 So there's one key to kind of doing all of this, to make sure that it kind of works the right way and that you're creating the right emotions in this. And that key is to stop trying to force things, right? What a lot of women do is they try to force a guy to do all these things that they want him to do. And it usually doesn't work. And instead what you wanna do is come from a position of power. And I've been talking a lot about this position of power thing in the last few live streams that I've done. And it's vitally, vitally important because power makes it so that he wants to choose to give you the things that you want in your relationship. So he feels that he's lucky to have you and that he doesn't want to screw things up with you because you're such an amazing, valuable, awesome woman that he wants to be with. Whereas force, trying to force things, trying to manipulate things, trying to make him do things, what that ends up doing is making him want to run away, rebel and start questioning whether he really wants to be with you or not. And so the key here is to come from a position of power.