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Instagram share.com, Facebook the same. I'm not on Twitter. Ain't nobody got time but excuse me if you're looking for a writer we have King. I like your hair. I work in the editorial department. I do editing and also do acting part time. You look like you would be a future anchor. Is there something that you want? Yeah, that's what I want. We have the face for it. Thank you, thank you. Instagram, I call myself pretty icing. I will tell them about that again. Pretty who? Pretty icing. All right. And King, Sasa. It's been a while. I've been away but I'm back. What have you been up to? I've been doing a lot of things. You know I'm a blogger. I'm a hype master. I'm an MC. And I'm a YouTuber. My name is Voke Bazenga. I'm a Voke Buddha. My government name is Kevin Pitaurinda. And I'm here today. I'm back. Kevo, do you have the traits of a Kevin in a prayer? Just asking. Not really, not really. Just a bit. I'm not at all. Not at all. I'm Voke. I'm not Kevin. We are sorry. What do you understand about the face that is good? But the face that is good, my understanding is that this girl is somebody who loves the dad. It's a lady who has been brought up by the daddy. I'm a belay zone up a lot of things. Let's say the mommy passed on or she has been brought up without the mommy. So, hold her life primary, high school till campus. I'm a Kibbuta. That is my definition of a daddy's girl. Okay. So, for the benefit of the two lovely ladies on set. And you at home, if you're just watching us for the first time, at WhiteFive on Facebook, at WhiteFive on Twitter. Hashtag is white in the money. If you feel, you have the feeling about something we said. Please also, you don't hesitate, mommy. Do you think a daddy's girl, what relationship, daddy's girl and as a behavior, do you feel it could be a difference? Okay. It really depends with that person. And it's the same. It also depends on having them to amiqua raised. Yeah. Either positive or negative. It doesn't matter. All people, okay, it depends on what that person really wants. Do you feel the opposite of daddy's girl and mama's boy? Like mama's boy. Mama's boy stand up in front of mommy. Killer time. Maybe at 5.35. And there's a baby. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. Of course, of course. So you think mommy's boy and daddy's girl, what's the difference between them? Some people have issues, because you know a daddy's girl is a person when she's used to attention. Everything she wants, it is at her disposal. Same to mama's boy. So in these two calm days, in marriage, everyone wants their attention. And in marriage, you have to be with your husband. You have to be with your husband. So some people have issues with your relationship. So you think you can be with your husband. Yes. I can be with my husband, but I can't be with my husband. And some people are like that. And sometimes I'm afraid. I have to be with my husband. I can't be with my husband. I can't be with my daddy. So I have issues with my relationship with my husband. I had a thought of it like that. I thought you can be with your husband. You know what I'm saying. Every issue your parent must know. Like you guys will never grow and move forward. I'm a daddy's boy. I'm a daddy's girl. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. Why? Mama's boy was in Pata Gato. Mama is a strong banana. She's a child. I'm a strong banana. I can also add to that. Due to that relationship, in Afghanga, that stage, like me, at this age of mine, there are some things I can share with my dad. So obviously, I prefer my mom to be in that position to understand me more than my dad. So in Pata Gato, that relationship in Afghana time, it triggers in a way. Do you have any parents? Yeah, obviously. The fact that they are normal, I can't just go to my dad and say, I'm so moody, but my mom, because it's something normal, I don't want to have a child. I won't even hesitate to face her. I don't want to have crimes. That's okay. I've met ladies who have, I want to say, been raised in traumatic homes in dysfunctional families. I want to say, the way I treat my parents, they are traumatized and they are affected so much, they can't imagine who they are. Like, she cannot imagine being someone's wife. Do you know what I mean if I ask you? How do you think that person relates to a man? Would it be difficult to date such a girl? It would be difficult, but you'll be the psychiatrist for that lady. She is a psychologist who tries to understand and to understand. Because I don't want to be close to anyone and I want to be close to everyone. I want to be close to everything next to what we do. So I want to understand and to understand because I'm sure one day you'll have a feeling of romance and a feeling of being in love. If you were to test your parents in the end, you'd say, I'm the wife of someone in my life, but the moment you understand her and take her slowly, one day she will accept and at the end of the date. Do you feel like you're in a relationship with a brand or a machine? Do you think they're there? Yeah, they are, and I don't say I haven't come across any so far. Talking and action, those are two different things. Very sweet, drop course. What do you feel? I feel when you're raised in a family where your dad is meeting your mom it's quite traumatic because I have a friend when she says she won't get married. She prefers having a sponsor because she doesn't have a commitment because she's married and she needs to have a free life because to her all men are the same. When you're married, all men are the same. This man will come to be different than the dad. And then in this day's marriage, they say it's the beginning but as you continue and you progress, things change. So sometimes marriage is something such a girl can fear because what will happen next? I imagine they had children they had let's say if it was us if it was a family so what happened? So what happened exactly? Where did they go? So if it could happen to them it could happen to them. So you already have a family who has a sponsor for example. So what happens is the general assumption is you don't have a sponsor and you don't have two daughters. But imagine a scenario but you don't have a sponsor. And then not everyone who wants a sponsor needs money some just needs a father figure because if I didn't get it from my dad I can't go to a young man who's the same age I need an older person and that older person can't just give me the father figure without me giving him something else it's a two-way thing I want a father figure but I don't want a father figure Do you think that's fair? Yeah, I don't see any problem with that Really? So do you want to go to a young man just for the sake of having that fatherly love? Okay, you know as in Venyomisema that's a friend of mine and I believe so long as she's comfortable maybe I'll try to talk to her but remember at the end of it it's a decision that she has made so I'm like if you're comfortable with that then that's okay Would you make the same decision? Honestly? No I'll say no because I think I'm getting enough from my dad Yeah? That's very important guys She's getting enough So because all girls so if your dad gives you attention you don't necessarily have to So I think all my attention seekers they have problems with their dad I don't want them to pay too much attention like I'm way too to lay out with him I don't want them to share I don't want them to find out that he's a man relax Are we saying they have daddy issues Not all of them Some just have issues I need them to unappend and both mom and dad but still they just want everyone to love them and in this world some people will have to hate you you can't accept no you must love me I don't want them to notice that I'm in the studio Some people don't know how truly I they don't believe they pay attention to you because they're all human beings we need someone to care for us So I don't want them to know that I'm from inborn Attention seekers What do you think of attention seekers I don't want them to pay attention because I don't want them to be angry I don't want them to know that I'm a woman I don't want them to treat me like that Is that a problem because the standards are high I don't want them to know that I'm a woman I don't want them to treat me like that I just want my dad to give me 10,000 bobs give me money I don't want them to know that I'm a woman I don't want them to know that I'm a woman I don't want them to know that I'm a woman It's a good thing So when you're in a challenge I see you. Okay, so we're about to get to the slides that Terri didn't get my coffee, slow clap. Thank you so very much my efficient Terri for doing this for me But first, hi Val, I'm Ken. I once dated a daddy's girl She could mention my daddy a thousand times during one hour date, but I don't know if she's a good girl or a bad girl This is the reason I broke up with her. She wants to date her daddy's girl And she just kept talking about her dad over and over and over Because I'm grown up back That's a, you know the reason you broke up with her. I see, the reason, and after some time, I can understand you So I'm a small woman. Is there anyone else who's like that? Yes, there's someone else who's like that, apart from me Baby, I'm sorry to make you laugh, but Sick advice. Hi Val, I'm Chantel and I'm daddy's girl. I was at home when I was a kid I was with my mom. Kindly help Wow But it's I have met I have met a girl who has a very strange relationship with her mom Simply because her dad and her have a very strong bond Like when she was a kid, she would stay at home around the two of us and she just wants to see her dad And wants to take care of her, him brother, and picky, and I would be like, you know, with your mom and your father-in-law And when you're with your father-in-law and you see out of spite or anything malicious I'd like to think, maybe later on I'm tender, but my mom is also happy and easy How do you imagine life is? Such a kind of life is. Okay, I can say that It depends on the age of your parents Like at this age of mine So I have a job, I have a son. I know my mom, she's there Me cooking, it's not a bad thing, but I think that's my mom's Responsibility, I can't be doing that every day. So my mom, she'll be like, why is she doing all this all the time? That is insecurity, because at the end of the day, you know, but there are many stories coming up Her dad slept with her, with his own child So I think it makes sense She wouldn't want something like that to happen And at the end of the day, she doesn't want anything That girl, that is something she's hiding And that's why maybe she's behaving in such a way Oh, what do you think she's behaving? Ah, okay, I mean mentally, my mom is like that Yeah, and that's why she'll be kind of feeling insecure How do you think, now, the funny thing is about this particular person I hope she doesn't have a sense of being alive But in this situation, she tells me, she's very close to her dad She doesn't want anything like that to happen So in love, in love, I'm happy Then I think they had a fight with their mom And then her dad told her to go somewhere She didn't want her mom to be there She didn't want to go anywhere So she went to live with her boyfriend and then got pregnant And then this boyfriend in particular Used to beat her while she was pregnant But her dad was, you know, her rock Like, still is her rock, so she'd take her happy See, it's not the way your dad treats you It's not the way people treat you But what happened here? But you know, men are different There are men who, okay Maybe that guy, the background is different Because there are guys who are their dad and their mom But they grow their mentality This is the right way to treat a woman This is love Yeah, because they've never seen any other form of love to them To them, beating you, it's love So some of them don't even know Because I'm my dad And they say I'm not the same Because men are different So you consider the background of this person Even before getting into any relationship You must consider what you're getting yourself into Are you ready or are you not ready? Yeah Let me add something to that When I say manga, you're saying about You have to know the background of that person But trust me, people they can pretend Though, I also, they also say men They don't pretend for long But pretending, trust me, they can pretend And like right now, Patem too Like, wow, he's the best man He's everything that I've always wished for He's something that I've always wanted to have But at the end of the day You have to get into that marriage That's when the real him You're getting to know the real him So people are going to challenge You can't just say You have to check the background and stuff You can't judge men Men, there's something else In case it happens to me I'm not sure if it's true I can't take chances I must investigate for real Because I can't turn into something I'll get the boost in two months I'll go I'll be back if you're everyone I'll make sure I know who you are Even if you pretend that you're the best man I still want to know your parents When you're with them You have to meet them I must know It's out of an investigation Before you move in with that dude You should have You had an investigation Before You have to introduce your dad You have to know your dad You have somebody Straight forward Let me correct you Some people say They want to tell you Trust me They won't say the truth about that person They just say He was a good person He was so nice And all that Don't expect When you're on an investigation You'll get everything that you want to know That's quite obvious He was a positive person Everything about him was so good But at least Everyone can be a liar You won't even have that negativity You won't even have that negativity But I will hire someone If my heart will fail me Let me ask you Is it an advantage that guys take up? Is this something that guys take advantage of? I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know So I told my mom On Friday I told my mom I'm not going to be there I'll be there You have absolutely no respect for her Now she's not going to be there What I dream of So I can just do whatever I want Is that how guys... Of course there's a percentage Men tend to be pretenders So they do pretend as the first day That how much they do respect you How much they do love you But at the end of the day They don't love you that much They respect you kiddo go And then Because you don't respect her They do respect you But if you have a kid Then you can't be happy So you don't want to go And then you have to go So that's why you take advantage of someone Who does not have a father to take advantage of So you take advantage So you take advantage I told myself That I'm working hard And I'm going to be there I'm going to be there and if Good morning. How are you? Now I would like us to start with the Now I would like us to start with the The slides are just templates that have a couple of suggesting questions that will guide the conversation. So we see what we have not touched on daddy's girl. Any minute now, I'm ready. WhiteFife on Facebook, at WhiteFife on channel Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning. Natukatu ki tokapatu kuna solution, sindio. Solution here, since this is affecting girls and relationships, how they relate to their dad. What happens if you don't have a dad? If you don't have a dad, you're not going to have a dad. Or you've lost your father. How does that work? How do you think that would work? Okay, to me, I think that's, I'll put that into a personal way. It depends with the kind of life that you want to live. There are some people that have grown without fathers. And trust me, they really respect themselves and they know what they want in life. Um, and that mother, I'm a play both roles father and mother at the same time. But you find that daughter, she's very much satisfied with what she's getting, you see. Yeah, so it depends on what you want, how you want to live. You might have that father and trust me, your life will be too miserable. Yeah, so that's all I can say. When you are getting into a relationship or relations or a situationship, whatever kind of ship you're in. Do you think, okay, should this progress any father? Should we procreate to put him to him and say, this is the kind of person you'd want your child to have as a father? Because it's important. My uncle once told me a man you think is good enough to sleep with is good enough to be your child's father because sleeping and fathering, So, okay, is this the guy I'd like to be the father of my children? Um, me sometimes, actually, what I always say, I look for a father to my kids, mother and husband, because if anything happens to you to a child, this guy will always be there too, like for our kids. So, I must look at the traits when you're at home. Um, because, Like, I see the The apple does not fall from the tree. So, I'll actually look at the traits of my husband or my boyfriend. Do I want him to be the one at the risk of getting pregnant? Do I want him as a father or as a husband? What do you think of, Amai is too deep. I'm not going to talk about it. I'm language too. Okay, I think that's the question. The problem with us ladies, to keep in touch with my husband, at one point in our reality, this person, he can't even fit to be a husband, someone's husband, am I to be a dad? But due to the fact that to my husband, we don't want to look at other facts, none of that. So, that's kind of challenging. You may think to your husband, this is what I want, but I don't want him to fit to be there. But you don't want to look at other things. You don't want to look at other things. You have all the answers in your fingertips. But you're like, maybe I can change, maybe I can be a husband. As you know, trying to force things and you don't want to do these things, it can't work. Imagine you two were in a relationship, known as Skiyaki Onge, to her girls. Like, hey, man say, I don't want to look at other things, but I'm playing out. I'm not going to change. That's how people just start going to church, and I'm going to be married to my son. And I'm going to be in that field. I'm going to be in that bad-dots' house. I'm going to be in that bad-dots' house. How would you feel about that? How would I feel when she's in a relationship and she's... I don't want to say that I'm a man, I'm a woman, but I'm married to my son. Let me tell you something. Let's assume that we're married, and I paid the money, and I'm going to be married to my son, and everything, and I'm married. Then, there are issues with marriage, and to separate. You know, at the end of the day, I'm going to make a visit when she comes along. She will come with me, she will invite me to hell, and she will be free. No, no. So, I'm going to be in that bad-dots' house, and then, when she comes along, we'll go to her wedding and I'll... I'll take her to the court to pray for her. So it's possible that you're going to be married... I'm glad you agreed. Meanwhile, let's go to the slides now. Remember, Y-254 on Facebook, at Y-254, channel on Twitter. How do girls who have been pampered deal with low self-esteem, especially in a relationship? So how do girls who have been pampered deal with low self-esteem, especially in a relationship? So, umeshinda e, manzee. Dadi na takai, anakpe. Dadi na takai, anakpe. Even though you know it's very unreasonable. Umeshiangatu, vitwata azik, wata e monyu, na kaun na tulis, oki. But violence. But na pe watu? And then you come into a relationship where, e, manzee, estimiakos juiko api. How do you deal with that? Pregnant pause. They feel like the whole world is theirs. You see, these girls who are being pampered, they're giving everything. One feeling you too, na haon doku sema. But what's the school that I reached to? Let's say God forbid, let's say dadi pasang. Pasang zon. How will they feel? They'll be like, what? So sa haon do na ita hai, maintenance. We're membership here. So na ka klabu? Ko zi no atam, kuna sa men who are not financially stable, le kia dad. So kina kua relationship, na imtresuk pelaka, java kila si ku mananda kula place ingine, kuna wene uta feel. Frenza ko wakuna, the rich, rich boy, frenz na yu ko tropa na ka hasla. So kuna wene estimiaku uta kuachini, ko zun jaka kua kama ulede, mananda kfc, mananda wapi. Mananda kfc, mananda wapi. Mm-hmm. So nyim na tuka kula izini ama zini, kuna kemi ko z, uta ikulam tura, on na saasa. Does she always relate her father to the men she gets into a relationship? But like, does she mirror na suna ok? Uiu simre fuka babangu, ok? Anongi aminji babangu, ame tulia. Uiu, mi babangu stays kia kisha, utu anan chauti aji. Of course, of course. They do relate, they do relate. Wene uta change kama mana ume, ama uta mabia stepping, uta futa mana metu, anakatu babangu. See, at a, at a call like, ah, you don't buy newspaper like Meda Jida's, you don't, you don't, you don't give me at a time like Meda Jida's, you don't do everything. Yes, at a fa na comparison, I, you know, chali kuna kua, jimbuna kuka mabuda. So it up in the step up. It's true. Now, I'm coming over to do. However, I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. I'm braio. However, this is one chance, my dad literally cried during my wedding and even affected, it even affected my honeymoon as I cried throughout being separated from him. Sort of good thing being a daddy's girl. And I would think this is a lie, but I think I've seen it. Like, father's house, he lives, father's house you become one. He's like a father to me, he's like a mother to me. And I think, mm, mm, mm, mm, Okay. But I기자 I just missed my dad. Okay. Next slide please at Y-54 on Facebook at Y-54 channel under the hashtag is why in the morning What is the hardest thing about dating a daddy's girl? If you have ever dated a daddy's girl, or you've heard people who have dated a daddy's girl The hardest thing about dating a daddy's girl Is there a standard for you to go back and forth? But when you don't have to go through the challenges, isn't that right? Yeah, you don't have to go through the challenges at times But But you know the challenge is a failure It's a challenge to love your husband You don't have to go through the challenges at times Because you keep shooting your shots no matter how many times you get I don't want to go through the challenges at times The moment a dude is caught, I will win heart to you I will lose my husband I will go through the challenges Now you are a mother You are a cousin Let's say You are used to a certain type of treatment You are used to having the final things in life See, the last time you had a connection with a daddy But you are used to it But when you are waiting for someone to have a type of species of man Professional time-wisters This is a dream Are you willing to Are you ready for that? Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay Okay You have to keep on trying, and trust me, out of the path I'm in, I think I have to change. Maybe I'm the one who has the problem. I really like that you've said that. There's no perfect man, just pick a demon and then keep pouring anointing oil. Just keep pouring, pouring, pouring to change. It's her father's attention, the drive for looking for a sponsor, because she feels he will play the role of her father. It's this phrase a bit differently, but to me, it's the same. Just tell me you're so, no? Do you think so? Yeah. Can you figure it out? Her father's attention, we did the drive to want to have a sponsor, like Nataka. In fact, sometimes I feel it's not even necessarily about the exchange of money or goods, lol, money or goods. But anyway, it's not about that exchange. Generally, you have to be in a car and you have to pay for it. She likes the conversation. She likes to be in a car and you have to pay for it. She likes to be in a car and you have to pay for it. Now which one is bringing me money? I think the moment you're on campus, and your father is in a car, he has to take the money to get a sponsor, because he has a job. He doesn't have to pay for his money. So, he has to pay for the sponsor and then he has to give the sponsor. You're so talented. You're the one who has to be up there and to be up there. You're the one who is up there and to be up there. I'm not the one that's up there. But there are some girls who look at maturity. So, these young men, their kind of maturity is low, so they prefer older men because they think about their future. I don't know if it's because of the future. Do you think it's because of Friday? Yes, I think it's because of the future. I don't know if it's because of the future. I don't know if it's because of the future. Before we finish this up, I hear we're running out of time. What happens if you're intact with your dad's relationship with you is quite strong. Okay. and as I take that advantage, I can do it with the capacity of love that you have for him. He has a lot of mentalities. Oh, you can do it. Yes, I can do it with this lady. She can do anything for me. Oh my gosh, they like you. Yes, it's because you've showed him, I can give you everything. I can give you anything that you're asking me for. But at the end of the day, you'll do everything for that man. He'll ask you, baby, when this, when that, you'll be there for him. But don't expect the same thing in return. Because he's with me. This is a mission, just a contract. Yes, this is a mission, just a contract. This person is with me. This person is with me. Together? Yes, together. So, this is the amount of money. Okay. Thank you. Unfortunately, we got to go out so quickly. Facebook at 2544. Hashtag is white in the morning. We have been talking about that. This girl. Hey, that is girl. Please don't forget to tell me. Later on today. Thank you. You don't want to miss it. Wake up bright and early. Thank you for being with us. Have an amazing day. This is where we wave.