 What's up good people and welcome to yet another episode of bars with stars right here on SPM bars guys if you have not yet subscribed please make sure you do because we have a lot of content planned for you now today i have a star right here with me someone who's been trending you know for the couple of the past couple of hours you know and this is none and okay guys this is none other than oliva otieno aka comedian why why hey looku see looku bro i'm by i dressed by me dressed by you um why why hey i bet you are ready for the wisdom today you guys you know why why yes people listen to your talks very much and you know they there is a net we see it yes and you seem to be a very wisdom with a wise person rata these are there we hosted you on our friends vibe yes what you follow comment section this is why why guy is very wise nini me experience is not experience and also acquiring knowledge in school acquiring nili on a jita futi asasawa kwenyei eh i read a lot of books i read a lot of articles okay infact must stay up all night i don't have to be reading uh from um a physical or an actual book because i have books i read a lot of books but must in asana kwa at least try to get information about this in fact this one information we're going to have for the longest time to mention to metafuta nani alitengu nesa in tanja to metafuta vilekina kwa moto sayo nani na toa na kuna magic kwa paipikiku yena pita kama ni moto sayi kiyo ayo kitu na shido shido nasi that is dangerous basi when you think about it ni metafuta juzy maka nime naka funguwe ni ni mita kwa isdanshawa waka aje but ita kuna ni metafuta akuna mutua mi explain si kula miseta explaini okitu atakula viusa po ita kwa presidencia candidate kumidians on atafuta shawa yume kwa aje moto hey why why you know that's actually something that crossed my mind the other day why did you call yourself why why that was my dad's name used to be his nickname yes so i took it from him yes niki yanza niki yanza nili kwa na naji ta kisiagi nili kwa na jyabi yangati ukiwa na jina fani kutakum fani jina kwa fani make sure everything about you is fani dress fani look fani and then atosipo chekesha watu akangili atu atu akangili atunguwe akua lafu wana unaitu kisiagi wana cheka hey watu aku cheka ezazote niki akuja niki jida triple o because i'm oliva utienu utiyambo so niki jida triple o it never worked so then i thought about nika sema can i be a little creative so niki na kuentafili niki ulizwa nitu ajina apinta kwa na sema kwa na sema tu atu i have abbreviated my name oh si juhini nia then i just went back nika juku ajina ya my late dad nika moku iru disha sasa to light na ion nili work by the way imagine probably that was the entire plan that was supposed to happen do ma na ulu kuno na true kumeni niki omokia nyuma ata wei apu nyuma maliuna oni apu nyuma bani niyo jina but elisha iyo siji shizo manizo 254 toh ayo jina bida you know names have very important meanings to people's lives nukweli nukweli sana yes utatwame jina yam toto wako because guys he's the latest dad in town and this is actually the first time i'm saying this the second name exclusive espiambas whoo drumroll she's called sise gaona hey sise gaona guys yes she's probably the only one in africa called that why sise gaona because i know the someone called that she's sise gaona first of all number one i don't even want her to get a son from me number one i want to cut the tribal code okay i don't want people to to ever know niwa tribe ganiu kumbele ehe epi aki anelia mbele aki zam toto to wachana naini ni tribal profiling so i'm killing that that is what deliberately na mombia si chuka ata yo jina aki chuka si kumeni aka manikinem sawa but kwa idea ke nata katua kuna jina very neutral sise gaona i like watching spanyola movies zam mexicano mada enyuma rero so rero so spanyora las so this is a character kwa movie na itwa falsa identitak she was a beautiful woman beautiful woman but mindset ya ke niyama naume watu aki na woma ali wanauma na kimbia but niya naba naba aki nika sema this is the name gaona yes that's a beautiful name hey congratulations yyy how does it feel to be a dad feels amazing it does feels great what has changed new level what has changed a lot has changed aha a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot asa hi masimu si shiki obi obi asa hi pasamoja si shiki simu ima jemili kwa ni kwa asika masana e na fa ni kwa na change daipaz ni ni na fa ni kwa na bond na mtoto yes skin to skin skin to skin ni ni ni so new life new things reasonings angu ni difference aii they got different ni baba na ni ima sa iziati hey by the way ni baba sise anyway ni baba sise abuata bifoto ndelen na mtoto back to the advice you know that you're giving because there's something else that you did yesterday you get what are some of the wife material traits you as a wife person yes think that every wife material every man that chooses someone a wife shh that wife should have those traits number one manamuke mani hafuri hee ulu ko uko ready na izivit mani hafuri e nkufura tu mefura tu mefura aaa wei wei watua hafuri for no reason aaa is women we will just wake up and then they all of a sudden they don't feel like coming to you nlambda unliko na ita mtu kandotum to minginae no let me tell you e a lot of women on da manya na po online e adio let a man not tell you anything oh let a let a no money should tell you anything e those that say that ah water single e single wala wa maybe they are single and happy wala wa praise your man so you need you cannot be single and happy but then uko ha the only person that can be single and happy is a man aaa now you know you've been because a man can be single and still enjoying fruits of labor come on we are single but we are single to who is asking you know badu tuko mambu etu na na tukama lakini tuko e mambu maweeli matata tuko na na wacha tu sendele apo ae wana mkambaya furi ha furi mmhmm nambatu nambatu submission e geto muna katai submission let me tell you some what is submission submission you know njwa sasa wana wacha uko ready for uko ready for no way why what is that no nambu ya as a host tia chasina mambu nambu ya nambu ya e a man and a woman yes can never be equal yeah okay women have to accept that mmhmm imambu ya what you call we atami miapa o kituna fanya niza fanya una rudi usiku usiku mibe na faka rudi usiku ee alakini nisi una eza rudi usiku napia mi na eza rudi usiku sendio yo suti rudi suti rudi hehehehe when the rudi rudi nika nawa uta rudi nina wengine uta rudi nina wale uko let me tell something yeah even if you paying for that house that's it is more to that house than just a house that's a kingdom that's a kingdom so we una lipa to rent kwa nyumba kadogo nyumba is just part of the kingdom kingdom ni kubua kingdom ni kudua nyumba tu ni kadogo kwa yu kingdom yote ee nyumba is just the so submission submission ni usiku usiku ee ee you cannot be you could okay no number one the moment let me tell you something yeah the moment you start fighting yes na mona ume amu uta iwen yeah that's number one let me tell you a lot of women the mistake wana me kingi ni kutume kata to sifil guilty for makosat na do just do your thing ok na fanya baya ukiri da liye tu ta kuna maliknae da ne nalewa nimi wana baya one two wrongs don't make a right yes the moment datini me kwa mili rudu usiku jana sasa ume rudu usiku ok ya now that's you newtoto sasa that's immature so kitu da fanya newta rudu usiku na hindi usiku ya kwa yamu isho uta kume siya ta kuru di tu uta kwa yu usiku ya kwa ta kuru ishiya uta ishiys yuma henda uta ume hindi apel a second chance let me tell you something the moment you start competing no uta kwa chance a real man gives chances to na pay opportunity baka kufiki apa si kwa na fika apa and you know men be one we will not just wake up and leave uta pa bianiaji ikitu na fanyaanga chunga sana oh da da da da nimi wacha sita iru dia tena muna poa muna poa, muna jifanyaanga muna sawo muna consequences li kwa karibu iku e tena muna sawo tena muru di pali pali tena ikitu nita yaa ii usiki kifikaanga mukiaji sasa muna anza oh hei ya li kwa na mutu all along oh si you ni ni men uta apiga matukiyo kama diamond venya lisa man apiga wa seno ake matukiyo akuna mama matukiyo if I will tell you something every woman that has dated me yaa knows how much over caring man I am loving but I don't take nonsense li no wana jo angafizu ni kwa ambia say ni sana na ne trafa tu tokihapa nifa ii kwa na wama nia aa a ni sana na ne tu na tokapa niki say ma ii jagi tole apa ii kwa apa wana zi no ii jagi kwa pa ii kwa uku ni kwa na sa ii uki maliza kwa unge ii jag kwa eka pale man ni lisa wewe kwa if you bidi afuana opinion kwa nyumba opinion akuna yo you don't understand ii isu si ni mi ni nimesemi ii jagi tolewe wona se me ii jagi tolewe si yola zongi mi kwa apa su unge ii weka pale si ni ii jagi angu ni mesema wona ni ii jagi si ni ii jagi angu ni me kubia na yo ni mesema ii jagi tolewe kwa so si tu ii jagi tolewe wewe kitambo su unge chuku ii weka pale yaa that makes sense you understand aya so when when you're doing your thing as a woman in most of the situation mi mi spenangi kuhu kuhu ingiliya vituza wana wake si ingiliya angi wacha fanya mamboa eka ni ni apuna kafridom tu kake pale kafridom tu kake kati freedom yaa asi danya tini freedom tu aya kuna kwa mene ii koregulete zena nisa tini freedom ganyu eni koregulete uka aya freedom ni hati ii freedom ukona yo usipo me isu kusawa e but utumi freedom weba ya e kwa zona jo wana waka na penda wana kwa mene baya sad mm wana waka na penda wana oh my darling where have you been I missed you baby girl how e hee hee wana subu wanga wana e wana subu wanga in Nairobi so lazima sazigi ni piya e as a man lazima utafeni yo frame yaa lazima jue e wu mu se anani penda nampenda anazandu ya anything lakini kuna extent ni kimi eka ita kwa mba hee wana waka so dem lazima jue extent ni akon they have to know the extent in which unawiza go wrong unezag viduza unezagu agil they have to know because if they not know they will always be testing your frames kila sikuwa na kufuta that is why wana je panagazila yutura so ni piyege so ni piyege let me tell first of all if you ever find yourself as a man demia kwa na fika na wei puntia so ni piyege so you have failed as a man because hajuikituna zafanya anafa skiza kwa na kikia uje se maa pii kwa tzindi uje se maa pii kwa bata nafa ajuie anawa eza tandi kwa lakini se tandi aza nafa tu anafa tu maa ni aja mi umuza aza tandi kwa lakini se azi wei tandi kwa lakini se tawa wei sasa feminis watage uzaikitu ni me sema asi tandi kwa lakini nafa ajuie aki jaribukuni piga miimi anawa wacha tu sendelen ewa story aya kuna demafuri kuna submission yes kuna kuna ni ni sasengina agiu meni kwa agiu aya kuna ni trust aya aya aya ati wei ni utunikiwa na mawa tu hangu unanya maza throughout I want somebody who will be a voice mwenyata kama siku na kama sayi kama siku for example na kitu me fanyika for example ata kofisi maali bibi anwa na fanya kazi anawa eza si mama kwa niyebe ofisi na seme our lawyers are looking into the matter so we ask you guys to be tia ti ulazi wale wa ni wakuenda wala na zima kwa mtu mene tia kwa modest ana so that one then we are talking about intelligence na zima uski e ana agiu aje in whichever the capacity the problem sometimes we judge people's intelligence based on the benchmarks that we have the problem is sasengina kwa relationship na demu niya kwa 19 and then na taku judge intelligence ya ke na Michelle Obama that's why we go wrong so kutabu judge intelligence ya ke judge na watu eni waku kwa levelia 19 years old twins and if you're dating somebody that is way younger than you as a man for example sometimes once in a while you have to go back to the area of emotion juna jwa uko 30 u sasengina kwa 20 most of the time there are a lot of differences when it comes to emotions okay so once in a while kuna bitu zene you might not be able to stand her sometimes intelligence sasu ama agiu niye ni so sometimes once in a while you leave your udume then you wu kbika totu kada but you don't stay there usi sindabu kikikikiki unapongidokiki so let's say if you know it is na fawzi kwe yes okay sawa accha tu sendelen isit traits juna juo niha di kakwa Nataka kusahatu sata muna kuja kukula chips because most of the situation i'm not saying all So during that situation they'll generally say they will not be able to pick a child. And it isn't her fault and if it is not her fault mwana to pick a child She's going to ruin her because cooking is a basic need not even for both men and women cooking is a basic need but as lots are providing, cooking can be related for sure kama wuna provide nice QA nipprovite na alabda na nikuji kupika nipprovite minit funikiyu mi na funikiyu wana kuji wana kula bade gopone the man of the house kuna kitugini waga abad kupika so i'm telling you about your bringing up the way it affects kwa na dem haju kupika kuna kitu mamaa ke akumonyesha na kama mamaa ke akumonyesha kitu kama iyo basi chances are kuna bitum mingi aja onyesho apart from kupika so we can notice cooking is a vice then you have to scrutinize again other things kwa zudapata uta kuwa wana ishina mutua ko 30 na alabda kuna aspekta za life za ke zengya hazija maturishwa for example umepata weo dem a kuna everything good kila kitu yuko poa as in intelligence,submission kila kitu lakini weo dem abeendi kupika ni iyo tu kupika weo nneka ex juya chakula iyo tu siku i will find out i have to be logical as a man what makes a man is logic la zima uju ni kwanini haju i kupika na kama haju kupika i will have to scrutinize other attributes that are related to kupika kama kama nini wana iyo ikina kwa naka kichuongumu maali dem wana iyu tu kupika chances are kuna kichuongumu kwa touch to it imagine you saw between zengina zote zikosa hiwazi it can be perfect hiwazi these are attributes every attribute depends on another hiwazi pata tii atimana wama nne aja ishika 10k maisha ake kuna gari atu semi a tii aja wa ishika pata kuna gari awezi la zima ushika iyo 10k siku waja ushika 20, ushika 30 you can say that kuna nneka ishika 10k maisha ake kuna but imagine you saw between zengina wana wama nne ni mhad working lakini aki mazin do badu ni kama nyotaki dogo ni uta ake mazin do badu ni mkata lakini wana he has a very great vision sosa wana wame kama utifanya nawa unimi wana juwa nini muna ngalianga wana wana ngalianga vision wana wame where is your vision no, main nikonayo but you see I want someone that can compliment me can you look at your vision no, I want someone that can compliment my vision because I have mine but I do not want someone that is going to set me back yes you understand that's where I'm coming from so nini makosa wana kwa nga nazo nia bia wewama wana wame utifanya nia iwa iwa wana wama nia kuna vision akuna vision lakini doki dogo imemkata but wana nika ma ita kama nama one thing that you have to look from a man nama one is integrity ok how integral is this man aki kuwambia ako town nana kwa nga ako town nene unona because if kama kuna kitu inafanya nga what will grow kwa maisha in all aspects is integrity umsem transparent you say what's official kuna nga maluna nga nia wale wu mempea kazi kidogo amenda kuna na pesa wakuna ma vitu nani what to do kina nani businessman of Nairobi kina na real businessman are very disciplined they wake up at the right time they go to the office at the right time na uta aipata unana wana wana nga wana aona nini wana spend 300,000 na business man wana fanya ile legit ile seeo legit ile aonda ile real businessman na pata na spend 300,000 wana sitting ile pata na labda bieshara zake zina mleta 250,000 na day so anapil ni kama I have wasted this day so anapil kama so anapil kama yes yes yes so a serious person you will never find a serious person when you are extravagant extremely extravagant you will never find for sure I think actually that's very true girls mess kia those are some of the things you should check kukia wana mtua mea kwa so much extravagant kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa muna kula kula sayo kwa kwa kwa kwa kula sayo but anyway you guys make sure you subscribe to SPM Buzz aya imesha ii kama 20 20 la sasa so beti je uli zekwa ni a average women havarigli looking women ama ma dem 2 wana kama ni kama ni wana average ama ma sumaya wana kama ni kama ni wana average why they so happy in relationships muna wale wana te seka wana te seka ni eida wale sura ile ingina kabi sa ama extreme how average yes why because of your egos sasa wata uremosa ni amla wata uremosa yubaya uremosa yubaya nukipata demrembo manya ako kwa relationship and they are very happy afani zovitumuna utakanga wafanya amesha meet amesha meet let me tell you something do you know why a man will leave his house in kileleshwa or ronda kileleshwa ata meisha atas yukani metaja kileleshwa ja main atuako kwa nikila kileleshwa kileleshwa ma demo miaribu kileleshwa ma demo sita wana nakuishi wanyumba 60,000 3 bedrooms 2 wawili wana inaka each bed per sharing 10,000 per sharing wana isi kama wata waka vacation wana kwa wata wana pelekua air bnb wana kwa ni kama waka air bnb so why would a man leave his wife nalana house help you want to blame it on the wife? no please thank you no because not the wife but kuna kidwenya wu hasi wana ayo ati hausa nini piya amesha kanga piya nini akshe mtu akulala na house help waiwai atalala na air yata wafanya ni sawa that's logical mtu akulala piya ata ukwenya atalala atalala tu but sawa but in situations respect kwanza skiza so nga nga ni mimi nga nga nga wana but I'm telling you why some of them might do that I'm just giving you an example submission is a turn on to us than the ati for example mi nawe tu me agyu ni magyu na dem and then ati ananda puti because silent treatment it does not turn me on as a man every time nafil ni kama tu me agyu na dem alafu ame nga sija ame fanya ni ni ata labdame nga sija alafu ajaribu kufanya ni ni ni ni happen what is the problem can we talk about things it makes me even don't know this there's nothing as good as there are two words in the news na kwa ga very nice can we talk about it let's have a conversation about it wana so the problem ni ati dem ame kukusia ame fanya mako but then you need to kusia sa na sija mako sa him tu na fanya nga ni nga pi wana kusia wana kukusia mako zana fanya nga ni nga pi nga pi iyo kuchatnawe na na chatnawe iyo ni mako zana fanya nga tu where do you know iyo nga ni bigi everything but anyway I'm just kidding away from that any time as a woman you're silent on your husband ati you're quiet ati na nene the devil will talk to him shetanya tamonga lesha mami sasa wewe unanya maziwa apa na kuna mutu pala rohizambu na hawa rohizambu wana pika chai wana riyungo alafi na heko maziwa maji pumali maji tanga weli alafi hey hola masada nolizwa tanga wezi do you want coffee o do you want nene unaka majimoto unaka majimoto ya kuga na kuna hotsewa but that's for you by then maybe I do not support silent treatment because I believe communication is the most important aspect in our relationship and if there is no communication then what are we doing there is very tiny nothing we are doing but anyway guys okay that's a good one now yesterday why ume kuna hepa isoriyangu sada so how are you doing yesterday you posted a beautiful woman a queen a queen and the queen was not just alone the queen was expectant yes why ume amo uta to release even if it took my KCSE results because for the longest time I've been quiet how come na muka dani simba amenyesheo muka dani uko pekiako muka dani simba amenyesheo na iyo piya ili iwefunzo kuwa wat? iwefunzo ike waiwai uko na kiburi iwefunzo na iya piya tunasef tu standardun na kaka dem tu piya murembu diyo siyambia watu oh that good looking women diyo ono na iwa kwa zile attribute zote za uki taku datimutu and sure they are good looking to you and sure you find them sexually attractive the moment you don't find your woman sexually attractive apu katikati muna na kwa chana kwa ni ni zote infakti ni one of the key points la zima she has to be sexually attractive to you to you if you don't find your woman sexually attractive live today today today tukasai unena kumuwacha unena kumuwacha even your man is not kwa kwa kwa kumuwacha but you will cheat you will cheat because you will go looking for return so also that's not all those don't mean that men are perfect ono na piya ni wa kora tu wa kora tu wa pa henge wa mese mbuana lakini fili sisa mimi ono na yonu eno na fuku ono na ongelea mimi na fani kue na sema shidazenu shidazenia zina pa anya to fanya mambo biletu na pa anya but lakini nini na umu na kongo mekaliya hapinesi eno emu imagina si atu kwe tu musa mi si ati ati, ati, ati, ati, imaji niya ni niyo tu imaji niyo tu ala profisyon zip na provide imaji niya ati si tu tafta pesa nini niyo tu ati nini ni kujilea na tu sema tu niya chiaya ko sii miyangu kiliata kamin demu niya na pi kuna na shikana later niya mambo ya kui shikiya sii ju api you know where the problem comes in apu kwa submission you know because now the world has changed everyone is working everyone is bringing income in the family so I feel sometimes women feel like you know you're still expecting me to submit 100% but again I'm bringing I'm helping you provide but when a man provides by the way naka mamchu anaku provide niya na usubmitu na kusiasana now you issue ya women feeling kus madem skizu wako zileza ati a modern woman namu niya nga demu niya nga tweet kwa tuza modern woman now seju ninsu ni nuna padan demu tu akushina kwa kelabo so when you modern gani modern ghost modern gani so what happens is that it takes a lot of humility niya from a woman that has money to submit to a man check very well ok nalia mademu wengi wana ju atama icons wengi wana ju wana kwa nga doi kenya chasa sahara anamutu niya and it's not ati juma na ume ana it's because dema kwa na pesa yo pesa kwa tata dashi daga tu apu mutu kwa na dukit wevo the way I'm providing mutu wengi wana dukit daga sisi you provide maisha tu yote mademu ometu chiti maisha tu zote tu mai post mai honor to keep post oh women are dogs si you need aa kerji besta ya kwa si ame post bibi ya kia wu you see mana ume mwenze tu let's talk about men please let's talk about men mana ume maupen aa no sasa umenza kwa tena 180 races mana ume maupen mana ume maupen mana ume maupen jampatin mana ume maupen no what we call this person mana ume maupen why no pinigadam fukisunzi ya bugda anyway yes sasa kereji is just not one of us ay in a polite way eta ni ni mukini ni una lakin ule dema lady serve bida if you look at the things because ule dema li kwa piana vuga social media so I feel like with our audience pier kerji had to come out to jere bukukiliya nemi ya ke wu imagine ume nun liya dem ahudi ea ume ume kama isya na isya kereji wana manyumakada na nezake muna wana aneza mumu isiku e inyubai wiki e kikwana leakage kidogo sijui tap majime isya kidoga kipampampu ngeba inyubai ini muna lalauku kama atrapo vacation ala usasa wewe ona kembia sijui nenda kuchit sijuku fanya ni ni ala funa anza kutangaza online my friend iyo gari to try kujia kereji a li kujia li chua gari tulifura isa na kama ana ume a li to represent so hapo a li a li bonga points a li nyo apu ma liya unge unge a mingi ala utena tukona rizuna wana unge a bonga points se kapanda wela li chua gari we a li tuluku atu mefunga yukesisa sa bonga points se ma liza waza kereji nitu izikando so besema kereji ndo chiya manu a men's konfrensi mua kaka a zistar mana insekretari manzisha na chiya man nirektrum trust bado tumunini kidogo tu wana kidogo baka atayenda baka tukima wana na kereji baka together usiguni ni a wai wai ritu atu a Rudiana muna a chana 6 months muna a chana 4 what muna a chana 4 what kama muli a chana 6 months nini juya rizun muta a chana 10 na funga chapter move on don't be desperate official maria official Maya lovely official Maya Maya ume sema kuliti zote zeni ume to ambiya Maya akona zote baka mingi zaidi kusinda iso ni gani zengine ziongeze ni gani actually what is that one thing that made you at decide this one is the one that I want to be the mother of my child new submission okay new submission Maya na jovizuri mimi suweze mochapa suwezi fanya nini suwezi nini lakini kuna bichu zeni ziki fanyikanga usiki anga oliva penangi yo yo oliva kipata eh saini sa maoja eh niki kainje sita muchapa but noona kuna boundary sa me but you know I feel some things new out of respect out of respect respect some level of respect zegi nimi ata niki toka kuangu nesiki niki kama I'm stepping out niki kama awote ni ma wana wakia wana ume wana wakia 2 puawa niki kama 2 noona number 2 which is also important that is about her but which is also important to other men hygiene yes uke kuwana wana muke moja nacha chupa ya soda kwa mali TV na ekuwa nacha wikombi apu muna kana viyombu 2 days remote ina anguka wooo wana wana wana wana wana zafanya tabi asyara awezi mutasumbuana so yo ni uke kuja kuwana mukuna chakula throughout wageni wana tersemusha number 3 ??? uke ??? kwa naenda skwezi wewa, owa da disappointing people there at night waku disappointing wa disappoint chu lakini wale wa kuni ni, wale mbu gurunao na ni ni lasima ato wa kujapwa nyu mba kidogo wana, wana nali wa kitu ato wa wana onje kitu wakule wa fanya ni wa buru dike isi kuya tii, oh now days you're just chilling with your friends oh so you now days you're just doing it with your friends oma beshizakwa kujapwa, mista ki kwa na na ni the moment you lift your mouth and say that steak ki kwa na na ni wewa na tuwa na kwa na ni lakini wewa na nita kwa meona tabiaza oh yo rafiaza ah meona pa ni missi yo ni kwa ni tabiaza iso tabiaza na mafek apana iso tabiaza kwa ma ni mekwa na iso tabiaza ni kakupata waja kwa ma ni mekwa na iso tabiaza ni kakupata ni mekwa na ina ita tabiaza ni kakupata kwa iwa na manisha kwa ma singe kwa na ei singe kuni ni labda tabiaza ki atu jawa na ta kuhin flense bada kwa na ni kwa mbujue kazi women ono no huya rafiki wewa na nasema utaki ali saye na maali ni waka inga waka kubali na kitaka wewa na uta ena wewa na hichar wewa na hichar anafaya na anakaya kamaati basu na kamaati siku na kani huyo na zi mumu isi mukishi na de staki na ni na nansikuja ni apa wewa ni uta ni ni aki ukiske wu mewa chatu na tuwa japewa rezo nuju ni kamaati kamaati na faja na ni ni mzuri ukia na tuwa beshizaka olawa saden ukoni yukuwa relationship alafu ame kuja tukuku olawa sadeni waka watatu ame kuja kukulaku waka awja kuja waka na nandja infato ali wami shiba mbaya wami kuja auditions na ni auditions wama na ume nafa kuja kama shiba if I'm coming to audition my women's my friends women na zi mani kuja kama ni me shiba wana jetu? niyo hichi ya kule kwe tamu mbaka ni fanya mimi na ni me shiba ni taki kwe kula junaza kuja ni seme ja kuja tamu kuma ni njia na ni njia na zi mani kuja ni seme hei chakula ni tamu kuma ni njia ina ni ma liza so na zi mani shibe aaaaaa hichi ya kule ni tamu wana waiwai jama ni e anyway tawa you know now you mentioned something about age and looking at Maya na wewe suji kama there is a huge big difference na kama iko 12 zi kwa zi waduku me mention if someone is younger than you there is a sometimes you have to do something something you know just to be there lafu unato kachaluna do this tell us how what's the age difference between you and Maya around 7 to 8 wow okay 7 to 8 that's quite a lot yeah it's not a lot it's standard that's a standard standard not it marika wana subuaga wana na seza ni kama ni ni njia seza tulizalia wa sem ni ni we ni innu kwe li and another thing ye e I'm not saying that it's wrong to date somebody that is older if I have ever dated a younger woman in older than me oh ye how many years oh a lot as well seme yo in k mulisha upi 10 8 8 years us kribisa nikiaster Aga kuna kuna kuna kaos, tenaktafta malini kienda, kuna kuna kuna kuna. So there's an egg difference, which is also very helpful for her, especially even for mentorship, because there are things I've seen that she has not seen. So sometimes the reverse in a kwa nga rong sana, in a kwa nga baya kama dem ni moulda, na wewa simu waes kama wana ume, ama uja machua kama wana ume. It's likely to affect you because this woman has seen a lot that you have not seen and so most of the time she'll find herself in a position whereby she wants to mentor you. She's cooling you, you know. When she starts cooling you, she feels like an adetum doi, but if you're younger than the woman, but in every toziko kwa hi kichwa, anafili kama wendo badunam skul, then... That would be tick. So guardian is top notch. Tick, let them have a good time, let them enjoy themselves. You only live once. So it's very helpful, our age gap is very helpful because also inampechansi yaku, yaku grow towards me. That's why na kwa me asadini na na toka from my area of emotion and then I move to her area of emotion and then I go back, I don't stay there. Si shindangi uko kwa ni. Na shindangu ni kitafutani kwa nga baya kwa ni na lafuna rudu kwa area of emotion kwa mi shindaji. I really man does not become romantic throughout. No, no, no. You have to know. Ramazinia kusyotu ya relevance ya una exist. Umi shindaji, una fanyani, una takani ni ni. Tu endani ni ni. Have a good time. Bitu shindi apu. Uki shindai apataku darao, tatafutau le manye. Because women are wired to be attracted to those that they perceive are of higher values than them. So anytime una shindanga uki submit, kwa wendo, kwa dem baby sasuna takaji, babies tu fanyaji, le fanyaji, ataku acha. In real sense, Bado ma dem una semanga aondo wana ume Bado wana taka waku apena. So you need to know, he is loving me too much. Una yanyi bia mujiwa ni kitumataka. He loves me too much. Yana ni pigiwa sasote. Sayana famu pigiwa sasote. Eh, wewa wonezutaka uku pigiwa kilawakati. Tenna, si pupiga sasote. Sasa, pigi. Sasa, ok, wonezutaka uku pigiwa kilawakati. Muna seba muna sumbulewa. But sasa, wonezutaka wonezutaka ni. Wonezutaka Bado. Wonezutaka a cocktail of. A kuwe mizuri na Bado, a kuwe maharo ngandi kido kwa. Wonezutaka, we want everything cocktail kido kwa kwenbali. You we cannot find utapata kichu angumu straight. Just be more desperate. Ama wewa. Wooo. Wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka. Uza, wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka. Uza, wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka. Uza, wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka. Uza, wonezutaka wonezutaka wonezutaka. So, wewa, wewa. You've now had an experience of dating someone who's younger and someone who's older. Yes. What is the difference? The difference is actually relative based on what you're looking for from a woman. When you're dating an older woman, you're dating somebody experienced. So, the fights that she picks up with you are so much different from the fights that a 21-year-old 1918 will pick up with you. Kuna fights asya pigana na zoma kama wona easy vitas easy change. The aspects that manoma ikama iiha easy change. So, it's not like that. U mungirandewa nazi experience, soziana zi explore. So, he hadjui ni ni ni, he working ni ni. So, wewa 19 na working na, vile na taka. Ula mungirana working na, what really works. So, that's the difference. So, as a man, you need to know how to balance between who you may na work na vile na taka na who you are vile, issue zinafa ziku. So, the probably challenge also comes when the major challenge sometimes when you're dating a woman that is older than you is differences in your faces, the life, and the things you believe in and the things that you want to do. Your goals might be totally different. U mungirandewa na sasa, gina mafiga maala mese ma sasa, mimi staki mamba ya watoto? Ya watoto. Wesandewa na taka watoto. Ono na. Na iiho ni, number one thing in yana fanyanga, watua kusana. So, when a woman is dating someone is to marry them, then one day we can have children. Unless I do not want it prior, ni me discuss prior, I don't have a problem with it. So, can we just get married and stay? Then it's okay. But then on the day as a man, I want to at least have children with you. I love you at least. I want to see evidence of the love that we have together. So, difference in goals in affecting yana, because when you say, wucha li, baranda ku pati, baranda ku ruka ruka, baranda ku enakulaba fanyanga. U lia misha ma liza na, anakatu kusenanda ku invest. Wewa baranda ku invest, wewa baranda naji yambia. Ah, shere nashikawapi, nabaya ni ni. So, you will never go at, ni ni. So, one of you has to, in any relationship, one has to sacrifice themselves, or an attribute, or an aspect of themself. Ono na kama mi ni kama na ume? Ni kama ku compromise. Ya. Kama mi na taku pati. Bado. Ni kofesia ku pati. And you as a woman, kikue li kue li, u li siya pati. U li pati, u li enjoy, maisha. You should compromise, u join here, mi mi li enjoy. So, kumini matia ruke towards me, mi unfair. Ya. So, you let them party, then what do you do? You join them in their area of interest. Ya. So, then you find a common ground within there. Yes, within their interest. Within. Yes. But also now, again, I realize, u li siya pati. So, isi kwa extent kubua. Yes. So, piya make, kak compromise. Yes. That works. That would work really. Another challenge in a kuwanga, ya, dating in all the woman is here saying. What are people saying? Ya. What are your friends telling you? Oh, it affects. It does. Big time. Really? Oh, big time. Nimi ono ajiwa bati na Diana, they've been intact this whole time. But, but it's a pattern. Yes. But, ni amang the few. Ya. But amang the few. Kue li. I don't know. I don't know. Naa, I don't know, ya, naa, ya, naa, ya, ah, ah, naa. I don't know what it is. Aa. Su, aa, aa. Aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, aa, Yes. wata niche kelewa na deti mutumu dogo wata niche kelewa na deti mutumu zesawa I'm used to that but muta kwa mbe una juhu na naku chekelewa wana ni tenu kachinu jambe eh wana na naku chekelewa so you start looking at all yanga women again wana jebe eh ama nafani achi ulewa wango ama simu attractive ama simu ni nini nambath three or four nene lishupi nina ribingi lishupi nene dem older na ni na yes na chalim dogo insecurity the older woman anna jam kwa mindi ake however beautiful she might look kwa mindi ake de jambe eh I'm not sure kama ni mumichu I know kwa tunawatu ama unangwa jatusi kufu lani wuki fika 35 ama wuki fika nini uta ndi ama wengina will you will you so as long as there is this doubts as long as a woman has doubts they will always fill those doubts with the option jambe eh ama ni ni kama ake pata chansia kufu flat dungi na ta flat dungi na jambe eh and then of the day nene watua kujaw mambie eh mimi nili adeit mitu miang hee ni unize wana zanga visuri wana zanga su na kumukana ni sini wupi cha ake na ni wana zanga visuri wuki fika nini anna kusika trena dema kufika home so every day you will find yourself if you have she has not made her her mind completely dungi na pikanatu de li every day unasiki akuwa nana jwa dema dema ma ma ma ma ma ma ma ma ma ki dita chingi hata kama jya konga lisha bata kama na kwa nisha every day you will feel it then as a knee stick na kwa miaga hatu kusawa hata yemoji na dry hee ameni ambe I love you ameni ambe I love you ya L-U F-O-L-O-V ameni ambe I love you L-U-V ameni ambe I love you naku you aka eka you nama zama love ya hee apu kuna shida apu kuna kuna shida so it's just like that so anytime kuna kunga na gaps kama iso demu try kui feel and they can't feel it with you they don't think that run of high feeler discuss na hata try kui feel wapi ma li anyata feel kama ako igwe ake na kwa supplemented wwe kuna mtu ali zema iso mambo zote zote they don't matter it narrows down to money shida ni umaskini kama kijana ni mdogo ana pesa wewata watcha to leki ni kama ako na pesa na Juliza is this the same case with Bahati so ni guliza suali Bahati ako na pesa hae ni guliza ni guliza suali na ni na ni na ni kwa na ni doktor dress ome divorce na ni bilo ne so pesa ikwa api apu ayu sasa ulam bilo kuna shida zingini no in terms of age when it comes to age and when it comes to the difference in age so sasa iso witu zote ato wiki ambiwa wambiwa witu ati chali ako ata kwa chani ni na ako na pesa uto wiki ako let me tell you why it's not money just that money creates an attribute or a characteristic in women it's not the money but it's a specific attribute ni na kujanga but money is part of the thing nini na fanyanga dem nili kwa mbianga anupakanga kwa kwa feel ni kama you are of a higher value higher value in most situation ni bile ii me attachu na finances it's not necessarily finances for sure it's either finance or emotional na jokuna wale reya na mkushina na pesa after na mkushina na emotions na na mkushina na pesa after na wewa sasa ni ni ni aki wose so wura pesa wewa wose ni you are not taking a ground so u dem na feel ni kama there's not any aspects of leadership in you akuna kitu na impact na akuna uwa na ume ni una letter uwa na ume has so many things number one emotions number one care and number two care and provision ono na so easy for you kama haziko kuna wene dem aki feeling kama na feel voidiake kwa meshake ataka mauna do ataka how many situations kama tii kuna devlana kwa na do bata ma kwa ma na ki boi fula ni apo kusu boi kuna voidi na feel de ni ni ha muju kama kuna villana treats isia tu juia tu oni e so sometimes what happens is that wewa wuna tu do is a coincidence to a wuna do sendio but wewa pia sin duume so ame kuwaja usin duume but sasa wuna kelea pe desa ame ni waja juina pesa ni kwa na pesa singe ni a lot of people wana achuanga na iso pesa za wama yo pesa hako badum pera lo di kuchi kuchi to doemi now you know i really want to know how did it feel waka tuli ambiwa you having a baby mai alikuja kakwambia totoa ma muli kuwa pamoja mkaenda husi you know i just want to understand you know your fans also want to know alikuja kelea alikuja kelea prover fi kelea ta say ma na excetum toto ni muambia wa nani wa nani wa nani mi mi na wewa for the last six months tumela na pamoja tumela na pamoja wana nani wana nani so maybe she was thinking about that and also because it was her first time so alikuja kelea I think pregnant ya is that the reason to cry no it's the same thing it's the same thing hey hey she's lucky bana watu wana bengwati nani nani tu na juana watu wana ruko okuja bro dem wana ni ruka hei dem alikuja finii ambiya kuna mimba hei niku wami ya akadebia no yols mimi mi nudubi mada tayang h okuja wibu ni miku dafora nikuwe mama niziae ke raka ni ni ni ni ni ni ni ni gyauzwa so this one happened like that or super excited but we just wanted to be sure so we bought a lot of test kits kata kafanya kafanya nami fi aemi kawma nika test na yurini-yang Niwe. Oh, it's a legitce. Jiki leta niko nami mma. D'nda narsia nami mba wasi ni false positive. kisha mmbaya. Todd watia waiweya uiiyo nake. Ni liya una. Ok, before 30 so have we expected you to see her marriage ama what's going on in him and we couldn't attacked her In this world ne god tu unfold Yes I might speak here then my words are used again is to me please say my oh, the one who used to be walking next to us But today We were going to go get some tiktok and she said I will marry her but then she got the post saying you will go世 We just believed that If it's a good thing, God says It's the right thing to do if you are in the right place, God will guide you naka maa hapo siyo maalina Fani kwe and it's two if it's two, it's two and if it's two, it's two That's the thing So how long have you kept this relationship private? Because in 2018, you said you had a heart breaking in a normal, but you didn't get to know her. Yes, it was 2016. Yes, it was 2016. So how long have you guys been in hiding? 2 years. Ah, okay. That's really good. 2 years. Alright, let's hear. 2 years. I don't know what you said, but you said you had a comment section. Yes, I did. Yes, I did. Yes, I did. Aki jamani. One and two me are congratulations drivers. Yes. Okay, so how long have you guys been in hiding? Congratulations. Congratulations. What do you have to tell them? Congratulations. So the ones that are disappointed maybe they, you know, they were looking at you and they were like, this is a potential comment, pal, what are you going to say? Let's keep on being friends. I have a lot of baggage right now. I have a lot of baggage right now. Yeah. But anyway, you know, it's, they kept quiet. Yeah. So I've always been there. Yeah. I've always been there. Yeah. I've been single for the longest time. Yeah. So have me kwaengatu. Yeah. So say you need kusha, butter, kitu, kali, and you just as a, You are disappointed, you are disappointed, but I'm not saying, now I have a DM here, that's just two me will kasaema kitu. Yeah. So they kept quiet. The problem with these women, they don't want to shoot their shots. Yeah. If they shoot shots here, the reason I'm not finding is the shot. Yeah. Nisa zi gina tu ni labda. Nila, but actually, Ita ingiya tu. Ita ingiya. Uki shuutshotu na josu ita ingiya nga puti nga on na. Uni ulua kuhuze. Uni ulua anini. Anafajaji uyu nini. So wali wali shuutshots. Kuna niya piwali funguatu rawa bide. Namunia niya beba kandaka tutugu na watotu ziunini. Kafunguwa rawa na nini. So a lot of them have been showing me love. And some of them are telling me I'm a broken butt. But anyway I'll still support. So if you love a flower, if it comes back. It was meant to be yours. Why? I read somewhere. Sasa wacha ni kushike. Yu kukwam tandao nyu wa same tandem taona. Well, why Sades? The reason he was single that particular time is because he does not believe in sex before marriage. And women want sex before marriage. Na sasa umeni ambiya bado amjawana. What's going on? Did you change your mind? Niki sayema jana ni me shibaso nisi kulele. Agwebo li change minds. Niki sayema sasa jana ni me konanja utanda umeni ambiya. Ukuli li konanja jana. Nima tuki ogani li happen. Nini ni li happen uka change minds. I just decided to reward good behavior. You reward good behavior. We don't just sleep with any woman. If mimi kama ni ni meila nawewe. I was rewarding your good behavior. You deserve. Wai, wai. Mtoto na fungulia page kuwa Instagram. Wai, wai. Agu muiki kukwam tandao. Wai, wai. Uyo si. Nafugwia ni nyama. Uyo si. Nangia lafina jiji bwapu kama nila wamilamwa. Atibuda nila wakufain nila fu. Konki. Niliwana maya jana liandei kaka komenta kasiima our daughters twin. So that means you look the same as the baby girl. Wai, na nga jua kuone isopicha. Niki. Kini. Ami piga kuktegil. Yungu na rembu ama maki. Ika tewa ki tujimona jo sasa boy handsome Iki ni ni ni apua lafu yu mi Eh shi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi Ika ule sasa nde omo toto wa Instagram model But tutu amoe ka uko Tukufungu li account Because at the end of the day that is Tutu akwa na danganiana because I have a funny content Erisista angona fanyakonten so hey page ni yaa ke So kwa amutu ta fanyakonten a man say hey page ni yaa kubado It is me still posting there every day. Thank you daddy, I love you daddy. It's a lot of work, but I love you daddy. So ni kama mingela jpenda. Yo ni kakupiga mukono wa. As we finish, please tell people, what are we expecting from the newest dad in town? From the newest dad in town, what are you expecting? You're expecting another solid man, when you append Yupuze. Uge kuja na uji inga apu kwa peji hangu. Tu na kutafutas, this is, tu na kutafutas, tu na jomali kutakupata. We have legal channels that kutafutas, na ngoto tu na kupiga propa. Ya tu ni mi? Oh ni mi, oh sii ni premium tiers, kwa sii na premium tiers apu. Na kutafutas tu na isu premium tiers, oh do takunyo isu premium tiers. Tu na kutafutia premium tiers kuwa, no, no takunyo. But anyway, we expecting a role model as well. Okay. Na ju sayo na takun taftasana. Chains to behavior. Sayo na takun taftasana. Pwale kuwa, kwa na takun taftasana, kwa ni kuwa na clients, tu na kutafutasana, pika pika pika. Pwale kwa team master tu na kungoja. Mi na zahomba tu viviani. Mupige tu akun na kitu mutani fanya. Hey, sawa basi, tu meskia waiwai. All right guys, thank you so much for talking to us. Tu na ju na Rudi kushugulikiam, tu tu you miss the baby. Appreciate. But thank you so much. Now, we have something. Baby atami travel, alpana na dege. Eish, we are sorry now. Now, waiwai, we have a gift for the baby. Tu na takun na ju Riyaia wa mejeparnga. Kido uile, ni ni ya uaiwai tu lehte, So, something. We have, things ready Bana. bena na we tu mejeparnga si takamina這邊. Acumuna tam du ku testekama. We are fuhama. We are fuhama. We need to see to connect here to connect here to only. This is the day. This is the day. Kwa na wimbo gani? Kwa tu kuja ni tu sa idea tu imbiem toto wa why why? A new song aki kuwam kubuata tu onapale YouTube Ikare bieni Wimbo ilikuwa gani? A thousand years Why why a thousand years? That is the challenge By Christina Perry Oh my goodness Yes, that is the challenge I have loved you For a thousand years I love you for a thousand years Hey my voice you guys Aya Darling don't be afraid I have died Kwa Saza machine wa kuwimbo Okay It's a video I have died I have been for you I have died Love you for a thousand years I must brought you Kwa na jwa kuwimbo But that was a very good job Thank you so much Thank you You know you just sitting down and talking to us It's a pleasure bro Thank you so much Always home Thank you so much Keep on subscribing Kwa sababu him waga trokot na tambariza SPM buzz is coming back with a bang 2022 is different It's going to be political entertainment Udaku Kama tiaro cha fuikopale na edu ma story My goodness I'm telling you So shout out to Betty herself Yay Thank you so much This is all the feelings that are represented Right here on SPM buzz This was buzz with stars With Oliver Ocheno aka Comedian YY Do not forget to subscribe My name was Miss Kitingi Or rather it still is Miss Kitingi And see you next time Goodbye