I've only been attracting non-Asian women and Latinas, but I really want fob girls, right? So he got buff. He got the tattoos. We're gonna talk about what the internet said to weigh in to help him out and try to give him Some constructive criticism, but you guys let me know in the comments down below So please hit that like button and check out other episodes of the hot-pot boys No, Andrew This is bros coming to the help of another bro who is in earnest asking for advice, right? Yeah And it's so funny because the posts usually are like, hey guys, how do I attract non-Asian women? But he's like, yo, I only want to date Asian fobs and I'm starting to attract non-Asian women more than I want He's like alert alert reject So anyway, it's an interesting problem. But anyways guys, we want you to check out smaller sauce It is something that goes good on Asian food and non-Asian food Hey, maybe if you're Asian fob, it might work well for you And if you're a non-Asian person, it might go well on your food check it out smaller sauce com Andrew he had multiple posts and they just generated so much discussion. So I'm gonna pop up some of Gordon's photos right here Obviously, he's got a full sleeve, but once you zoom in it's actually a cyberpunk tattoo So I'll say this long story short and by the way, we're gonna get into the details He's almost like trying to mix Kevin Wynn with being an otaku Weaboo soft boy mixed with thug boy mixed with Asian gamer in the cafe mixed with triad mixed with like Skyline GTR f-boy in the s2000 mixed with something else, right? Like is he trying to just mishmash things in a way that don't fully make sense? Yeah I mean to his credit I will say it looks interesting in the sense that he has a full sleeve But it's like of Tokyo and then he has a whole bunch of anime characters and then he has like Pikachu on his chest Right. Yes, this kitsune like Fox spirit from you know, and he has like really buff arms So like I can see on paper that he got the tattoos and he got the muscle so you can see why he's disappointed I can see what he's thinking, but at the end of the day I don't know depending on his social circles and his own personality and obviously his own expectations clearly It's not coming together. So let's break it down guys David What is like your general thought process when you see this? Okay? He's not as classic on reddit is not defining what he's looking for enough Because based off what I can see he probably can't get some women in the world for sure, right? Yeah, you get some attention. Would you say like it's not bad. He's done the checklist But you could almost argue everything on the checklist of the you know attract baddie or a be a Chad checklist He's checked it, but it's maybe only a half check or quarter check mark Like there's different extents of filling up that box green on the green checklist Yeah, and then also I just feel like there's misalignment with what he wants versus what he went for He kind of went for this eight like he it looks like he's trying to go for ABG badass chicks Right that he's trying to get himself out of the nerd lane But then he says he only wants to date Asian fobs and I'm like no He said hot edgy Asian fobs with like sort of was airy artistic tattoos on their arm Which to be fair it is growing like that trend that he's referring to does exist more and more Yeah, but is he like in their social circle and stuff because that's not a huge segment of the population either Oh of the American population I would say a tiny slice no matter how viral it is on doying or Shao Hong Shu or Instagram It's a very very narrow If is he even Chinese because I'm assuming when he says Asian fob I don't know if he's referring to no he said he's looking for Korean fob girls But he's I believe Cantonese from San Francisco. So he's not even Korean Yeah, so that's gonna create a whole nother barrier and we won't we don't even need to get into that Yeah, he probably needs to move to a different market. Maybe he should try moving to LA You know where there's more Koreans and also generally people in general Andrew more edgy in LA. Yeah, and Burroughs in New York's flushing Brooklyn specifically Sunset Park. Exactly. Um, I'll say this if he's looking for fob girls from 25 and up colleges Do you agree that there's gonna be some classes in that play where they're not gonna want a guy that's tatted Fully with a black sleeve. You know what I mean? Like I'm talking about like there's a ton of ink on that arm Yeah, he might have too much tattoo possibly, right, right, right? Um, they might be looking for something more airy single needle more artistic, right like that I think that generally, you know what I notice a lot of guys do Andrew They sort of want these like edge case scenarios to happen in the sense that they're like they're like Yeah, I know that I didn't really build myself in my image to attract this thing But I think there might be an outside chance that I could get it like just like on a long shot or a half-court shot Right, right. So I think right now what you're saying is that if he's shooting and he's it's like he's shooting half-court shots And he's expecting to just make 10% of it and he's like yo I just want that 10% where it's super glorious when I hit that half-court shot Then you have to shoot a lot, right? You have to go out there shooting a lot of shots And if he's not like that type of guy who's getting out there getting a lot of exposures meeting a lot of different types Of people then he's gonna get he's he's just gonna end up with what comes more easily Yeah, like if he became a club promoter in the San Francisco area Let's just say San Francisco LA New York area for like fob parties He may come across the demographic that he's looking for that likes him back But if he's in front of computer screens asking for advice on Reddit instead of good knowledgeable bros around him That's already indicating. He may not have access to those pools in IRL and also David If you said that he said he likes Korean fob girls that are edgy. Why doesn't he have any Korean tattoos? Why isn't why like, what are you thinking? I'm sure they're gonna love the Tokyo tattoo Yeah, I don't understand if you want to catered first of all, why are you catering yourself to such a specific group? That's not that large. It's kind of weird. That's kind of hyper specific, right? Maybe possibly a fetish there, but I'm saying if you are gonna go for it Why don't you get some tattoos that cater to that group, right? Something did you see people get on physical 100 or some Korean words? I mean, whatever you can get whatever you want. I think that it's not like that He's a terrible product, but he's probably a terrible fit for what he's trying to get It would be like opening up a great hipster Russian restaurant in deep Chinatown Yeah, it doesn't matter. You could go. Oh, look at me I've got a great Russian restaurant in comparison to the other Russian restaurants that are available in the demographic market It doesn't matter because you put it in Chinatown now. What's gonna struggle? Yeah Um, I just think that he's kind of going for this like canto like MK like long gawk look Which is kind of like triaddy from like 2008 but he's trying to like bring it up to date with the modern-day things too. So here Andrew Gordon I have some quick advice. Um That that immediately could change a lot in 24 hours for him Andrew Could he get the black square glasses instead of the round shiny ones? Yeah, I would just say drop the glasses get LASIK look a LASIK contacts die is hair jet black again Because when you kind of have the top frosted you're niching yourself out and you're already looking for a niche that no girls are gonna Go ever go against the jet black hair when you're Asian But some girls may be like I didn't like the dye job. Also. Does he wear a black tank top everywhere? He goes That's kind of a weird style Like well, he's going for like oh seven Vin Diesel If you go to the bar and you're buff and all you wear is a black tank top You can rest assured that that's gonna turn off a lot of nice little Asian fob girls But it might niche max you in another lane. Yeah, but like he said Andrew when he goes out He gets some attention from white women and Latina women, especially the ones that are in the Asian guys But he might not be reciprocating like I said everything is a it goes both ways takes two to tango Andrew he could go to 12 tell or any other high-end Asian barbershop give them $50 and tell them to analyze his hair and buy another $50 of high quality hair styling products So even if they tell him to get curtain bangs Andrew He should listen to somebody who knows more than himself because it sounds like to be honest Hey and shout out to you Gordon, but you've been listening to yourself and not listening to experts enough I'm not saying I'm an expert should he pick up some GQ additions from Hong Kong Singapore Japan South Korea GQ Vietnam Just pick up the GQs look through a man Should he go to Zargo or mango man, which are pretty much like knockoffs of high-end luxury brands at cheaper prices And if he's looking for Korean fob girls, he could I'm not saying adopt all the styles from it Because he doesn't fully have that look either go to the Korean online fashion brands They are gonna give you the fast-fashioned Why aren't you dressing like some of those buff Korean guys like look up some Korean fashion influencers, right? There's so many now right become who you want to attract. Um, he should get Shao Hong Shu Which is a Chinese Instagram and follow all the male influencers that give you advice on Shao Hong Shu Should he he probably should eat more cleaner. I guess semi paleo semi keto like lean out because he's very buff But maybe there's a little bit body fat issue going on there And then with the one arm that he doesn't have completely blacked out looking like RJ D to maybe get some at this point I feel like he's already so invested in the tattoo lane. Maybe get some more airy artistic tats on the other arm Balance it out, right because the girls that he might be going after they may like tattoos But they don't want a full blacked-out sleeve, right? So anyway, let's just get into the comment section Andrew Somebody said your tats and your clothes will put off most Asians If you want to max on the non Asians then get rid of the glasses and somebody said well It really depends on what type of tattoos um, you know when guys are checking the boxes Andrew How much do the details matter? Yeah? I mean, I would say getting the full sleeve is gonna put you more in the bad-ass Kevin win kind of a B Street lighting street lane. So Yeah, I think you got too many tattoos and they're too dark. It's like too much like your arm is entirely black You know what I mean? Yeah, which is like that's a hard look. That's that's sending us a strong message Yeah, I would say out of low-middle high That's in the high zone in terms of like but then it's funny because then you get up closer And then it's like cyberpunk and there's like all these like animes and everything everywhere I don't know guys Jimmy's a made it work Maybe you guys you need to watch some Jimmy's a because he went from the cosplay world and mixed it with the Kevin win world, but he's the only guy who made it happen That's like looking at Kenny lost in junior being like yeah, man Kenny lost in junior made it happen in the NBA So I'll get his body type. It'll work. He's the only guy who made it work Somebody said it really has to do ultimately with you not being ripped enough. You're buff, but you're not ripped Right, how much do you think that that matters when guys are like, yo, man I'm in the gym looked at all the heavy lifts look at all the progressive overload But they're lifting for strength whereas girls want a high perfect high was it called high? Hyper trophy, which is more being ripped. Right, right, right. Yeah, I think that some guys do that, too Somebody said I'm not gonna lie. I thought you were just a transitioning female because you have a baby face How much is that out of people's control, right? Um, I don't know. He he does have a Little bit of an androgynous face Sure. Yeah, I mean listen guys There's some ways that maybe you can mess with the hairstyle you can mess with the glasses down grow any facial hair I guess. Oh, that's a good point. Um, somebody said man It really just goes down to your tattoos tattoos are not seen as proper So if you want fob women which on a racial basis are more conservative You are gonna end up with the teen is our whites because their cultures in 2023 are much less conservative, right? Yeah, especially the type of tattoos he has and I popped up some examples here of more artistic tattoos that he could go with on His right arm or his non tatted arm Somebody was saying man for diaspora chicks, you probably come across as a tryhard And yeah, most rebel types are only already dating non-Asian guys So now you're putting yourself in a weird position. Yeah. Yeah. Do you agree with that? Yes? I think it's just a weird lane to be in and it's not that it can't work again If you have exposure and access to a large market large pool large pool of options Then potentially you are gonna find that one that matches up with you But you might not be in the right area. Yeah You're at the end of the day because of his interesting mishmash of like thug boy soft boy otaku weeaboo It's almost like super niched out now It's like you're taking like a a market and you're like segmenting it all the way down Um, this guy broke it down photo by photo. How come you don't have a photo of you eating brunch or dressed up in a suit Showing your hobbies. I don't really like any photo where it's just you hanging out by yourself with the background I noticed a lot of guys do this. Yeah Like you kind of just like take photos where you go. Oh, I don't know I thought my face looked good in that but then you're not necessarily what showing any sort of vibe or any life or any Holistic sort of the lifestyle or energy. What about you eating sushi? Like what do you like what do you mean? You're not giving the people any imagery of what your lifestyle is like you just wear tank tops when you go out So what is a girl gonna meet you up for the first date and then expect you to wear a tank top, right? This guy says Man, I don't know you just completely mishmashed everything It's almost to a point where I would get the tattoos lasered off That's impossible. No level that he's at you're not getting this. I wouldn't get him lasered off I would just like I would do a lot of other things before that, right? This guy says you look like a former Yakuza member who got kicked out for doing something stupid to the Klan or somebody who is a Somebody and who does CrossFit or you look like a younger version of Dan Lok if he was a lost millennial Who didn't know who he wanted to be in life. So of course and or the internet coming with the roasts Um, this guy also said that he fell in love with bodybuilding And he knows that fob girls generally do not want guys that are super chunky in the arms But he just loves lifting and doing arm exercises So this kind of tells me Andrew that this guy he wants to check all the boxes of you know Like we said of like what conventionally guys in the West think we'll get a lot of baddie girls Which is what getting tats. Yeah getting buff looking socially deviant looking a little gangster But then he's not really even lifting the way you should lift. Yeah, I mean it's a dude I don't really think it's like oh, I don't think it's just between Oh, you should have gotten like two different tattoos and then it would have made a difference Oh lose the glasses and they don't make a big difference and then like Shrink your arms and not be so gigantic lean out cut, right? Yeah, I think all those are small factors but ultimately I think what it's coming down to is just he has flawed expectations and Misalignment with where he's at and what he wants and I think those are the biggest factors because yes on paper He got the markings that he needed to get right buff A bad boy doesn't look like an account to attract More attention from women it doesn't getting tattoos and getting buff never meant. Hey, you're gonna attract a specific type You're just gonna attract more attention. You're gonna get eyeballs potentially even from like guys. Yeah, even from guys or whatever But I'm saying That doesn't mean like you're gonna get attention from your second that niche of women that you're trying to attract Which is like that's just flawed thinking on his part. So I just think that he Did do what people tell him to checklist but he didn't get the the mental coaching, right, right, right? Yeah, I mean I would describe it in a metaphor as honestly like you're building yourself as a car You're a car manufacturer Different cars sell to different demographics. Yes, does everybody need a car or most people in America need to buy a car But how come there's such a gigantic variance in the cars that they choose and you're the car designer You're the car manufacturer you get to realistically look at what your budget is what your capacities are You know what type of usability and usage rate you need to get for this car And then you build yourself, you know from up all the way off from the chassis all the way to the you know Yeah, but like we said in an earlier video, man, I feel like dating sometimes like you can see it And I don't want to say it like in a bad way, but like you can see it as like Kind of like a Getting better at a sport where it's like you have there's a mental aspect to understanding the game of basketball If you want to get better at basketball, you cannot only improve your dribbling and your strength But you're gonna end up like GOIs or Julian Newman, right? That's only a small aspect of it to be an actual better basketball player and to have people want you on their team You have to know how to play the game and how to add to a team and how to fit a system and all this All these other things he's myth. He got the skills. He improved his skills Technically and his strength. Well, that's why he's getting something. That's why he's getting but it's just not what he wants Yeah, um Andrew there was actually a very large white woman who came in and said well, you know for me I love a sweet face with a edgy tattooed body. You sure do got my attention and yes I am a large and in charge WF so like we said he's getting you know Some Latina women said who cares if your face is too feminine for tattoos. I like it So another girl came in and said ultimately I think it's because your fate you facially have a recessed jaw But it doesn't mean anything because Andrew Tate also has a recessed jaw and he's considered a hyper masculine role model That's an interesting point. People do make fun of Andrew Tate for that Yeah, ultimately man What's the answer man this guy he wants edgy but cute Korean girls from colleges who live traditionally But he's not necessarily what they're looking for Yeah, but he is what some women in the market are looking for and some of those women may even be freaky-deaky Yeah, I mean he's better off than you know having the more options than if he didn't do any of this stuff I think the truth is but I think he just didn't know it's not a good alignment. It's not good alignment Limans off how much of it is it? You know like we said guys There's so much things there's checking the boxes which are important Probably and a lot of guys are not even willing to go through that initial process But then there's the quality with which you check those boxes and I guess the more in-depth aspects are the alignment of those boxes Yes, yes, yeah, so anyway, um ultimately I do not think this guy Gordon is hopeless like I said I think if he leans out get some new clothes and Just listens to some of the advice obviously I don't think all the advice was solid some of the advice in the internet comments Was some of it wasn't but like he's still gonna be able to get what he wants out of life But he just needs to up his IQ and up his alignment point So yeah guys like we said a little bit of a different video today We're just analyzing things that go viral on reddit, you know everything from macro geopolitical things to micro just brocoaching You see it here. Let us know what you think of Gordon's situation in the comments section below Is it right wrong? Do you have different perspectives on it? Where should he put himself to position himself to be in the best place? Yo, honestly straight up? I think flushing would be perfect for him I think flushing would be perfect and he needs to watch more zimmy jimmy zang because jimmy zang is the guy I saw transition from like cosplay anime otaku guy and then hybrid it in with Kevin win By the way guys the execution is everything anyway, let us know what you think in the comment section below until next I'm gonna hop out boys. We out peace