 I was driving past a community centre the other day and I noticed on the advertisement board outside it was advertising Tuesday night Fight Club, Thursday night Fan Club. As I drove on I thought how true it is of our lives that inside that building there was both a fight club going on and a fan club going on and that's true inside your life too inside all of our lives that is this dichotomy this tension of a fight going on with things in ourselves that we despise want to change upgrade on and there's our own internal fan club too of things that we feel we're doing well in how far we've come celebrating our progress it's kind of love-hate push-pull light and shade thing inside us but you know that community centre itself was neutral never the fan club nor the fight club really defined that building it was just a building some of your closest relationships are the mixture of fight clubs and fan clubs some of the greatest fights you'll have with other people will reveal to you your greatest fans in life if your life is at the moment in more of a fan club than a fight club great enjoy it while it lasts if your life is more feels like a fight club right now than a fan club or I can say to you is that some of those fights that you are involved in are going to reveal some of your greatest fans and I'm going to turn up the volume on the fan energy you have towards yourself and the pride you have in you for sticking with it pushing through staying in fight club until you came out with a victory in something that really really mattered to you or in a relationship with someone else our lives are fight clubs love you guys hope that helps cheers