 The government, their involvement has destroyed the institution of marriage. They don't give many couples options and they interfere. I try to advise men of what they can anticipate if they decide to be married. If they don't do their due diligence and they rely on the media to sell the marriage, which they say it's about love. Well, then what's going to happen is he's going to find out the hard way that there are judges, mediators, lawyers, child support offices, child protective services. A lot of people that are involved in the institution of marriage, which benefits the court if your family is destroyed.