 When the narcissist finds someone else. The narcissist believes that no matter what happened when they were with you No matter how damaging or destructive the relationship was They believe that they can succeed in dealing with it And then move on with someone else as if nothing had ever happened They never took the relationship seriously They never took you seriously They saw it as a game They don't even take life seriously They see life as a game And that is why they are so reckless in their own lives But no matter how many failures they experience from their actions They continue to do the same thing again and again It just shows that they never really take into consideration The harm or damage that they have caused They never acknowledged the issue or put themselves in a position where they are able to correct it So how could they consider the harm or damage that they cause with anyone else? When the narcissist finds someone else They don't change They just play a different role Like an actor in a play or a film, but who they really are underneath that role has not changed They are still the same person Which means that they will continue to produce the same results Because they haven't changed So they will continue to do the same thing again and again Although there may be slight differences They go from one relationship to the next But they never change When you're seeing the narcissist appearing to move on with someone else You're still being fooled by a deceptive appearance or impression Just as they fooled you when you first met them You are still a part of the audience for their little show It may look like they have moved on and they are happy with someone else But you really need to question their motives What are their reasons for doing that? That is something which never changes and it is something that they don't want anyone to know They want you to be fooled by the deceptive appearance or impression They want you to see it the way that they want you to see it It might look like they have moved on with someone else But the reality is That it's not going to be any better than what you experience with them They're just playing a different role They're just with a different person But it will end in the same way as it did with you The narcissist is not going to change just by being away from you and finding someone else They want you to think that you were the cause of the problems or issues in the relationship They want you to think that you were the cause of why they were acting in that way And now that they've moved on Everything is okay, but they were already that way even before they met you And they did the same thing to someone else Before they met you they go from one relationship to the next Trying to run away from who they really are Trying to run away from the truth The truth is that once again They failed They failed with yet another person So now they want to create this deceptive appearance or impression That makes it look like they're doing good. They are hoping that you will see it They are hoping that it will hurt you and make you feel like you are missing out But it shouldn't hurt you It shouldn't make you feel like you are missing out if you know and understand That it is nothing more than an illusion They are illusionists You should not feel worried troubled or anxious about their illusions When you already know what they are about But if you continue to attach yourself to their manipulation and Watch their illusions You will continue to be manipulated It will attract your strong attention and interest And you will be deprived of your ability to resist or escape if the narcissist has found someone else You should not be concerned about it feel sorrow for the misfortunes of whoever they are with Because you already know how it is going to end The narcissist is not going to change They have a mental illness They can't just move on And be everything that someone else is looking for They will continue to do the same things again and again That they did with you And even those who they were with before you The thoughts that you are given attention and consideration to Have nothing to do with reality They have been influenced by the narcissist illusions You should already know what is going to happen and how it is going to end You have already discovered what they are about Don't be concerned about why the narcissist has moved on with someone else You shouldn't even care Because they are still the same person With the same illusions Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries you can email me at nagsfathercoaching at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon