 What's up guys, it's your local realized man chilling out in the realized living room and I've had requests to do a video on the topic of Do looks matter when attracting girls? a question that's probably been asked thousands and thousands of times throughout history because every every guy wants to know do looks matter do looks matter Does this matter does not matter right which is cool, but I Think a more important question is why you're asking this question, right? Think about it. Why are you asking this question? Why are you asking for looks matter? Are you asking it so that you can get an excuse if I say yes, they do matter and they say oh damn mom ugly? I can't attract a woman. I can't attract a girl. I'm just gonna chill out at home and You know do what I do at home when no one's watching You have to Understand there. It's not black and white a lot of people want to live in this simple reality where everything is black and white Do looks matter. Yes, sometimes Not always it depends. It's not yes or no solution Someone who's attractive to one particular type of Woman is not attracted to another particular type of woman Someone's attractive some girls like fat guys some girls like skinny guys some girls like guys with beards Some girls like guys that look like 12 year olds some girls. It's all over the place, right? There's no yes. No your particular look Yes, it might not be the best or might not grab the most attention But if that's your look that's what you're born with you can't really complain You can't really look for alternatives or easy ways out like watching YouTube videos such as do looks matter Right you need to work on what's in your power. I'll tell you what looks matter But no in near to the degree as much as a lot of guys think Guys are under the assumption that girls are as visual creatures or their attraction is based visually just as much as guys Attractions a guy is a guy when he sees a chick, right? We see the girl the attraction is predominantly to begin with physical It's just physical traction. You see how she looks you see if she has that figure You see the hair you see what I use and you make a quick decision within a split second, but yes That's that's good that I'll take it. Let's go right the girls attraction is not exactly the same It is based off attraction physical appearances, but it's not just on that. It's also on Kind of like the emotions you can evoke in the hair how you carry yourself, you know a range of other things that are Somewhat above and beyond the sphere of male the male mind can perceive right goes a little more intuitive than guys They can pick up on small things that you might not pick up on right you can pick up on your confidence You swagger your self-esteem based off small actions that you yourself might not even think twice about so attraction for females is an Amalgamation of a range of things. It's not just one things not just looking it's not just like boom It's like that for everyone right but females muscle you have more leeway So in terms of looks what you can focus on what is in your power is your grooming and how you dress right? So you can't change your face unless you get plastic surgery or something, but you can brush your teeth You can clean your ears. You can't take care of yourself. You can you know put some nice cologne on Dress appropriately wear clothes that fit you fit your body type don't wear things that You know don't fit you don't Just don't look weird do the best That you can do in terms of what you have to work with and then work on other areas So you might not be Brad Pitt. You might not be Whoever the girls think is attractive these days Justin Bieber or some shit right you might not be that guy but You can work on other areas because attraction is not just looks as I said before it's your confidence What's your confidence like what's your inner game like right? What's your self-esteem like are you a funny guy? Do you have humor right? Do you make up feel secure? There's other areas in which you can attract a female and would you get attracted girls not just based off your look The look isn't the be all and all take a look around. There's so many guys out there that have attractive girlfriends Right, they aren't the best-looking guys. Let's be honest now. They aren't the best-looking guys That itself should tell you that looks themselves don't matter Well, I find is a lot of people use looks as an excuse These isn't an excuse to not improve themselves because they're like especially a lot of people from different nationalities love Indian guys Asian guys they always come up with these weird excuses like girls don't like Indian guys Girls don't like Asian guys Which is the biggest bullshit ever in my life. That's that's that's 100% bullshit. You don't You don't want to hold on to these convictions that are limiting you, right? Work with what you have still complain about what you don't have and see how far it takes you It's gonna take you real far. I bet you and we guys that's a video on if it looks matter More of these dating attraction videos as well because I've been getting those questions and I'm more than happy to answer Fresh from the dome straight off the top. No scripts. Of course, that's how we do it. 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