 Matt says, hi Matt, what if he is not scared to lose me because he is more focused on his career? Well, it kind of depends on how focused he is on his career because, you know, if he's a super workaholic, he'll be pretty focused on his career. And it's one of those things where it's like, okay, what you need if you want him to feel more like he's missing you and he's scared of you not being there and all that kind of stuff because especially if he's got, you know, like what we're just talking about with the avoidant attachment style and all that kind of stuff, what you need to do is you need to focus on the connection. You need to focus on building that connection. And instead of making it about him being scared of losing you, make it about him missing you when you're not around. And so my suggestion is that you go back over that livestream that I did not too long ago about making a guy miss you and focus on building that positive emotional deep and wide connection with him so that he feels like he just wants to be around you all the time. And then, you know, and then give him the gift of missing you and do the things that we talk about in this video because that will make him feel like him being super focused on his work doesn't mean that he won't be scared of losing you. But what it means is that he's getting so much joy and focus and like pleasure and fulfillment and all these different things from his business. And he's probably been doing that and getting that for a very long time that he's not shifting his focus over and getting a lot of it from you. And so if you're creating kind of these deep emotional bonds and making him have a lot of fun and making it amazing to be around you and making it so that he's like totally addicted to being in your presence, what ends up happening is that he will start to shift that focus and he'll be like, wow, I'm getting all of this amazing stuff over here instead of just in this space of work where I'm controlling everything and he'll start to shift that focus. And if he's feeling that way, it doesn't matter how much he's focused on his work, he will be afraid. He will be scared of losing it if it's the best that he's had. And it's that amazing and it's just something that he absolutely loves. He will be afraid of losing it and he will want to make sure that you're connected. And sometimes he might be focused on his work because men tend to be more kind of single focused on things. However, I can guarantee you that in his space, he will think about it and he will be like, man, I want to make sure that everything's cool with her and I want to make sure everything's great with her. And again, making sure that you're communicating your needs and stuff because a lot of times those guys, guys that are super focused on their work, it's like it's not that they aren't scared of losing you or any of that kind of stuff, it's that they've got so much going on over there and they're like, okay, well, I'm going to make sure that I'm taking care of her needs and making sure that everything's going on good over here as long as you're communicating them. And it's something that he feels like he can do. And you guys have that great connection together. And I hope that I hope that I hope that really made a lot of sense to you.