 Girl, so I mean, that's the prayer. What you mean? But I told you, we gotta go through. You know what's funny, when they first got together, I was looking at the comments in the showroom. Some girl was like, this is cute, but I would still be cheating with Future on the weekends. Why would she do that? Cause Future gets her blood boiling and shit like that. Listen, it's the message right here. Black boy, tell me how you really feel. Cause I just wanna build with you. Black girl, tell me how you really feel. I wanna keep it real with you. I wanna live better, eat better. I wanna love better, sleep better. Yeah, I wanna feel so aligned. The two mandates of masculinity is provide and protect. Without being able to provide and protect, for all intents and purposes, you're not a man, right? The mandates for women is to nurture, right? And I would even say submit. Let's throw that in, nurture and submit, right? Now, when we put things in the context of slavery, for 400 years, the black man could not exist. Cause under that type of regime, you cannot protect and you cannot provide. You can still nurture and you can still submit though. Black women can still survive. The black femininity could still survive. Black masculinity was exterminated. I think if our women empathize with just that fact alone, they would be less willing to or less enthusiastic about throwing all these expectations of us. A real man would, a real man this, a real man that. You know how many times we hear that coming up from our moms here? A real man this, a real man that. And a lot of the things they tell us a real man is, is self-destructive. Like I talk about Eve all the time, the rapper Eve. She grew up rapping about, nigga gotta be a soldier this and that. And then she ended up with a geek ass white dude. You know how many niggas died behind that soldier shit that she was preaching? And she didn't choose that. She ran to Brad. And I feel the same way about the niggas talking about their love of the stripper and encourage women to become strippers and then go marry the church girl. It's fucked up. And we are our own worst enemy, but my thing is this. I as a man, I have to decide who, I have to decide what kind of future do I want. That's a standard. Yes, what kind of future do I want and what kind of woman helps me get closer to that future. Those standards. And women need to decide the same thing. Cause right now y'all are deciding two different things. You're deciding I want this future, but I also want future. I mean, a broken dream. Dang, god goodness. A lot of women need to grow up, man. They still in fairytale land with some expectations. That's what they gave us. You gotta grow up. We gotta grow up. I mean, cause technically the fairytale world works if the man does exactly what you said. The fairytale world never works. If you say the man. No, no, no. I need people to divorce themselves out of expectation. It is not sustainable. When Cinderella got back to that castle, the prince probably left to go find another Cinderella. That's the fact. That's what I'm saying. So we gotta start divorcing ourselves. Some of these childhood expectations that were incomplete. Final thoughts? Final thoughts definitely would be, Black women, we gotta love on Black men. And Black men, love on each other. Cause the issue is Black women were trying to fix Black men. And Black men just over it. That's why you're like, man, I ain't trying to do that. Even though we're broken. But I feel like we're coming. Black women are loving on each other more. So it's boosting our ego to be like, okay, yes, I can do this. I can't do that. Yeah, because of the lack of men sometimes, I guess, but according to you, we just don't know how to pick them. We don't. We don't. And it's okay. Or maintain them. Or maintain them. That's the problem. We're maintaining the wrong ones. It's not maintenance. That's not maintenance. And it actually makes them feel less of a man. Like what women don't understand is. When we help, you guys feel like you're feeling less than a man? Or when we, you know. If a woman, outside of like emergency situations, if a woman primarily fulfills your role as a man, it's emasculating. The reason why, like, one of the interviews I had, I was like, and I said it up front, I said, broke niggas don't deserve pussy. Because at the end of the day, you'll only attract men, because women are attracted to men. Right? So unless you are building something that she can then come help you out with, you're just gonna become her bitch. And you're gonna attract masculine ass women. It sound like it's a man who need to figure out what the heck going on? Because how are we supposed to change as women if men, but I feel bad for the 1%, we ain't talking about the 1% because that's the 1%, 99% of the men, or would follow the example you just now saying as a woman who dates. You give what I'm saying. Women need to start incentivizing the right behavior. That's all. That's it. You're right. So whether it's you tell your daughters that they date the geeky boy, he's gonna be a good dad one day. Instead of the nigga who sell weed on the weekends. So you know, we're not gonna do that either because the geeky man may not be a good dad. But I'm not talking about the geekiness. I'm talking about the qualities and attributes. So for any sense. Because? Like when you hear a lot of women, and I have a lot of conversation with women, when they talk about their priority list of things that they want from a man, it's a lot of bullshit. Really? It's a whole lot of bullshit. What are you saying? I want them to be this tall. Really? I want them to have swag. I want them to make this amount of money, this and that. And it's not until some women, they get to the point where they talk about I want them to have integrity. Right. That's what I'm saying. But what I'm saying is, if I have a conversation with 10 women, only one bring up integrity and honor. Most of them bring up peacock attributes. I said it the other day. Wow. If women pay more attention to a nigga's LinkedIn page, as opposed to his Instagram profile will be alright. Be right. Because there's a man. I know. Listen. There's a man. And this is what women aren't realized. I have conversations with even young boys. They know how to trick y'all. They know how to trick y'all. Oh, 100%. Because they know your priority lists are fucked up. Your priority lists are fucked up. You're right. So you're going to keep seeing futures out here because that's the behavior you're incentivizing. What incentive does a nigga have to be Russell Wilson? What incentive? What incentive? Russell, that's the prayer. What you mean? But I told you, we got to go through. You know what's funny? In order to realize. When they first got together, I was looking at the comments in the showroom. Some girl was like, this is cute, but I'll still be cheating with Future on the weekends. Why would she do that? Because Future gets her blood boiling and shit like that. I guess I can see it. But when I see their videos and how he acts, he doesn't seem as corny. I mean, he does seem like he's a... No, I don't think he's corny. He's corny. You know, a little bit. He's corny. Well, he take care of what he's supposed to be. He does, but he set that, because he set that foundation for her to join his world. So shit girl, you got to deal with that corny and this. I'm gonna deal with it, but he's got to deal with it. He's the other conversation we're not having. If he was a white dude, nobody would call him corny. Oh no, I'm telling him corny too, he's corny too. Now he ain't, cause he not, cause he not, what's his name? Who just retired? Tom Brady. He not Tom Brady. Tom Brady, not corny. Why? Maybe it's just a dumb name. Cause he's white. No. Yeah, it's cause he's white. No, cause OBJ, OBJ don't, he don't give me corny. Yeah, cause he's black and he fits a stereotype. He tatted up all that good stuff. To me? But my point is, as a black man, as a black man. Cause Pete Davidson, he's damn sure corny. As a black man, you have a lot smaller box you can fit in. That sucks man. Not my though. Now you want to have me watching black man like, dang man, he was right. I just want you to watch us and question the things that you used to think. That's all. I just want you to question the things you used to think. Cause a lot of it is wrong. Not, not you specifically, but in general, a lot of it is wrong. Like why do I think he's corny? And then why do I think this white dude who's the same exact way is sweet? All right. Because you see what a lot of women say now is like, oh, get you a white man, they'll treat you better. I know a lot of black dudes who treat women fantastically, but women call them corny. Do you date black men? No. Do I date black men? Right. I know a lot of black men. I'm a black man. Right. But y'all don't date black men. That's why I've been telling people like, y'all be friends, y'all cool, you know. It's not different. But sometimes. It's not different. I promise you it's not different. A lot of times the conversation is different when it's from friend to girl. What do you mean? To female. What do you mean? Yeah, they, you know, how they act what they do and talk about women and how they. It's not different. That's your circle. What I'm saying to you is. Because I've sat with men, like I'm literally sitting here like, dang like, okay. But then you at my DM, would you over here really like. But niggas know dudes in a circle that they'd be like, I would be comfortable. I have two sisters. Okay. I'd be comfortable if so-so and so dated my sister. I wouldn't be comfortable so-so and so dated my sister. We're friends, but you know what I'm saying? I know how he move. I know how he move. So men know. But the difference is like, we think relationship, romantic relationship and friendship are that different. They're not that different. I know black men very, very, very well. And my point is, the niggas that I know. Well, please, you got to write a book so you can teach these black men that I know. This is the book. The niggas that I know, niggas that I know who get the most pussy, I would not let them anywhere around my sister. Oh, hell. So my question to black women is, why do they get the most pussy? He's not more handsome than the other dude. Cause they just getting pussy. They not getting no, they ain't getting nothing else with pussy. Listen, pussy is currency. Pussy is currency. And y'all keep voting for the wrong shit. It's an exchange. Cause then it's like, why are you giving this man your mind? That's a different story. You know what I'm saying? Why are you giving this man your mind? Pussy, it's an exchange. That's part of it. It's like, it's like. It's part of it. To get your pussy, I got to get your mind too. Not what you said. For a lot of women, yes. Damn. Listen, I told y'all I'm not the black woman. So I'm questioning. I'm like, damn. I get it. That's, you know, once after time and after conversations, maybe, and some of the conversations may be alluding to something else, to something more, then it's different. You know what I'm saying? Then it's like, okay, we had conversations like I thought we were in tune mentally. You know what I'm saying? Like, but if it's just, we ain't having no type of conversations and we just, relationships are really are complicated. Cause y'all are the ones who got to pick it. Leaving us lonely with dogs. Y'all need to vote better when we need to do better. That's how I'll leave it. You said vote better? Yeah. When we need to vote better, we need to do better. I agree. I agree. Cause like I said, women, we do have some issues. That I feel like we, I feel like we are overcoming them more because they are being put on blast. Like with Kevin Sanyams. Cause I respect Kevin Sanyams for that. Because it really makes me sit and think like, dang, like some women really, they, that's what they expect. Like you said, working at Walmart and they want a burger bag. But they ain't even trying to do nothing that's with themselves. Like you don't want, you don't want better for yourself. Just to, that's how I feel about me. And like y'all want, cause in order for you to find the man that you want, like you said, we got to raise ourselves to that level. Yeah. The only, the only men you should see are men on that, on that level. Everybody else shouldn't exist here. So you shouldn't ever be having a conversation of, if he, if he, no, like for instance, I live a certain lifestyle because that's what I want for myself. Right. Not because of a bitch or a man trying to get bitches, nothing like that. Right. And if women prioritize those type of men who are doing, who are working hard for him. Right. That's sustainable. But if he's doing shit just to impress you or prove to you that this, this, that's not sustainable. Cause at some point, At all. He gonna be like, I already got it. But that's what I'm saying. You must not date me. Cause it feels like that's what majority of these 99% that's what they doing.