 I've just been watching you and I've just seen you was talking. I know you always talk about high value men like us women. We shouldn't want a high value man. And I just. Well, I say you shouldn't that's not what you say. I'm not going to put words in your mouth. I want you to get mad at me for putting words in your mouth because that's not what you say. I just hear what other ladies get on here and say that you say, but I apologize. I'm a little nervous because I wasn't expecting for you to accept my request and I'm at work. So well, me as a. So how long have you been watching a few weeks now? What made you decide to start watching? I really like I really like the. The advice that you give on some women because us women, we really do all think we should have a high value mean a high value man. Have a good night. Some of the things you say do be right. Like. What do I say that's wrong? You have said has been wrong because I know me. I have a attitude and like I can. I don't know. I'm 26. But I'm changing. Do you want me and I want to have you want to be married? But right now I'm I'm a I'm the oldest so I take care of my younger siblings. No, my father was killed. Your father in the house. I have three younger siblings. How many siblings do you have? I am from Baton Rouge from Louisiana. Yeah, I'm going to say the red stick. Three seven teenage girls. They twins and a younger brother that's 11. All right. So you grew up. They say I grew up fast because I was adopted. Mimi. Okay, what age did you come into the family? Coming to the family. That's what my mom had me. Because if you don't, you're the oldest now. Why she took care of him. She's incarcerated and I've been helping her with them. Okay. Okay. Yeah, I mean, I always had a job since I was 16. I've always kept the job. I've been in school. Okay. Well, yeah. So you grew up fast because I mean, if your mother is incarcerated and you are the responsibility of my children and you're 26. Right. Effectively your mother not a sister. When was the last time you dated? About a year ago. I had a boyfriend about a year ago. We were together for a year actually. He was we got back together. We were together in high school, went a few years. And then we got back together and then it didn't work out. I'm sorry. When will your mother be out? It's still, I'm not sure. I think it's gonna be a few years. But 11. And how old is the youngest? You got seven. I'm praying not to be alone. But if so, then yes. Well, I mean, your mother's incarcerated and all of it fell onto you. It sounds like is there anybody else in the family helping it was just up to you. She does. She helps. They have a dad, but the children are right. Right, but the children reside in the same house with you. They live with their father, but they come to me on weekends or I get them on holidays. So. Okay. I'm saying something's gonna sound really harsh. Mama had those children not you. They're not your responsibility. You know, you do love them. 26 is your time. And if you decide to sacrifice, you'll likely end up in good on because you tend to grow up fast and step into responsibilities that arguably young ladies should not have to step into. And it shouldn't, you know, that kind of like it or not women. Men are supposed to be out dealing with the stress of the war. Right. That's the way it's designed. The women like yourself young out dealing with this stress it overloads you, ages you, it jades you. And what I'm saying is so if not what is giving you permission, I'll give you permission. Give them to the daddy. You're not his wife. You didn't make the babies give them to the dad. Right. You're the sister, not the wife. And if it's too hard, give them to the daddy and move out of baton. Oh my goodness. That's really was your address. I've always wanted to move. Honestly, because I'm into the beauty industry now. Now, I have my own apartment. We have a car. Okay. Is it one bedroom apartment? Sell everything in your apartment except your clothes. Oh my God. Get the fuck out. I really need to hit this because I'm this really my siblings was is what's keeping me here. Honestly. No, that's why I said go to Dallas. Or Houston. I won't. I think I was just a little bit more up and booty. Houston is going to teach you carry your ass on the Dallas gone over to Dallas. Send her a postcard and a Walmart gift card every now and then they'd be alright. All right. Have a good night. All right. Bye bye. Live your life.