 Now let's get into the topic of discussion today. We have all seen that young people are dying day in, day out. Sijunani ame rushu kwa building gani, sijunani ame anguka kwa pati gani, sijunani ame anguka. As in, these are weird things that are going on with young people and we just want to talk and ask ourselves what's going on. First of all, I feel like right now in this day and age, people are depressed, people are sad, people have problems like water kwa na masira, you know, so many things are coming to play because young people right now, everyone is looking, people are looking for jobs, livelihoods and all that and the economy also is bad, the government is imposing taxes every single day and like, you know, so people are finding water ame and also people have bottled up a lot, you know, so you find something so small can trigger somebody, ilene acha probabili they didn't mean to do it and then, unona matimutua ame kwa rusha chini, amon unona matimutua ame kwa dunga kisu after just an argument. You see, because you hear on the news someone saying, Aluliu ala like somebody killed their wife because of Ugarli, seriously. It's not because of Ugarli, I don't think it's because of Ugarli. There must be somebody. I feel like right now in our society right now people are not okay mentally, our mental health as young people is in the shits, if you ask me. What's worrying me and even surprising me even more, I feel like we are not really getting to know the reasons behind this kimi. First of all, most people are saying it's not suicide. I haven't really had a suicide issue. I've not heard of it that has been, you know, are summarized that it's a suicide. No, but we are not getting to know what is happening. We are just not getting to know. Una sketu story ni happen and then it dies off like that. I'm on up, we don't know what happened. Shikwa, and then that's it. It's not really, for me, it's not really a solution. Take for example, King Kalami's issue, Natiflorex, she fell and she lost an entire hand, and we don't even know what happened. Do you guys know what happened really? First of all, she said she didn't throw herself. That is something I got into her life and she said she never threw herself, but I think she didn't want to talk about it. I'm not so sure. We never get to know what are the reasons behind these things. You are watching Friends Vibe. All feelings are represented. What's up everybody? Welcome back to Friends Vibe. Guys, we are back and thank you so much for joining us every single time. My good name is Miss Kethingi and I am joined by Rich Galius Jackson Nisa Abdi Guys, please introduce me to Rich Galius Jackson. Nisa Abdi Let's have that energy. Sisi, in order to make your breakfast, do say amen your breakfast. All right, guys. Now let's get into the topic of discussion today. We have all seen that young people are dying day in, day out. Sijunani ame rusho kwa building gani. Sijunani ame anguka kwa pati gani. Sijunani ame anguka. As in, this is weird things that are going on with young people and we just want to talk and ask ourselves what's going on? What do you guys think are the reasons behind these killings that are happening nowadays? Well, apart from the one that went like wave viral, Jeff Moisey, these others are like love related. Like you find them, ali kwa na chaliak, ei, all over sudden them, ana pati kana li anguka. But then, most of them, zenye nimesiki anima dem. Kuna chali fula ni wakasa? Ei, piya kuna wewa chali wakasa. But now, you know, it's very disturbing to find that someone can find it so easy to throw someone off a rooftop just like that. A man abdungana kisu. A man, you know, like humming someone. I really do not understand what goes into someone's mind before wa rushem tu, ama wa dungem tu. I really just don't understand. First of all, I feel like right now in this day and age, people are depressed, people are sad, people have problems like what okonama, sira, you know. So many things are coming to play because young people right now, everyone is looking, people are looking for jobs, livelihoods and all that. And the economy also is bad. The government is imposing taxes every single day and every, like, you know. So people are finding wa utwame and also people have bottled up a lot. You know. So you find something so small can trigger somebody ilene, actually probably they didn't mean to do it. And then onona tumitwa meku rushachini. Amonona umona meku dunga kisu after just an argument. You see, because you hear on the news someone saying, actually, oh, alulu ala, like somebody killed their wife because of Ugarli. Seriously. It's not because of Ugarli. I don't think it's because of Ugarli. There must be something there. Yeah, it's, I feel like right now in our society right now people are not okay mentally. Our mental health as young people is in the shits if you ask me. And what's worrying me and even surprising me even more, I feel like we are not really getting to know the reasons behind this kimi. Yeah. You are a team to alia muka kwa building. First of all, most people are saying it's not suicide. I haven't really had a suicide issue. I've not heard of it that has been, you know, summarized that it's a suicide. No. But we are not getting to know what is happening. We are just not getting to know. Una sketu story ni happen and then it dies off like that. I'm not aware what happened. You don't know how to ameshikwa. And then that's it. And then that's it. It's not really, for me it's not really a solution. Take for example, King Kalami's issue, multi-floor X. Okay, she fell and she lost an entire hand. You know. And we don't even know what happened. Do you guys know what happened really? First of all, she said she didn't throw herself. That is something I got into her life and she said she never threw herself. But I think she didn't want to talk about it. I'm not so sure. We never get to know what are the reasons behind these things. But now guys, what are some of the things she do avoid because Una skuya go to houses that you know the person you're with? No, but those are the things that we need to avoid or just work on just to make sure we remain safe. But I feel like in all these killings, in all the instances, these people who passed away because Walianguka, they knew these people that they went to see. Yeah, they know they personally well. Like recently, the lady who fell from Roaka, can't remember her name. Kathrin, I guess. Yeah, Kathrin Jerry. Yeah, I don't think. She went to see her, her very close friend. Then all of a sudden, the caretaker says he saw her with the Friends boy friend. Friends boy friend at the rooftop. No, we don't want to say kwa kata ni ni kapet. Kwanakuangali anapata names chana. So, sometimes I'm like, mba kasa, you know what I'm talking about, when I'm at the rooftop, I'm like, No, I'm number one. Avoid rooftops. I'm avoiding rooftop at all costs. It's very strange. And then, what is the, I feel like the Kenyan government when it comes to investigative cases, for me, I don't feel like they are doing enough because I'm a fanatic of forensic files. Forensic files is in the U.S. where they investigate murder, whether it takes 15 years, 20 years, 30 years, whether they need to exhume their bones. They will. They get to the bottom more. I don't think in Kenya. After three months, no substantial reports. I feel also the investigative part, the government should really do something. Because I feel like it's going to help us actually know how to do things better. How to probably avoid some things because this is what is leading to this. You know? So, if that is provided, it is going to be of much importance and of much help to actually people knowing what to do and what not to do. But again, isn't mba bash, clearly naka isn't mba bash the squeeze, this is not mba bash the kitambo. Because people have different agenda. Yes, you might know them through other friends and acquaintance. But what are they about to? Some of these people we hang out with, we don't even know what they do for a living. We don't even know where they live. We're just hanging out with people. Jume ito aku jeto nde bash nde steangu. That's it. That's it. And then you're there. You don't know for what. What do these people do for a living? Can you even know someone? You can report them to if anything happened. You know? Like, I don't know. Let's... Mimi, um, Chasa, Mimi, I'm just so co-shares with life. I don't even take risks anymore. Because I'm just afraid of these happenings that I'm seeing on the internet. Is there anything else you'd advise someone to just take care? Regarding to that relationship thing of people killing their spouses, choose kind spouses. Choose people who, like, as you're trying to date, choose kind people. You know, a kind person, a nice, yeah, will always, atakuna siraje, will always, like, atarudu, like it won't be explosive like that or something you get. Just find a kind partner, honestly. Yeah. And the red flags are always there. Come on. They're always there. A very aggressive person someone who's going to kill you or something. It's, take that red flag, the first one and run. Don't wait for it to reach Akowe because it just takes one, achuwe kisu from here, you're in the kitchen arguing, just take one minute for him to bring that knife na kudunge. He want to, it's so easy. So yeah, I feel like choose a kind partner. Liz? I feel for me, my number one role is always, no matter how late it is, I will sleep in my house. It's quite like, see kwa kwa ni karibu sit when the tutu, eh, so he's not atatu me, pattern atu kwa kwa bash, atatu juwani. And also, you as someone maybe who is social and you like to have people around, you may have a stranger in your house and something happens. Like it's the first person you've hosted, this person in your house and then you don't know, they maybe fall off or just something happens to them in your house. Like I just feel to avoid Aki, lalini tukwe inu, please. Also meet in social places. When you go into someone's house umetua bash, atatu juwani. And then you're like, mwembo na beshtiako. Or ni kona beshtiaka, kona bash maria, and then you're just like, yeah, let's go. You don't know people, go to social places, then at a club when they quenu. You don't have to go to people's houses. Avoid them actually. For sure. And also, alcohol and drugs. I'm sure this is something that really contributes to people making radical decisions. In my room. So as much as you're enjoying yourself, ask yourself, how do I behave when I am drunk? Because some of you really behave weirdly. You cause drama when you're the type that insults people when you're drunk. And you're probably engaging with someone who is depressed. They don't even know how to make decisions when they are high. Now omeleta drama zako because you feel you're drunk or you're whatever. Let me tell you. Utae enda tu taku sahau. So just take care of yourself and the decisions that you make. When it comes to alcohol and drugs, that's your decision. Mimisita kwa mbia don't consume. That is upon you to decide if you want to consume or not. But you need to know who you're consuming it with. Ikazi akunu nulopu mbia bure doi na enda kukuswa tu piyamaisha. Another point also. For no apparent reason, just because you want free things and because you consider that's the fun that you want. Mimi I always say, if you can't afford it, don't engage. It's that simple. Because you engage and you have to follow people's people's what. You have to follow people's rules. If they are drinking somewhere and they have to drive you home drunk, you are risking yourself by being driven by a drunk driver just because you want free alcohol. Is it worth it? Also I feel like on that point of drugs and alcohol, do not engage with things you don't know how they will affect you. You are just, you are at a party. Kwanzaa this house party is most of them. Drugs are flowing and not just the normality. You know alcohol or weed. Had a drugs. So if you are there just, I would say you have never taken something and then you are there because you have been offered. Yes, I will take this. I will take this. I will take this. I will take this. They will affect you badly. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, your last words please. I just feel like let's choose friends wisely. Let's if you have to drink, drink wisely and always sleep in your house please. Uhum. Last words? Yeah. All right. So guys, just know choices are consequences. Whatever decision you make, you will definitely face those consequences. Whatever you choose to engage in, just know it will definitely have a consequence. I Abasi, you enjoy your life and please, let's just avoid you know, if you feel like you're depressed and you might cause chaos when you go somewhere, please stay in your house. And talk to people. Yeah. Talk. Or talk to people. It helps. You know, just talk to someone that you feel could listen to you or they could offer you other things to actually get your mind off the depression or the stress. There is always someone who can help you. But also remember, at the end of the day, it's in your mind. You can choose to be depressed and actually just decide one day, one time, you know I'm done with this depression. Let me look for a better choice because even if we speak to you and you have not made that decision you've not taken it upon yourself to heal, you will not. Okay? 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