 Watch this before the narcissist ruins Christmas. Narcissists hate Christmas because in their minds they are the centre of the universe. They expect everything to revolve around them. They expect everything to be about how they feel and what they want. But Christmas is meant to be about other people. It's a time for giving, which takes the focus off the narcissist. It makes them feel insignificant. And when a narcissist feels insignificant, they will try to make everyone miserable. The narcissist will suddenly get worse around this time of year. They will want to ruin your Christmas. They will want to ruin any moment of peace and unity. Because they feel like the attention is being taken away from them. And they need supply. They need people to take notice of them to make them feel like they exist. But everyone's attention is on this special occasion. At this time of year, the narcissist main focus is their primary source of supply. They want your attention to be on them. They want you to do everything that they want you to do. They want you to feed their ego and validate the illusions of their false self. But sometimes, that still may not be enough for them. And they will devalue you. They will cause confusion and a lack of order. They will cause damage and trouble. They will make your life miserable. Especially when you're taking your attention away from them. Because it makes them feel less valuable and important. It makes them very angry. They don't want to see your attention on anything other than them. Which is why they're intimidated by special occasions. They see Christmas as a threat. It causes them to feel insecure. It causes them to destabilize. Narcissists hate Christmas. Because they hate the idea of giving something to someone else. They don't want to take care of anyone other than themselves. They don't want to have to buy you gifts or do something for you. They want everything to be about them. They want you to cater to their needs. But at Christmas, they feel like they're morally bound to make it about other people. Which makes them resentful. It makes them feel like they're being treated unfairly. So they will take the least amount of effort. They will expect you to do all of the work. Because they're very entitled. They expect you to take care of them. Without them having to do anything for you in return. Which may end up ruining Christmas for you. Because they may not even give you a gift. Which creates confusion and a lack of order. And they may just do it to get a reaction out of you. Because any supply is good supply. When the narcissist angers or upsets you. It's to get you to focus on them. To distract you from other things. They will always find something to pick on. They will act like they're unhappy with your gift. Or as though there's something wrong with your cooking. There will always be something wrong. There will always be something for you to fix. But they will never allow you to have the satisfaction of feeling like you did something right. They will never allow you to be abreast or to feel peace within yourself. Because they want you to be constantly focused on them. So they will bully you. They will humiliate you in front of everyone. Because it gives them the attention they're looking for. They will do whatever it takes to get attention. They will do whatever it takes to get supply. But knowing this can help you to protect yourself. Don't expect them to be anything different than who they are. They're damaged people. And there's nothing you can do to fix them. They're never going to change. Just recognize what they are trying to do. Recognize that they are trying to ruin Christmas. You don't need to confront them. You don't need to tell them what they're trying to do. You need to be indifferent. You need to gray rock. Because then you're not going to give them supply. Merry Christmas everyone. I hope this video resonate with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching Inquiries. You can email me at coaching at naksafiver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.