 Hi, it's Fridja. It's a welcome to Above Life channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope. Today, we're going to be talking with a couple in the afterlife, Christopher Weves and his wife, Dana. All right, so let's bring them in. I could feel his energy and he's been requested. I've had other people that have requested him. And he was already on my list, so I would like to chat with him. Plus, I'm feeling very philanthropic. I feel the energy of the incredible movement in the world for more kindness and for supporting one another and coming together to support ourselves and our communities because we cannot expect the government to do that clearly for us. And so it's time for us to do that. So I wanted to, I'm really feeling mellow. I didn't feel like that before I started this video. So the energy of Christopher Weves is very mellow. Let's just see. I'm just going to close my eyes and let the... Yeah, okay. I'm going to describe to you how I'm seeing him. You know that when I connect here at Above Life channel that I use a variety of psychic gifts, different ways to connect. Claire Boyance, the gift of sight, is one of my dominant tools. So I can see him. He walks in with his wife, their arm in arm. He does have a cane though. He's walking with a walking stick or something. There's like a stick, a walking stick. He's very tall. He's very tall. Okay. And he's dressed as you would expect, I think. Like a khaki pants and like a navy blue, like a sweater that's navy blue and it's like a v-neck. And then there's a dress shirt underneath. And he's got a knot where the tie is. He's got a white shirt with navy blue pinstraps and a navy blue tie. But it's a sweater. It's a sweater. It's kind of Kennedy-like, a little bit to me. A little of that New England vibe kind of thing. So I feel the energy of his spirit is incredibly calm. He says, and he comes and he sits down with his wife. Hello. Hi, yeah. He says, I wasn't always this way. I wasn't always that calm. I took a great deal to come to that point. Chris, we, oh Christopher, I'm sorry. Can I call it, may I call you Chris? Absolutely, he says yes. Absolutely, yes. He says yes. Of course, he says yes, of course. That's what he says, his words, yes, of course. We know that you had a tragic accident resulting in you being in a wheelchair and having a tremendous amount of need for support and reliance upon others to your wife, which created advocacy and speaking opportunities and all sorts of things, the two of you together, such a dynamic duo, Mr. Superman. And I'm just really, wow, I just, you guys, you have to feel this energy. I hope you feel it. It's so mellow is the best word, like it's this calming tenderness. It's like a balanced, a really level energy. It's nice. It just makes me feel calm instantly. He says thank you, thank you. He says we are proud is the best word. I think we're proud of the legacy of what we were able to create. He says many people could look at our situation and feel sorry for us and think that life is over. My life was over. I have no regrets. There is no remorse. It was an opportunity for me to truly live without the body, the presence, that defined me to you, to you all. That could have been the end of me, but I chose for it to be the beginning. And he leans over and he kind of, he holds their arm in arm, him and his wife, and they're sitting and he reaches over and he just holds her hand. He reaches his other arm across and holds her arm. Like she is my strength. And when someone believes in you and loves you so much, how can you turn away from that? How can you just simply deny that? That kind of a love and some would see as loyalty, but he's helping me to feel like I feel, I see them connected. I see like an infinity symbol, which is like an eight, the number eight, but it's on its side, an infinity symbol with the two of them connected. And he said, without her, I could not have began. The most important part of my life was the gifts that I was given. And the times of my greatest trials, that true strength is not from the body, it transcends the body, but it also conforms to the body and the limitations that you set for yourself, whether you're an athlete or an actor. The things that are human about me, it's rather ironic. The superhero part of me is my wife without her. I couldn't have continued to exist in any kind of quality. We knew that my time would not be long. There was likelihood that infection or illness and my sensitivities would take me out. Again, sort of an irony, isn't it? Being the image of such a strong force and in body, it really is an image. That's a very true fact. I would really like to hit that one home. That the image, what there's so much to be said about the image and there is so much to be learned about true bravery and courage and the ability to change the world, regardless of how you look, what kind of car you drive, what kind of house you live in. There are really no more excuses. That's the one, one of the many powerful things that I learned. I don't want to downplay the role that my family and my parents prior to my becoming known, being a public figure of celebrity. I can't quite get the word public figure, public celebrity. I don't want to diminish at all the first half of my life and the opportunities that I was gifted and the luck that I had, I know that I created it and that I didn't do it alone. That seems like a oxymoron, I created it, but I didn't do it alone. It seems a bit hard to understand that until you've lived that, unless your beliefs allow you to believe that that it is you and many all at once, I consider myself very fortunate to have the life that I had and the opportunity to impact the lives of so many others, especially kids, is something that I, he says I will never forget, that is something I will never forget, the impact. There's a legacy aspect, of course, but it's not something that we were striving to create. It wasn't as though the clock was ticking and I had to do something to leave a legacy. It was something that naturally unfolded and my wife couldn't speak more to that and the legacy that we both have. And he says, he looks at her, oh, there's so much love, you guys. I can feel the energy like my eyes, like a motion, I feel. And he looks at her and he just, this loving adoration, just this such a respect and appreciation and he says, I'm so proud of her. I'm so proud of what she was able to accomplish, what we were able to do. She says what we did. And she says there's no, now his wife Dana is speaking. She says, there's no other option. You have to choose hope. You have to choose hope. And I leaned a great deal on my faith and I prayed a lot and I recognized that in my darkest moments, in my, it's not fair. This isn't right. I have children. Why is this happening to us, to our family after Chris died? And I feel like she has cancer. Did you have cancer? She has, she's struggling with something here. I can feel it. It starts in one spot here and then it's all over. That feels like a cancer. I'm not sure. I'm not a medical intuitive. So it's hard for me to tap into the exact something here. It's almost, oh, it's almost as though you died of a broken heart though. It almost feels like when Chris died that there was, you know, not much to live for. Aside from your children, I feel like she has boys. Does she have two boys? I don't know. She just says family, family and I feel like there's kids. And so at least, there's at least one for sure and he looks like his dad and it's a boy. I can see that. I'm in the energy flow. So I can feel the, there's a subtle power in you. There's a subtle power in you that speaks to your incredible perseverance and that's something that I don't think any of us could even begin to understand the kind of courage and bravery it takes for you, Dana to, or Dana, I'm sorry. I want to call you Dana, but I don't think it's Dana to face all that you faced, the challenges that you faced in your family, with your family, with your husband, and then for yourself. And I feel like you have a sister that's really loving and supportive. If it's not your sister, it's your sister-in-law because there's a woman that's really supportive that feels sister-sister. And thank God for her, she's giving gratitude to that, to her sister or sister. And then Christopher says, he says, he's saying boy is like multiple. There must be two. And he's saying, I knew, he says, I knew they would be okay. I knew they would be okay. They have a strength about them and they have so much love around them and family to support them. And I know that they would be okay. There's no other choice, really. You've got to believe in the best possible outcomes. And that's, I think, where a lot of people find, what a lot of people find difficult. This is Christopher Reeves talking. Where a lot of people find difficult is to really let go of what the circumstances are telling you and choose a better outcome. Choose a higher, more ideal result. Even at the circumstances, say, completely the opposite, or where everything is, you know, the cards in the deck are stacked against you. You've got to see beyond those limits and those restraints and really open yourself up to as Dana said, a higher level of hope, a high degree of hope. It's not, and Bridget, it's not so much as inspiration. It's a different type of feeling. And I hope you can discern that. I hope you can identify that. It's not even a motivation either and an action, a need for action. But it's much more of a faith, a belief in the universe and the power of individuals to really have an impact and the beliefs that we have and let that energy lift us up and move us forward without us taking a single step. That's the point, I think, of this whole process, this whole experience, what it has been and to share that with others and to recognize that everyone, absolutely anyone, could be in our situation, anyone, any family and to not have the means to be able to afford access to the support that is needed to live healthy and even a minimum of equality of life is an incredible burden for many, many, many families and that's something that is not, it's not acceptable and to be a voice for and advocate for those families, families like ours, it was an honor, it was an honor to be that, to make that conversation be heard, it was the least I could do and to give me a platform for hope and to continue to have faith and to live the best I could live as perhaps and maybe a role model for others but more a voice for the families. That's so important to us and Dana interrupts this, that's so important to us, the voice for the families, that's so important to us, so important to us. There's so many things every day and Dana talks about this, there's so many things every day that you take for granted, that we take for granted as humans, that we think, things that we do that are so easy for us to do because we have hands and fingers and our bodies are functioning and we can walk and move we take things for granted, simple things for granted and we've got to start becoming aware of those around us and the community members that we have that are in need that have different levels of accessibility and it's very important for us to recognize that and to put money behind it and to be a voice for that, to be a voice for change, whether it's changing laws, legislation, going before your school boards, whatever you need to do to advocate, not just because you're in that situation but because there are so many others who are and who can be and for those who come into of community centers and public buildings and schools, it cannot be a difficulty and cannot be something where they have to limit their participation, they've got to be just like all of us have the right to be included and if that means we have to invest in accommodating and use creative means to invent or come up with ways that we can include everyone, then we need to do that. We need to do whatever it takes, research-based and she's showing me like creative processes and research-based things and especially like kids like I say classroom stuff and I say community stuff and family stuff and I see not just I see education, education system but including that in the communities I see a lot about kids, you guys, that's what I see. So, wow. So do the two of you have any advice for the viewers here at Above Life Channel? For us, for our lives, do you have any advice that you would like to or words of wisdom that you'd like to share with us? And Dana says, go ahead, Chris. I feel that the most important thing is to get involved, is to not wait until something happens to say something, to be a voice. The things that you believe in, the things that make communities strong, you've got to recognize and support in a way that don't wait until something happens to you, things that are really important, common values, core decency, are things that we cannot we cannot ignore. It's so important for you to stand up for what you believe in and to help others when they're standing and being an advocate for those same values. Everyone has a everyone has a value and everyone has a right to live their lives to the fullest, the fullest extent that they can. Speak up. Speak up. And when others are speaking up, support them. Speak with them. It's really about that coming together and that not being afraid or of not wanting to be inconvenienced, it's really it needs to be important. It needs to be really important. And Dana says, I would Dana, sorry, I would echo those sentiments, but I would also say that it's beyond your family. Think of your community as your family. And we have to start being more aware of the inclusion of those around us and the needs of others and to invite people into conversations that sometimes are really difficult. And it's okay to not know answers, but the important part is to be open-minded that's when we can come up with creative solutions and possibilities. It's really about working together and coming together. And like Chris said, common values common values and beliefs that they're everyone has value and speaking up and supporting each other as you speak up, even if it doesn't directly impact you. When someone is speaking up and you see the courage in them, rise up, stand right behind them and support them. As they are having the courage to speak. That is powerful. Wow, that makes me like want to cry you guys. Emotional energy with Christopher Reeves and his wife Dana. Thank you so much. Thank you both so much for being here. It's so just a beautiful energy of calm and peace and very positive heartwarming messages. Thank you very much for being here. And thank you everyone, viewers here at Above Life Channel. Thank you for watching today. I hope that this video has inspired your spirit. This conversation has been so filled with hope and inspiration today. Now it's your turn. Remember, this this is your life. So live it. Just live it. Thanks for watching.