 All right, oh, here we go. Wendy Willis, question. I'm looking to have a committed relationship with emotionally available 60 to 70 year old man. Is it realistic to believe that men in that age group even understand emotional intimacy? Let me be candid with you. The number of men who understand emotional intimacy at that age bracket is actually commensurate to the number of women who understand emotional intimacy. Ladies, as I say before, and I'll say it again, just because you have a habit vomiting your emotions doesn't make you any better at being emotionally intimate. In fact, it's interesting. One of the fundamentals of most, one of the lack, distressing lack of, okay, let me backtrack. One of the challenges in dating today is most human beings lack emotional maturity. It's not about emotional intimacy, emotional maturity. Their actions match their words. They have victor consciousness and not victim consciousness. And sadly, here in the United States, the vast majority of the population is suckling on the nipple of victim consciousness here. Number three, they know how to fight fair. What means is they know how to actively listen when there's friction in a relationship and they're not trying to win, they're trying to resolve. Number four, empathy. And empathy isn't just I could feel your feelings. Empathy is I care about your feelings and I care about my own feelings. Oftentimes when we're struggling in our relationship, all we care about, my feelings met, my feelings met, my feelings met, that's rather narcissistic. So empathy isn't just about your feelings, it's about mutual feelings and lastly transparency. Transparency means if it's material to the relationship you're going to speak up. So going back to your original question, what's the percentage of men who have the capacity of emotional intimacy? It's the exact same number of women. This isn't a gender issue because here, look, this chart, emotional maturity relationship skills chart, by the way, this is not a fact, this is my opinion. Roughly 20% of the population has clinical issues, meaning they're borderline, they're bipolar, they're narcissistic, they're sociopath and maybe some people are aware enough to actually work on their stuff, most don't, okay? Then the 20% of the population is emotionally healthy. I'm being ridiculously generous when I say that because the vast majority of humans are dysfunctional in their relationship and emotional maturity. This is true of men and women alike, this is equal. Ladies, you gotta let go of this fantasy just because you can vomit your feelings doesn't mean you're any better at expressing yourself. So with that said, to answer your question, it's the equal number of men and women. Most people say, well, where are all these people? Where are all these people? They're everywhere. Do you know how you get to meet them? By being radically honest right up front because you overwhelm the wrong person quickly and the right person goes, tell me more, tell me more, tell me more, tell me more. All right, I think that covers that. All right, Lynn says true. Kim says, mutual feelings, transparency. Let's see.