 how to know if the narcissist is cheating on you this test will help you to identify if the narcissist is cheating on you it will help you to identify if the narcissist is in a committed relationship with you and only you or if they're seeking validation from other sources of supply this test will tell you everything you need to know about the narcissist it will tell you if it's time for you to get rid of them everything you need to know about the narcissist is hidden in their phone their phone will tell you everything you need to know about them think about when you last looked at the narcissist phone when did you last see what they were doing on there to test whether or not the narcissist is cheating on you you just have to look at their phone they can hide behind their false image they're very good at deceiving people but you don't really know what they're doing if they're always hiding their phone from you that's a good sign that they may be cheating on you but it's not enough proof it's not enough to confirm your suspicions about them so you need to check their phone you need to see who they're talking to but you don't want to do this doing an argument the best time to do this is when you're having a good time when you're both calm and relaxed because that's when you're really going to be able to identify whether or not the hide is something from you ask them to exchange phones with you for an hour and then pay attention to their reaction because that will tell you all you need to know especially if they walk away from you because that means they're trying to delete messages or block phone numbers so try to keep them engaged don't let them walk away but if they do walk away from you that means that they do have something to hide or they will try to make you feel like there's something wrong with you checking their phone as though you're invading their privacy or they will tell you you're just being paranoid they will say that you don't trust them they will try to make you feel like you're doing something wrong because they know that they're doing something wrong but if they do that that's a good thing for you because then you're not going to waste any more of your time and energy on them you can invest your time somewhere else if you ask the narcissist to exchange phones and they get angry or upset that should tell you all you need to know some narcissists may even break up with you if you ask them to do that because the validation they get from the other sources of supply means more to them than you do but when you give them this test no matter how they respond it will be in your favor because even if you find out that they are cheating on you it will set you free you will know what you need to do next if you find out that the narcissist is cheating on you you should not invest any more of your time with them because that shows that they do not respect you that shows that they do not value your relationship if the narcissist has nothing to hide from you they will give you their phone but the phone isn't that important it's their reaction that should tell you what you need to know if they try to make you feel like you're doing something wrong if they tell you that you don't trust them which is why this test is very important because it will tell you if you should waste any more of your time and energy with them when you give narcissists this test most of them will fail but it's good to do this test because then you can be sure it will tell you whether or not the narcissist is loyal and committed to you thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you please like comment share and subscribe if you would like to donate my paypal link is in the video description coaching inquiries you can email me at coaching at narks have I ever go to UK thank you for watching I don't talk to you soon