 and welcome back to the 21 convention 2018 of Orlando Florida. Our next speaker is the best-selling author mode one. He is a godfather of direct game and he's a returning speaker to the 21 convention platform. Please let me welcome to the stage Alan Roger Curry. So as I was saying last year this chick was sucking my dick. You are here and I'm back because see for some of you all I know because I've dealt with it myself. I know you had a little hater voice. You had a voice that said I'm never gonna have a physique like Jack Donovan. Never gonna be as intellectually profound and articulate as Rolo. Never gonna get pussy with a camera like Goldman Unleashed. So that little hater voice was saying stay at home and stay at home. Don't fly there but you're here. You're here. So since you're here I want you to think of all your past disappointments, past frustrations, the goals you fail to achieve, the objectives you fail to accomplish. Put that shit in the past. No pity parties on my watch when you wake up in the morning you say ask yourself are you ready for the challenge of the next day in front of it? Are you ready for the challenge of the next day in front of you? The past is the past. Extract the morsels of wisdom from those unexpected episodes of adversity use it as fuel for motivation and get pumped, get re-energized. You're on a mission. That mission continues and that's why you're here because you want to kick things up to the next level. Now last year when I spoke I challenged some guys to create a breakthrough moment where they conquered some type of major fear and I've had at least three guys come up to me who were here last year. One guy, he's not here today, he's one of security. I hope he doesn't mind me calling him up by name, named Keaton. Now it's funny Keaton, he's a brother and if you study how brothers interact with brothers we're characters because last year when I approached Keaton he was just real cool. Like I don't know you, I don't know nothing about you, you don't impress me but then after my speech he came to me and was like oh my god man that was awesome and so he came to me this year he said there were some things I said that caused him to have a breakthrough moment. I had another guy, I'm not going to call him out. If you look at him he's kind of shy, mild manner guy and people know about the mode one approach, know it's about being bold and straightforward and he said he was having a conversation with a young lady and she challenged him, she said basically why aren't you talking to me and he was going to give us some bullshit. Then he looked at, I told him, he looked dead in the eye, he looked a dead in the eye he said I'm talking to you because I want to fuck you. Now here's the thing, he admitted this to me, now externally he was confident as hell he was like talking to you because I want to fuck you but he said and so I was like please don't hit me, please don't slap me, oh my god, please don't hit me, please don't do a drink in my face but he said externally he was like yeah that's why I'm talking to you because I want to fuck you and he said she just looked and I said I prepared him for this, I said she's going, when you come with that alpha erotic dominance women are going to look at you, they're going to challenge you like are you really being alpha with me? She did that to him and he matched it, he didn't back down, he basically like yeah I said it and he said they had a sterile and again he said internally he's like oh my god she's very curse me out and she was like wow I've never had a guy like say that to me like you know you just you got balls he said yeah you're damn right. Breakthrough moment baby so from this point forward you're going to either compete, spectate or god forbid quit. Now there's some people in the last year that quit. There's a guy, Anthony Bourdain, I was actually a fan of his. I wanted to do a travel dating show, I wanted to be with to dating relationships what he was the basically restaurants and chefs traveled to different cities finding nuanced differences in the dating culture so I was a fan of his but he quit the game. I don't want any of you all to quit the game, I want you to compete this journey called life compete. Now there's some people they don't quit but they spectate if that's their choice so be it if they hang around me for too long I won't allow it but man there's some guys their sex life is porn hub and masturbation. That's spectating you watching a guy that more than likely got a better physique than you, bigger cock than you and that's your like whole life. You spectate and living vicariously through that gown porn hub compete until you take you know you always hear NFL players when they have a tough loss or NBA players any sport if they're on a losing end but it was a hard fought battle and there'd be an interview they'll say man this loss was hard to take but I left everything on the floor I left everything on the floor so when you take your last breath and let's say I don't know if what is it St. Gabriel meets you at the pearly gates whoever in the afterlife might interview you will you be able to say I left everything on the floor all the challenges that came your way I left everything on the floor. Now here's the thing not only will the challenges of life essentially try to bully you unexpected adversity that again that hater voice try to bully you and I know somebody sitting in this audience right now thinking about I don't know what's calling Billy Johnson that guy in the fifth grade that just bullied you karma came back on Billy Johnson he's in prison somewhere somebody's bitch that boss that unfairly fired you thinking to yourself take solace he's at somebody's car wash car mount but here's what you underestimate the opposite gender will bully you too they will bully you too in what way you better act the way I want you to act or you're not getting any of this what'd you say what'd you say you better act right or you're not getting none of this and what do they want you to become that's what I call it they're obedient puppy doll with some guys that give in today. Did you buy my clothes you said you good boy. Anybody raising a hand you want to be a woman's obedient puppy doll it's about backbone fellas I love pussy as much as the next guy but I'm not going to sacrifice my sense of self-respect I'm not going to sacrifice my sense of dignity just for some wet warm pleasure around my dick I'm the man god damn it so are you so let's get started last year I mainly talked about my main book mode one I touched on this didn't really touch on these two at all I'm gonna touch more on these three but to give you the quick recap that's my first book mode one I did a 2017 updated version my first version mode one came out in April of 1999 first paperback version March of 2006 that's my main emphasis verbal communication skills that's underrated because you know at this conference you hear a lot of guys talking about the whole alpha and beta and I'll be talking about that later on in this conversation but a lot of guys have this impression that alpha means super big muscles being six foot five being super athletic being a seventh degree black belt but here's the truth starting with my high school days I'm known guys who were so called tough guys big muscles could fight could whip any guy's ass but when they got in the company of women they were verbal cowards they were bitches that is for the guy who said to me he said Ellen I I heard when you speak you keep shit real keep shit real they were bitches I'm listening to every guy like some guys have caught me there's been a couple guys at this very conference they they say Ellen you study people when you're talking to them I say I most certainly do I listen to how people can burst their vocal inflections particularly in conjunction with their eye contact I can read through a lot of facades fear of rejection fear of rejection a lot of people well I shouldn't say well a lot of people in general but let's focus on men a lot of men want that magic pill how can I have sex with as many women as possible but never be rejected newsflash never gonna happen that's like a baseball player one that hit home runs but never strike out if you're a baseball fan you know most of the top home run hitters have the most strikeouts in the league anybody can tell me island well I got rejected other day I've been rejected probably more than anybody sitting in here but that fear can be profound man to the point where you don't want to approach women at all if you're willing to be honest raise your hand if there's been multiple times where you were scared to approach one because of of a profound fear of rejection okay that's quite a few this is what most guys do when they have a profound fear of rejection they either avoid approaching a women women at all or they'll engage in what I call these friendly flattering entertaining non-threatening conversations where they never really lay out any desires interest or intentions on the table godly the weather is great isn't it Lee do you come in this restaurant all the time and say there's some pickup artists that will take advantage of that they'll make you think that if you get a woman to be receptive to friendly flattering entertaining non-threatening conversation that you have a chance no you don't what woman is going to dislike you if you're engaging in friendly flattering entertaining non-threatening conversation with of course she's going to look at you as a nice guy of course she is what criticisms what what what prospect do you have of being called a jerk or asshole because you're engaging in 45 minutes of friendly flattering entertaining non-threatening conversation here's the thing before I get past this live fear rejection guys will say I'm scared to approach this woman I'll say so ultimately you're scared of rejection because you're afraid that you might do something or say something that will prevent you from gaining access to that woman's romantic or strictly sexual companionship yes or yes okay but if you don't approach it all you will not gain access to her sexual attention and companionship at all yeah I guess now that you put it like that so in other words you're scared of not getting something you already don't have that just hit a lot you fellas did it like damn I never thought about it like that second most profound fear the fear of receiving criticisms insults negative reactions that's another misleading thing a lot of guys have this mistaken impression that if you get a so-called positive reaction that automatically leaves that you're gonna end up having sex with that woman so let me ask you has every guy in this room slept with every woman who gave them a positive reaction raise your hand that's what I thought I've slept with many women who initially said Allen you're asshole Allen you're a jerk Allen you're so egotistical Allen you're so cocky Allen you're so fully yourself and you know what's fun about that is when you're fucking them and you say what did you call me a asshole say it again asshole but what am I doing right now fucking me say it again fucking me but what am I cocky asshole say it again I know some of y'all gonna use this shit now this is recap from last year I'm gonna try to skip through this as fast as possible because I'll talk to you the three types of relationships every relationship you want from a woman is either going to be strictly sexual strictly non-sexual and sexual plus non-sexual okay you got that verbally direct approach when a man verbally communicates to a woman his desire to spend time with her in either a romantic meaning sexual plus non-sexual or strictly sexual manner within the first few minutes of his very first conversation with the woman and that's mode one and we talked about this last year now I know some of you guys weren't here so I don't want to disrespect the guys who weren't here last year but I'm assuming I hopefully the vast majority you saw my presentation from last year but I did want to do this quick recap mode three mode four mind here's what I believe once you do lay your desires interests and intentions on the table all women are going to fall into one of these five architects reciprocator that's your luckiest day that's your luckiest day when you meet a woman saying I want to fuck you she says I want to fuck you too that's gonna be the greatest day of your life man every time that happens I want you to suck my dick I want to suck your dick too it's the rarest woman you'll meet but you know again the most gratified rejecter again we talked about rejection nobody likes to be rejected I don't like to be rejected like Michael Jordan he said I don't like to lose but I'm not scared to lose I don't like being rejected but I'm not afraid of rejection and I'll touch on that in a moment because women know how to capitalize on your fear of rejection wholesome pretenders now those first two types are you what I call your straightforward non manipulative type but then the two three trickier types is wholesome pretenders erotic hypocrites and manipulative time racers this is a book I touched on briefly last year but I'm gonna touch on a little bit more this year who say it again mastering the fine art of verbal seduction and oral sex came out with the e-book and paperback in December 2011 an audiobook version in 2015 so a lot of guys like to put women into these two can what I call convenient categories she's a good girl but she's a slut she's a good girl but she's a slut now you can say that was halfway valid if we're talking about 1918 1928 1938 but in today's society matter of fact oh I forgot to do my little thing see if anybody watches my youtube where's my main camera I do this thing where I start my videos with a beverage and I hold it up so that's one of my trademarks on my youtube videos and when somebody either asks me a stupid question or says something stupid I say insert well I'll get to that in a second but uh there insert dog face here so if you've already read who said again or listened to the audio but you know I place women in five categories well I didn't set that up well but I was basically saying nope they don't fall into those two convenient categories anymore one of my most popular videos is called the myth of the prudish monogamy oriented good girl one of the reasons why a lot of guys are scared to say sexually provocative things women because they're scared they're gonna upset a good girl's sexual sensibilities newsflash no fucking good girls in today's society there might be in the way I say there might be one two percent maybe being generous three four percent of women who are saving themselves for their husband for marriage but today women are fucking at the age of 11 12 13 years old there's women by the time they 25 they've been fucking for 10 years I know that guy sitting there right now this guy does keep him real shit it's a myth man here's the reason I call it myth and there's a book I promote from time to time by a guy named Daniel Bertner it's called what do women want anybody familiar with that book if you're familiar with that book you know that he he criticizes us his own gender as I tend to and I have a lot of haters and critics because of but essentially what he says is that men there's a lot of things that men believe about women because they want to believe it about women let me repeat that men believe certain things about women because they want to believe those things about women because it makes them sleep better at night and one of those things is when women are born with more monogamous tendencies than men are that's bullshit women like to fuck just like we do you better believe that shit they love the fuck you know the the female sex toy industry is a billion dollar industry you think these women are using that shit in the kitchen their pussies get wet they play with their pussies oh wait what'd I do wrong what happened oh okay fives okay I said I divided me into five category okay I'm going too far what I call who said again a five that is a genuine good girl that's a woman who will only engage in sexual relations with a man who is her husband or at bare minimum her fiance so if you find a five then you have if you're in search of that you know proverbial good girl if you find a five you found it it's not so much again that woman is born with this biological impulse to be monogamous but her social programming of a concept I talk about all the time I already even one or two other speakers talk about nickname cultural conditioning social brainwashing her social programming is so strong that she's willing to control her sexual desires and urges and save herself for her husband a four that's a woman who prefers to only engage in sexual relations with a man who is their husband their fiance or their long-term boyfriend but at least occasionally they're going to engage in one or more episodes of non-monogamous casual sex a three that's a woman who will publicly present herself to to me and as if there are a five or at least a four but privately they get down which is what I refer to as your wholesome pretenders and erotic hypocrites see a wholesome pretender that's a woman that if you propose casual sex tour she's gonna always initially say no I'm not that kind of girl no I only have sex with my boyfriend all the way is that right so you're telling me you don't want to fill my dick in your pussy nasty did you get enough fucking a two is a woman who really likes to get down behind closed doors but again publicly she's gonna present herself as a four you know again a good girl or if not present herself as a good girl this is my archetype of the erotic hypocrite erotic hypocrite is similar to a wholesome pretender but she in addition to wanting to protect her good girl image she thinks man should whine and dine her for the pussy and one that's just a woman who's openly freaky social program and I already talked about that now I talked about social program organized religion is one of the factions of society I'll talk about this in my book debate about revolution that promotes the idea of monogamy for better or for worse so does media and entertainment so there's certain aspects of the public school system and many of your parents your siblings other family members and elders in the community or your culture manipulative head games I talked about a lot at last year so I don't want to well I'll talk about in relation to here's my next book possibly the sex now guys in the seduction community Pua community they want to always say Allen so what's the what's the great benefit of being direct you like you know I'm an indirect guy the other thing indirect is okay like what's what's so wrong with being indirect well number one if you want to meet a woman and talk about the weather for 10 minutes and talk about you know you were playing football in high school for 20 minutes and all that other bullshit that has nothing to do with getting the woman's pussy wet go right in it but here's the deal one of my archetypes is the woman called the manipulative time waster and it's funny of my five archetypes a lot of other puas and dating coaches they do not like to acknowledge the existence of manipulative time wasters what is the manipulative time waster I already emphasize this but I'm emphasize this again friendly flattering flirtatious and entertaining conversation with women means jack okay you guys get that if a woman's laughing at all your jokes that doesn't mean she's gonna suck your dick at the end of the night just means she enjoys being entertained by you she listened to all your stories and sound interesting and she's smiling and you think you got them in there no women love men's non-sexual companionship much more honestly than we do theirs men could go weeks months even years without a woman's non-physical non-sexual companionship guys laugh like that's like a understatement we can't I've never had a male friend and said damn man it's been so long since I spent time with a woman platonically man it's driving me crazy dude I can't take it I need to be around some women platonically it's just not in our DNA makeup but you better believe women love your company in a non-physical non-sexual manner to the point where going back to this title the possibility of sex how do they sell you on the idea of spending time with them there you go see that's the difference between them and just straight up rejecters rejecters are women see a lot of guys looking rejecters as the enemy but those women you should appreciate those women who straightforwardly reject you because they let you know basically you're never getting this pussy don't even try don't waste your time exactly manipulative time wasted they always want you to think you that close to getting the pussy well if you go with me and my girlfriends to these bowling events for the next five weeks I don't know anything can happen I don't know anything can happen I mean like I've been like going to bowling with you for the last eight weeks that ninth week might be your lucky week they love to use that vague ambiguous language like you never know possibly maybe there's four things that manipulative time wasters want from men and while avoiding engaging in sex with them to be flattered see before I wrote this book a lot of guys wrote me feedback saying Alan I thought money was the only thing that women use men for you have women just concentrate on number one to be flattered you have women that say they went to a party and they didn't get as many compliments as they wanted so guess what they do they're calling one of you guys hey Joey you doing anything no I'm just like playing video games like what's up like you know like you saw those pictures I put all over Facebook and Instagram like didn't I look sexy oh shit you look like a goddess you look like a fucking goddess you look sexy as hell they knew that guy was gonna say that but they act like really shy oh man oh so hot so once that you satiated the ego guess what they say okay Joey I gotta go take care of you like fuck Joey thought he was in there he's like shit you know she called me I'm that close to getting that pussy I'm that close he's that close some women will use you just to flatter the ego and get an ego boost boost their self-esteem number two women love to be entertained and this is why the media and entertainment industry plays up the women I worked before I became a dating coach that was the industry I was pursuing a career I used to pitch scripts as a screenwriter you know pitch scripts to these different Hollywood executives and agency yeah and uh pretty well written script but uh number one you got a lot of fucking in here you know this character gets his dick sucked like 12 times in this movie but beyond that I just don't know how to say this but uh just keep it a little too real and your criticism of women I mean no woman is going to buy movie tickets to see this movie I'd be like I don't give a fuck and they would look at me like well if you want to make a living you better give a fuck and there's so many words they would tell me in this industry we play up to who's putting money in our pockets and that's women statistic show women buy more movie tickets than men do to get men out to movies you got to get slashed alone and a few other guys that kick some ass and shouldn't blow up some shit man and come out but anything they perceive as halfway as a chick flick they're not going but those women are come out in droves man they'll bring out their sister and grandmother so entertainment industry is going to play up to women hashtag me too women love to be entertained they will use you just to be entertained women will call you just for you to engage like say they're bored and lonely on a friday night that asshole woman that's your number one he hasn't called me asshole woman that's your number two let me call billy hey billy how you doing billy's like hey what's up linda hey how you doing what does billy think he like let me get that pussy she called him and she's like tell me that funny story he said two weeks ago at the bowling hell that one word you know the guy put the popcorn boy's head and billy tells the story she laughs and then she just hangs up and billy's like fuck this is obvious financial and non-financial favors manipulative time racers are good at doing that and they know manipulative time racers trust they are savvy again they know they can't just say hey spend some money on me by the way you're never getting this pussy they'll say hey if you take me out to dinner who knows what can happen afterwards who knows if you help me move these heavy boxes from my old apartment to my new apartment i might be just so thankful that who knows and a lot of you guys fall for it and this was the worst one man i think i might even touch on that legend the emotionally empathetic listening ear i would arguably say that's the worst of the four how many already familiar with me talking about that raise your hand if you already familiar with the only a couple of hands a few hands so there's a lot of guys who are not this is the emotionally empathetic listening ear where the woman calls you over a place on a friday night and again what do you think i'm in there it's friday night she invites me over to the apartment i'm in there i'm gonna get that i'm gonna have sex with her and then once you get over there she's like troy i can't believe this i mean like what's what's wrong amber you know what's wrong you remember that guy chad i told you about yeah the guy that's like a dick i forgot the date right he was just slapping his dick all on my face and i was like he was stinging he was just slapping his dick on my face and then he was like he sucked his dick bitch and then he was just you know putting it in my mouth and he was coming all in my mouth god that guy's an asshole he lucky i wasn't here i would have whooped his ass such a dick yeah you know and then rather guy wasn't even chad too and he was just like he was just like pulling my hair real hard and he was slapping my ass and just fucking me and fucking me and fucking me and fucking me and fucking he like okay amber i get the point i mean both those chads are just assholes don't you think they are troy yeah they're dicks man they're dicks they lucky i wasn't here see troy you're so sweet i just love you so much you're such a sweetheart troy he's thinking man i'm the good guy here i'm gonna get it but guess what happens next friday next saturday same thing troy i made this new guy in the library you're not gonna believe this thing is chad he's just finger-fucking me in the library and i'm like you shouldn't be doing this and he's like no way's around god he's such a dick with all these guys dicks part two of the book possibility sex i talk about five types of women that you should never enter into a long term relationship even in some cases a short term but if you're not thinking about a long term relationship this kind of self-explanatory materialistic gold diggers those women who honestly they really just don't enjoy your companionship you're a male ticket you're an opportunity for them to improve the quality of their lifestyle they give you what i call doggy treat reward pussy remember the puppy dog i was talking about you're such a good boy you bought me a portion 911 yes you are you're so good you get to sniff my pussy tonight want to be mistresses and sidepieces aka man thieves these are women that if you're single non-attached they'll ignore you but the moment you get a wife fiance a girlfriend all of a sudden they're interested god frankie looks so good in it soon looks so sexy you're like thank you thank you Brenda hey i know you're getting married next week but if you want something like this now really they just want the satisfactory egotistical satisfaction of being able to steal you away from your wife fiance or long-term girlfriend they want to fuck your relationship up don't let them if you got a good thing going on don't let these women fuck your shit up because they don't really want to disrupt your relationship because they genuinely want your companionship they just want to see if they can steal you from another woman it's like a competitive thing drama queen self-explanatory women who are incredibly spoiled incredibly argumentative and in some cases they suffer from a personality disorder such as borderline personality disorder everybody saw fade-out traction this was crazy weren't you narcissistic personality disorder histrionic personality disorder you can usually see the red flags when they go off on some trivial like i don't know let's say you drank their last bottle of Lipton tea a normal woman say did you drink my last bottle shame on you drama queen's like oh my god why did you do that do what you drink my last bottle you fuck you know i mean i can go to the store and buy you some more you drank my last bottle let's see some guys will try to justify stealing his drunkard he like hey i don't know if you know but like psycho bitches got the best pussy like seriously you don't want to stay with a woman that just brings drama into your life unnecessarily it's not worth it claws and misandras let's see this is a word that the mainstream media doesn't use enough i see misogyny all over the place misogyny misogyny misogyny misogyny misogynist misogynist misogynist misogynist well these fucking phimisongers they're women who are claws misogynist meaning that they want to suck you into a relationship if no if for no other reason just because they want to get pregnant by you they want you your sperm to fertilize their egg and then once they get pregnant by you you are about to unleash the bitch from hell they're going to try to masculine you a lot of times in public in front of people verbally abuse you they might even take some pots and pans and start hitting you upside the head people think domestic violence is only a male thing not true there are women who have physically assaulted their husbands living lovers claws and misandras and of course liars cheaters and adulterers now it's funny my book possibly a sex i've mentioned this a few times on my youtube videos and other stuff i got a lot of great feedback from that book but a lot of guys not well not a lot but a good number of guys they said man allen some respects that book left me depressed man would left me depressed because possibility sex and the beta male revolution i think all my books to one degree another are red pill books but i would say particularly possibility sex and the beta male revolution because this goes back chapter nine particularly left a lot of guys depressed because the main thing and you can read it for yourself and listen to the audio book but the the main point i'm making here is that hey women are going to fuck who they want to fuck women are going to fuck who they want to fuck you might think because you putting the ring on a woman's finger that she ain't gonna fuck nobody else you better think again now again if you got a five maybe a four in your camp you don't have anything to worry about but if you marry two or three women are going to fuck who they want to fuck how do i know this because one of the confessions i'm making chapter nine is that between roughly the age of 17 and 37 i had sex with roughly three dozen women who at the time i fucked them had either a long-term boyfriend or fiance or husband now some guys they criticized me for that because they said man element bros before holes man come on but no i did i was fucking other dudes went until around the age of 37 38 i realized that i didn't i didn't like disrespecting my own gender like that and i used you could say my sinful deeds to provide knowledge and wisdom to other guys who needed to wake the fuck up because women if any of you men think you can cheat real good i guarantee you women can treat cheat two to three times better i wrote an article on the site i write for called the negro manifesto matter of fact a lot of guys here have mentioned the negro manifesto yeah it's funny it shows how narrow-minded i could be i was assuming that 98% of guys who read the negro manifesto articles were little brothers like myself but nope i've had so many non-black guys come up yeah i read your recent article on the negro manifesto i'm like really shout out osha duke jackson um and matter of fact rollo was talking about how the manifesto has become so diverse and uh oh i forgot to give kudos to rollo because rollo was the reason i was invited last year so i appreciate now rollo quick side on rollo a lot of guys last year i thought they you know knew about me from my books but here we go come in for me to say i'll ride your car i'm like hey you read my books no i saw i read i listened to the interview with rollo on blog talk radio i was every guy i was like that but rollo we had a great interview of steel i highly listened to interview on blog talk radio but uh going back to what i was saying yeah women here's how scant this is what i include in the article women will fuck it have a guy on the side and in some cases they'll introduce you to their boyfriend if he wants to help him that'd happen at least a handful of times this is my friend allen we know each other from college i mean we're feeling man because i had to be phony and shake this dude hey and knowing i was fucking his woman hey how you doing pleasure to meet you but articles will have you believe that men cheat way more than women do dude i'm telling you i'm telling you i'm telling you i'm telling you don't believe anything else i'm saying women are gonna fuck who they want to fuck they might not plan on it but if they run into a certain guy on a certain day who's able to get their pussy wet the people always ask the question i've heard men ask me a question why do women cheat women ask me a question why do men cheat and the reason why you keep asking that question over and over and over again because it's the wrong fucking question the more appropriate question is why do people with promiscuous and non-monogamous tendencies choose to give off an indefinite facade that they're monogamy oriented why if you're a man and you know you're promiscuous you know you prefer non-monogamy why are you pretending like you all about monogamy i know why because you want ownership over that pussy you want to own that pussy you don't want any guy to think he could have access to your pussy the pussy you own or you think you own you don't own anyone's pussy women own their pussy that's one of the reasons why we had the second wave of feminism because women got tired of their father saying you are my property husband saying you are my property women said fuck that a lot of you guys can whine and complain about it but you gotta respect women they said we ain't gonna take this shit no more they own this shit you don't own it be thankful if a woman doesn't share her pussy with another man be thankful you found the right woman who has the type of values and ethics that won't do that but i'm telling you in the 21st century today most women are going to share their pussy with whoever the fuck they want to that's since i've brought up the second wave of feminism beta brown revolution my god i only got two minutes left so i might have to go fast but that's the last book i published this was the most important period in the last 150 years 1960-1974 let's say my mother her and her sisters were scared to have sex before marriage because they were scared my grandfather would kick them out the fucking house and most women in their generation were scared of that but then guess what 1960 we came out with the birth control pill what did that say to women i can fuck who the fuck i want to fuck they had to depend on a husband to provide them with a financially self-sufficient lifestyle because the second wave of feminism feminism they were able to gain better employment opportunities higher salaries had the sexual revolution a free love moment row versus weight and without getting all lengthy the end result was women felt more comfortable the social stigma was erased they said i can do with this what i want to do with it now see in my mother's generation there would have been it would have been considered rude and crass and disrespectful for a man to propose casual sex to anyone because dating was all about finding your wife and finding your husband but the second wave of feminism combined with the sexual revolution women said we want to be free to fuck whoever we want to fuck so why would i feel like it's crass disrespectful and rude to tell a woman i want to fuck her without her being my wife make that make sense to me one of my golden rules never confuse or conflate the appeal of your sexual attention and companionship with the appeal of your non-sexual attention and companionship as well as the appeal of your financial resources and material possessions now some might argue if you can get pussy with those two things so be it so be it but i'm just saying there's three levels of female sexual interest genuine sexual desire and interest i've heard uh i want to say rollo i was watching a video with rollo mentioned he has a phrase where he says you cannot see they did that on purpose man they knew i was in my rhythm and shit and they just anyway um those feminists and just you gotta watch it uh yeah rollo said uh i heard him say you can't negotiate i told we're on the same page with that there's genuine sexual desire and interest tangible or intangible incentivized sexual desire and interest and then of course no sexual desire and interest at all genuine sexual desire and interest that means that if you meet a woman and you let her know you want to fuck her she is going to be willing to fuck you without you offering her anything extra basically in simple blunt terms you're only exchanging access to your dick for access to her pussy that's genuine sexual desire and interest tangible or intangible incentivized sexual desire and interest is when a woman is not completely interested in you sexually but she's not completely not interested in you sexually so she says yeah i might want to give you some but what do you offer are you offering me long-term anagamy are you offering to help me raise children are you offering me short-term financial compensation or long-term financial security are you offering me materialistic gifts what are you offering and then from there you've got to negotiate what you're willing to add extra as an extra incentive and reward for sexual conveyship and no sexual desire and interest at all that means even if you were to offer women stuff materialistic gifts money they still like nah i still don't want to fuck that brings me to my four archetypes and i'm not going to go into too much detail for the sake of time um total alfamiles they're going to get a lot of sex based on genuine sexual interests based on genuine sexual interests the drawback to them they're typically so promiscuous and so dominant that a lot of women don't want to be in marriages with them or long-term relationships with them i've had a many women i interviewed a woman on my patreon page who said that she said i don't want a guy that's total alpha or total beta i want to guy that's kind of a blender both and the reason was she said they they they're too uncomprom total alphas are too uncompromising and generally too promiscuous my next archetype is an alpha male with a few beta traits you can almost think of this guy as the womanizing alpha male and this is the alpha male that puts some degree of emphasis on monogamy in relationships he likes to fuck but he knows he wants ultimately wants a wife a family children but if he does get married if he does get relationship he's going to make sure he runs shit he's going to make sure he runs shit beta male with a few alpha traits in tennessee's as the guy who's generally beta and the biggest thing about beta males they're so scared of losing a woman's sexual companionship that they're willing to do anything they're willing to just supplicate the women play up to women basically do anything that women want them to do and they get what i call that doggy treat reward pussy if this guy doesn't have a high level of career success financial success status he doesn't get late period total beta males a lot of them have become in sales they're just being ignored by women women don't even want their platonic companionship and it's sad i try to help a lot of guys who come to me that are self-proclaimed total beta males their self-esteem is low they feel totally romantically and sexually undesirable but for most of them not all of them most of them there is hope and i feel like i can contribute to a transformation from them so those are my four books i do email consultations skype and telephone consultations one-on-one face-to-face coaching sessions that's my site direct approach dating dot com you can find me also on wikipedia i'm alan roger curry questions so i completely agree about the direct game um especially to people who's not in your social circle would it still be the same with people who are in your social circle to be that direct like hey i i want to fuck you or would you have to be more careful because well here's here's the first clarification now alan roger curry as you can tell from my speaking presentation i like to use a lot of profanity for better or for worse i like to use a lot of sexually explicit language for better or for worse you don't have to use profanity or sexually explicit language to be more one here would be an example you meet a woman and you say i find you very attractive but i gotta let you know up front i have no interest whatsoever in becoming one of your new purely platonic male friends i ultimately would like to be intimate with you now did i just use any profanity no that's where the language no but i was more one because you let that woman know that hey i'm not talking to you because i want to share bowling alley stories with so there you go thank you randy for that question if you had to make a direct verbal advance on a co-worker how would you do it who who paid him to ask me that question generally i don't believe you should hit my simple slogan is don't get laid when you get paid i've done it before and it invites just you don't want that type of drama in the workplace but if you want to be hardheaded what you do is you you don't you don't hit on a co-worker at all on work premises a lot of times like say co-workers might get together at a happy hour something you make your move at that happy hour or some social bit away from work and then then here's one tip you do let's say you get the co-worker to suck your dick you get another co-worker to watch and supervise and then of course the woman sucking your dick is going to say i don't want to suck your dick but why is shero here and then you say hashtag me two all right there you have it alan roger curry let's give it up for him