 So check this. Your ear has three bones in it, for those of you guys that don't know that. Those bones used to be part of your jaw, right? When you were a reptile, slash fish, slash, never mind, reptile, you had these, and what they would use is reptiles sent vibrations in the ground with their jaw. And so these bones would vibrate and let them know what was around. And then it became a lot more efficient to just move them up into our ears, add an amplifier over it or whatever, and pick in sound and send sound vibrations instead of ground vibrations. Are you all with me so far? Did I lose anybody in that? I'm not good at teaching anatomy or whatever, but that's basically how it works. So, have you ever noticed that when someone strokes you, it feels good? Thank God for that. And when, because that would freak me out. After the whole, the guy that couldn't tell if a guy was smiling, she was stroking me to irritate me. I'd be like, dude, we're in trouble. Yeah, it feels good. But if someone punches you, it doesn't feel as good. It's a harsh hit. Well, in the ear, if you whisper to somebody, it's a gentle vibration. It feels good. If you scream in someone's ear, that's like a punch. It's the equivalent. So these sound vibrations, it's a big deal. If a girl is willing to whisper, she's triggering that in you. And if you're whispering back to her, she's allowing you to trigger into her. You know how you'll know that it doesn't work? She will move the fuck away and will not let you whisper in her ear. She'll be like, no, you're fine there. Thank you very much. Keep talking from there, at distance. I can hear you. I can lip read at you. I don't even need to hear what you're saying. I'm not even listening. I don't even care. That's what she'll do if she does not want to talk to you. If she wants to talk, she will accommodate. She will listen. Now, here's the fun one. And this is the best. You ever heard that, you know, three signs a girl likes you and that's it, you're in or whatever. That's not necessarily so true. When you start to see these things, you'll notice that what happens is they increase in frequency. And so what happens is, you can literally, you can almost time it. And you can be like, oh, there's a sign. Oh, there's another sign. Oh, there's another sign. And another one. And another one. And another one. And as the pace of these signs increase, the girl is more and more attracted to you. You'll see her knee will move closer and try to make contact. She'll try and touch you. She'll lean in, she'll listen more. She'll flick her hair behind her ear. She'll smile, she'll laugh at the wrong moment. All of these signs start throwing at you and they speed up. If you do not do anything about it, when they start speeding up, you know what happens? The momentum goes, they slow down again. And you just missed out on that opportunity. Maybe you can build it up again and build it back up. If you don't, you miss out on that opportunity. That is how this shit works. I've sat there with one of my instructors analyzing this. We just watch it and I'm like, watch on the clock. She's roughly every 20 seconds at the moment. And you see it, tick, tick, tick. Just ticks over, one after the other. And then I'm like, oh shit, it's speeding up. That was like 10 seconds there. This guy better make a move. And then you'll see me. I'll walk by, I've got like the app blurb. You guys seen the app? So much fun for teaching. It's like a scrolling banner across your phone. And I'm like sneaking behind the girl, trying to get the student to like see it. And it's like, escalate now, fucking now. And I'm like trying, and then the girl looks at me and I'm like, oh my God, yeah, that picture was so good. Now, motherfucker, escalate, fucking do it. Oh, that's a good picture. What do you think of the picture, man? It's so good. I'm like, dude, stand over there. Let me take a picture of you. Now, now. And of course the student didn't see it. He doesn't escalate. And then the girl, you see her. She starts using interest. And you know what happens then? What does she do next? She starts type one glancing around the rest of the room. You guys ever seen that? This guy, I know he's seen it, right? You've seen it. She starts type one glancing around the rest of the room. Some other guy comes up, orders a drink. And the next thing you know, bam. You've missed off it. I had a friend of mine. I took him to London. I took him to Essex. If any of you have never been to Essex, you're like, you know, right? I've got a friend from Essex. Right. Essex, if you want to learn game fast, just go to Essex. Everything's on drugs. Everything's literally on drugs, but it's faster. You have to go. And I told him, I was like, man, we'll teach you to escalate in Essex. Just move real quick. And so he's talking to his chick. He's building commonalities and everything's going great. And she's flirting with him. And he goes, let's get a drink together. And she goes, okay. And he goes, I'll just go buy one. So he goes to the, she's here. He goes here. And he goes, hi, I love two shots, please. And the guy's like, yeah, no problem. Give him some two shots. He goes, great. Turns around, she's making out with someone else. He had maybe 25 seconds. That's it. She lost interest. And she literally, he went to her. He was looking at her with the shots. He goes, sorry. And then he kept making out with her. And he's just like, fine, okay. That, it's fast. You've got to move fast. You've got to capture. So in different places, you know, girls, the frequency is going to be faster. I have you, but you learn it. You get an idea of the pace. You've got to escalate at that time. So these signs, if you see them, the ones I've given you are pretty big. Like this will make a huge impact. You can use those to make a big difference. But it's not always about the signs that we observe. It's also our own signs. If there are any girls watching this, you can use those signs to tell a guy you want to be approached. And if you give them enough of them, a lot of guys need a lot of signs. So you might need to give them more. They will eventually come and approach. Guys wake up. They go, oh, that's a sign. I should go and do that. Don't think, oh, you know, I kind of winked at him so he likes me. No, wink, smile, ask for help. They're everything for the guy to really pick up on it if they're not trained. I'm like, you guys, you guys, you'll see like a type on glance. You're like, I'm in. She wants a dick. So, but there's also our own personal signs. So for example, Candle, psychologist, 91. This great study about the human brain. Did you know we have a separate part of our brain for analyzing hand gestures? How many of you speak with your hands? Raise your hand. How many of you speak with your hands? Not enough of you, right? We have a part of our brain for analyzing hand gestures. This is why apes learn sign language faster than they learn other types of language to be able to respond. This is why children can learn sign language before they learn how to actually speak. Our hands, there is an entire part of the brain for them. Have you ever noticed how all pickup artists have rolled up sleeves? I thought about this. I don't know if it's a coincidence, but I'm just letting you guys know that this study says that women have a part of the brain that actually is attracted to male hands and the way they move. Stop rolling up your sleeves. Right now. Don't even wait. Don't even wait. Roll them up. That's it, good. Yeah, that's what happens, right? There is a part of the brain designed to look at them. This actually, one of the other signs is gesticulation, speaking with your hands. It's actually a sign of attraction. For girls doing that too, it means she's attracted to and girls read it as we being attracted to them. It's a great thing to do. If you're not doing it, you need to be doing it. Okay. Here's a fun one. How many of you, I've been studying so much from body language. I've been like pulling apart all the old pickup body language. Have you guys ever heard the stand up, chest out, look like a man? You guys heard this? Okay, there's a whole thing about stand up, be a man, look like this. Do you know females take this as an aggressive posture? Like this is aggression to most females. It's not attraction, it's aggression. Like I'm gonna beat you up. And then I started analyzing the guys that teach it and you know what I notice? Sure, they do stand with their shoulders back, their head, you know what they do? They have their head tilted to one side. And it turns out that in the animal kingdom and in fact in human beings, having a male head tilted to one side shows sympathy, shows kindness, shows thoughtfulness. So you've got the alpha male body, but hey, you I care about. And you stop watching all the videos of the top pickup artists and you'll see them, they all do this. Hi, nice to meet you. You guys have seen that now? The head flick, you know it does it all the time, Neil Strauss does that. And he knows it as well. That's the funny thing. That's what I love about Neil. He was like, yeah, I know that works. So I do it. But he didn't tell anyone yet because it's good stuff. But yeah, all the top pickup artists, man, they all do it. The head goes to one side. Keep your body language up, just gives a little bit of compassion. It makes it work. So in a second, I'm gonna ask you guys and I'm gonna open the floor to some questions. But before that, I just wanna give you an idea of what this might look like. So let's just say you and random, let's call him the douche artist, two of you go into a club and you both go and pick up your girls. So this guy, he goes in and he's like, that's the one I'm getting, that one. I don't care if she looks at me. I don't care, I just, I want her. Her, that's what I'm gonna get. And off he goes. And you go in the club and you start hanging out with your friends. You just have some drinks. Who cares about running around a bar, picking up chicks? Just chill out with your mates. And while you're there, head high, analyze, look around the room. See who's looking at you, see who smiles back. See who looks bored of their conversation. Who's prone at type one glances. Is anyone looking at you and flicking their hair multiple times? Anyone smiling at you? Anyone bumping into you accidentally? All this stuff, you start reading it.