 And saying it in a matter of fact way, so just in the way I said, oh yeah, you know, when I was in Tokyo, what I noticed was, so it became part of the conversation, it became part of the banter. And so talking about Tokyo, let's just keep on that, she'll go, right, challenging. So she'll go, oh yeah, Tokyo, everyone was dead friendly, weren't they? They were just like the nicest people, weren't they? I'll be like, yeah, they were quite nice, but I felt it was a little bit fake at times, it was a little bit like put on, they just have to be, they're very good at keeping to rules, so they have to be very, very polite. I feel sometimes when someone's over polite, they kind of like, it kind of renders meaningless other times when they're polite, when they're so overly, and she's like, oh, I know what you mean, yeah. There was a bit of over politeness, and that is a good challenge, because we've just had an intellectual discussion about something like a society, and I've kind of wrestled that to the ground on it. A bad challenge, which a lot of people mistake for, is she goes, I like watching tennis, and you go, oh no, I don't like watching tennis. You know, that's just, you know. So yeah, and a bit of push and pull would be, I literally have no idea, no. It would be so many things, push and pull. Let's just keep to Tokyo. I wanna come up with something that's relevant. So she goes, should have prepared an example, but there's just so many like types. Push and pull is basically like her, when you're being a bit cocky and funny with her. So it could literally be anything. I'm, my brain's a bit dry now, but yeah. You kind of get, that's quite a well-known subject, isn't it, push and pull? That's quite out there, isn't it? I don't have to like harp on about it too much. If an example does come to me in the middle of everything, I'll just blur it out. So, but as I said, you don't have to do these in order, or you don't have to do this like all the time, like every single one. You don't have to, it's just literally two or three of those, and then you can move on to a bit of authentic communication. But you never really, this, you never really give it up, and like, can I just mention, you see there, that's your energy and that's the pink is her energy. They've got to match each other. So you're not the clown, you're not like this high energy guy, like oh my God, you're not that guy. You're the guy who's just like complimenting her energy. So she's going back with energy, you're coming back with energy, you know, and that's how it should work. Right, so, an inauthentic communication and deep rapport, as you can see your investment is going down and her investment should be going up slightly. She should be like now, if you don't get a girl to invest, it's over from the beginning anyway. But it's a bit like if you had a dream car and I gave you that car for free, you would not treat it like the dream car you thought you wanted. You'd just treat it like something free you got, right? Because that's, you've not had any, as much as it is your dream car, you've not put in any investment into it. So therefore, it doesn't matter to you that much. If you've saved up seven years of your nine to five days saving up for that car, you will look after that baby, like there was nothing else in your life. And if there's no investment, there's just she doesn't, no matter how much she might like you and stuff, she won't care that much, you know? So the more investment there is, the better. So here, I'll just give you a little indication of, there has to be times when she's talking more, she's investing more, and there's a little rule with authentic communication. 90% of the time you're speaking or she's speaking, it should kind of be about her and her world. 10% of the time should be about you and your world. But if you want to expedite things, it should be she's interested in her world and you're interested, let's face it, in getting with her. So just go for it, you know? Just like talk about her, whatever it is, if she's interested in traveling to anywhere, talk about traveling, talk about your traveling experiences, that's fine. But make sure it's related to what she's interested in. It's really important. So here, we've got the seduction bit, I don't know if you could just see that. Logistical, as I said, ridiculous things have happened to me during day game in London because I live right on Oxford Street. That is a prime, prime spot for quick lays basically. It's a bit unexpected living there. So don't have to live on Oxford Street or live on a street where there's a good bit of traffic all the time, you could live 20 minutes away, that's fine. But always keep in mind that girl is 20 minutes away from your bedroom because there will be opportunities, different girls, different opportunities that arise and different girls are differently adventurous. So if I've got a French tourist in central London and she's going back to Paris in two days or the next day, I'm not gonna date her, am I? I'm not gonna waste time by being all nicey-nicey. I'm just gonna go for it. I'm gonna take her to my doorstep and just offer her, would you like to come up? And some of the crazy things that have happened like that has taken me, I think the quickest was 25 minutes from the street to my bed. And once she was on my bed, because it was so intense and she was going home the next day, it just happened. Like we both knew what was going on. It was just so intense and it was just so sexy because of that. Now, if I'd taken her for like a three, four-hour date, firstly, she's going home tomorrow, it's all good. You should try everything, but you've gotta keep in your head, as I said, anything is possible, you know? So logistical leading, it's all about you always mapping your way. It's all about like, right, this girl lives here, okay? She's gonna go and meet her friends in an hour, fine. Then I'll just take her for a coffee for half an hour, close the next time. Can I close the next time? Yes, I'll invite her to a restaurant near my place and we can hit things off from there. I'll go for the bounce back then. Power trade is very important. Girls feel really, really safe. I think this concept has been talked about a little bit, where you let them lead you. You know, you kind of give them the power. You give them the power. The power is essentially yours, but you give them the power. And they love that. They love how beautiful that is, because only a strong guy would be able to give way to the whole I must lead, I must be in control. And the best time to do this actually is when you're in your own house. So in your own house, don't act like the king. Don't act like, i.e., the dick. Like, oh, it's my house now, I've got to go here. That kind of thing is just like posturing, it's not real. And this is all through experience. This is all through me being that dick, to being a beautiful man, because that dick never worked. You've got to make her feel really, really welcome, especially leading up to it all. You've got to really make her feel like this is as much her idea as it is your idea. You know what I mean? So it's about not pouncing on her, it's about letting her do her thing in your house. And obviously, you're still leading, you're still taking her to the bedroom, you're still saying, what would you like to drink? Stuff like that. You're still going to your bedroom, you're getting on your laptop. One of the best things I do is get on my laptop and just go, where'd you live? Like, especially if they're, you know, with Google Maps, it's such an amazing thing, because it gives you tons to talk about, especially with Deep Raport. So I'll be like, where'd you grow up? Show me on Google Maps, where you grew up. And she'll show me a neighborhood in Germany or anywhere else, you know, in Brisbane or whatever, if you're from Melbourne. And it's just, it gives you so much to talk about. You just go, oh, so what did you do there? Is that your playground? Is that where you kissed your first boy? Or, you know what I mean? It's just such an amazing bit of, you know, a bag of different things to talk about. And also, YouTube's a great idea. So just log on YouTube, give her the laptop. Again, like, that's another perhaps more physical symbol of giving her the power. And just say, put your favorite music on. She'll feel a lot more comfortable with her favorite music playing in the background. And just, you know, it feels more homely. And always ask them to take off their shoes by the, like a golden rule. The more, talking about feeling comfortable, always, house rules gotta take off your shoes. If a girl's in her shoes in your house, what did I say about body language precedes thought? Not like, if she's about to have sex, she'll never have her shoes on. So you've gotta kind of make those things happen. So we've got, if, you know, that this physical push and pull here is just about.