 Jake Paul and his family and his friends and everybody around him and everything. I can't do this anymore What is this? What the fuck? Well, I just finished watching the finale of the Shane Dawson series inside the mind of Jake Paul And I think we all owe Shane Dawson an apology, but there's also some really good lessons We can learn about this whole situation Up everybody, this is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution And if you're new to my channel, my channel is all about trying to help you with your mental and emotional well-being So what I've been doing is pulling different mental health topics from the Shane Dawson Jake Paul series and Using that to teach you how to improve your mental health So if you need that kind of stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell So first I want to send a huge thank you to everybody who came and joined the live viewing party Like we were in there for like three and a half hours And it was awesome because we were able to get my friend Kay from the channel Bipolar Pug We're able to get her to a thousand subscribers, which is amazing She is one of my favorite mental health channels and she's a good friend and Zach the editor I'm gonna link down in the description below His family is going through a rough time. So he had to go fund me started So if you want to donate to that even if you could do a dollar five dollars, whatever it is But Kay and Zach are also moderate rating as well as my beautiful girlfriend Tristan And one of my friends who's a fellow youtuber positively Udo was also moderating the channel I'll link positively Udo down in the description too. But anyways, the live stream was lit. All right So this is interesting this video is actually something that I have planned but like I really wanted to make it even more so after watching this So like my my overall reaction to the finale like if you if you watch like my live stream I was clapping. I was like dang like Shane Proved everybody wrong Shane proved everyone wrong and it's interesting too because before the final the finale came out earlier today Shane actually commented on my video Where I'm talking about how Alyssa violet is manipulating Shane Dawson and Shane Dawson commented this Haha, I'm definitely not being manipulated. I'm letting people say what they feel is their truth But I'm not trying to fight them on it because that's not what I do Except when it comes to Jake because he's the main subject of the series Hope you like the finale. So I actually share this over on my instagram and uh, yeah And like this is like just one of the things like I read people and that's why I love doing these videos because I read people Right and Shane is just like a really legitimately good guy Like I can't tell you how Shane has like restored my faith in youtubers like over the last year I reached out to people just to say hi or chat and they blow me off like they blow me off and I'm talking like Way smaller like way smaller than Shane Dawson and Shane Dawson actually takes the time to comment on this stuff Like Shane's a good dude Shane is a good good dude But anyways, so I'm gonna be completely honest with you and my girlfriend might not like that I'm telling you this but like I saw Shane commented I'm like, okay cool. And then I get self conscious. I'm like, oh my god Like did I make Shane mad? Like did I make Shane mad? So I actually shot him an email Just like hey, dude, I just want to you know make sure and stuff And I I pretty I kind of knew that he didn't think I was being malicious or you know Anything like that, but I sent him an email just like hey, man, you know, um, I try to word things very carefully I try to say, you know, these are assumptions. This is what's going on Yeah, no and all of that and like Shane, you know emailed me back and he's like no man I totally get it, you know, so like thank you Shane for reaching out amazing guy But anyways, I think that's a good topic too Like you know when you get self conscious, especially if you're like a people pleaser And we don't like making people mad at us, you know, and it's it's just interesting It's just like I never want and that's one of the reasons why I made my follow-up Alyssa Violet video I don't I don't want people to get the wrong idea of me and sometimes I can't change that but in some instances I can change that right so like with the Alyssa Violet follow-up video I wanted to make sure you had a more well-rounded view, but anyways Shane like I'm gonna say right now. I think Shane could be a therapist I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know if I need to like go into any more detail really I think Shane has a lot of skills to be a therapist and here's why So as some of you know, I work in drug and alcohol treatment and basically what we're what we're seeing from throughout the series is that Shane Dawson sat down And this is something that we were wondering like is Shane trying to fix people is he gonna call him out on their stuff Like Shane for all of the other seven episodes was just sitting down You know like not all seven but like with Nick Cronkin with Alyssa Violet You know, he was just sitting down and letting people share their truth. That was it He was just keeping his mouth shut But like we saw clips in this video like Shane was losing his mind, right But in this finale video just on it on it every single time He called Jake out every single time and like Shane said in that comment that he left Like the main focus of this series, which I think we all forgot over these last few weeks The main focus of this series was Jake Paul It wasn't inside the mind of Alyssa Violet. It wasn't inside the mind of Nick Crompton or Erica Costell It was it was the mind of Jake Paul So Shane took all this and like they did an amazing job editing Amazing job editing like throughout this like I can't like I have even more respect for them not knowing like I already had this respect of their two man team But the way they edited this and like the amount of footage that they put in But the reason why they edited so well, they would show video evidence Of Jake Paul contradicting himself They would show video evidence of Alyssa Violet contradicting herself and by the way Zach and I have like a million notes. So I have a lot of videos planned. There was so much to take from this almost two hour video Okay, I mean Zach is going to be overworked, but it'll be worth it Zach. I promise Like we were wondering like is Shane being manipulated is Shane not seeing this Shane saw all of it Shane ain't no fool Shane saw it But like the reason I was saying like Shane could be a therapist is like Shane had the same look at on his face like I deal with People with drug addictions and alcohol addictions and they're they're big BSers right and like I get that same look that Shane does It's just like kind of like uh-huh Uh-huh like just feed me your bull. You know what I mean? Um Zach edit that bleep that But like I get that same look like yeah, just feed it to me just keep giving it to me Right and then after you're done I'm gonna call you out on it and that's exactly what Shane did The other thing is is like I was originally gonna make this video just like sorry Shane like sorry because I empathize with you because Throughout this series throughout this series Shane has been getting backlash Just left and right left and right from the whole Stigmatizing mental illness to the better health thing to the katie mourn stuff to Being nice to jake paul and his family and just Shane has been getting hit from all directions, right? And I feel so bad for him, okay And then aside from that aside from the millions of people Just freaking out right then Shane's also putting up with Dealing with these kids And like you saw Shane like throughout this episode have these like little miniature mental breakdowns and I get it They're all lying to each other and lying to themselves. We looking jake is bad. He did this Oh, erica's like oh, we should she's bad. She did this phase is like oh It's just all I get it like he like Shane is a 30 year old man And he's talking to these kids and Shane has matured and learned these things like you guys if I'm just being honest with you I I love playing fortnight with my son and I could play with him for a while But like sometimes he'll like invite a friend to play with us too I could play maybe one or two games, right? So like I can empathize with Shane in that regard and I think you know That's the overall lesson. I want to teach in this video is empathy Empathy empathy empathy like you know I talked about it a little bit like when Shane was sick and in bed and the lack of empathy that people have But like but look what Shane's doing to put out this content and the stress He might be under like I'm working on my own little film projects right now Like very tiny and like what Shane's doing at this scale is just bananas And and just there's a there's a lot of entitlement and lack of empathy, right? So the last subject I want to talk about which I think is the biggest lesson that everybody needs to learn from this Is like we judge things way too quickly. We make these snap judgments This was an eight part series and people were freaking out by episode two, right? We didn't have this whole well rounded picture. I'm guilty of it, too You know what I mean? I'm like we didn't have this whole picture And you know when I saw this when I saw Shane Being who we wanted him to be calling Jake out being brutally honest giving him tough love and all these things I'm like, dang We were assuming all these things of shame, but like here's where the empathy comes in So it's interesting because I have a perfect example. This actually happened to me today on instagram From the post from the post where I posted that uh, Shane Dawson's comment on my instagram. I posted it I mentioned something about my video about Alyssa violet playing the victim and somebody in the comments on there blew my comment section up They blew my comment section up. So I replied to the first comment and I said judging by this comment I don't think you watched my video Then she made another comment and I'm like, okay Now I know you didn't watch my video Then she put her opinion 10 more times based on like a small instagram post When I have a laundry list of videos, right? So if I don't want people judging me for a very small part of who I am or my content How is it fair of me or how is it fair of you to judge someone like Shane for two videos in an eight-part series? And like yeah, we're all entitled to our own opinions and judgments But I just want you to check in with yourself like that because this is something that I deal with as a youtuber I get I get passerbys all the time like a lot of you are subscribed to my channel and you have the notification bells turned on And but there's a lot of passerbys. There's some people who just the algorithm recommends one of my videos to them They they see one of my videos you guys I have over 500 videos on my channel They see one video of mine one 10 minute video of mine And they think they have this well rounded picture of me and they don't so I often have to think If I don't like when people do that to me, how is it fair that I do that to other people? So just think about that, you know, it seems like that cliche old saying like You know treat others the way that you would want to be treated But it's some real stuff like we need to treat others the way that we want to be treated No matter if they're a youtuber or whoever it is like I I I empathize with people and I think a lot of people deserve another chance I think a lot of people deserve forgiveness Why because I screwed up a lot in my life and I want forgiveness One thing I'll touch on lightly real quick is You know, Shane Dawson when talking with uh, Jake Paul about the Martinez twins and you know some borderline like racial things, right? Like Shane Dawson could empathize because he went through that. So who would Shane Dawson be to Going hard on Jake Paul for that when Shane Dawson has been accused of that kind of stuff in the past You see what I mean? But anyways anyways, I think we all own Shane Dawson and apology So here's what we're gonna do if you're on twitter if you're on twitter. Let's all tweet at Shane Hashtag sorry Shane. All right. Hashtag sorry Shane But anyways, I want to hear from you guys down in the comments below Do you feel that you you have these snap judgments? Do you judge people way too quickly before you really get to know them? Let's talk down in the comments below my girlfriend said something in the live stream She said a lot of this boils down to black and white thinking and it's so true. So let's talk down in the comments All right But anyways, that's all I got for you with this video if you like this video Please give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell Because I have a lot a lot of videos coming out about this last episode in the different mental health topics And a huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon You're all amazing and if you would like to support the channel over on patreon You can do it for as little as a dollar click or tap right there. All right. Thanks so much for watching hashtag. Sorry Shane