 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته اسم الله ورحمان الرحيم والصلاة والسلام علي سيدنا وحبيبنا وشفيعنا وقائدنا وسيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما يمضره لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم يا أرحمد رحيمين افتح علينا فتوحى العارفين يا ربنا يا ربنا علمنا ما ينفعنا وانفعنا بما علمتنا يا أرحمد رحيمين سيدنا إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن افتح الفيميو كمبانيين والمسجر الله سبحانه وتعالى صلى الله عليه وسلم وفيميو كمبانيين الفيميو كمبانيين is أم روما and our male companion is عبد الله ابن وصوت Let's start and see how these companions were recorded into history what we know about them what we can learn about them بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم أم عمارة أم روما أم روما هي زيناب بنتعامر ابن عبد الشمس ابن عتاب ابن وزيناب زيناب was raised in سرات in the Arabian Peninsula and she married a young man from her tribe named ابن حارث and she had a son from him they were happy couple and they moved to Mecca عبد الله her husband became the partner and the good friend of سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عن soon after they moved عبد الله passed away and زيناب was widowed and she had her son and they were left with no support so seeing her condition سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عن married her this was one of the merits of the people at that time that a widow is to get married as soon as possible سيدنا أبو بكر and أم روما سيد عائشة who became the wife of the messenger of Allah so أم روما was the mother in law of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was a beautiful woman and she was known with صدق she was known with truthfulness she was known with being a good wife and an eloquent lady so she was a very good lady now أم روما learned about Islam and she was from the very beginning of those people who from the prominent peoples who accepted Islam in the very early days in Mecca so she swore alliance to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and then migrated with a group of immigration they went to Habasha and then they went to Medina and we all know that أم روما was a very good wife and she was a very good support to her husband so she would see him do whatever he can for the sake of Allah and she would help him with that she would help him in his deal how he can help how he can be the closest to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so she was in addition to that she was a very good mom she brought up her children عبد الرحمن المعاقشة the best of she was a very good mother سيدنا مبكر رضي الله عنه was known to be a Siddil she was a complete إيمان and belief to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم with whatever he would say أم روما also was a very good support to her husband even in this she was a very good support to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم also so سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم ستلت in مدينة he asked خولة بنتو حكين to go to أم روما to to ask her that سيدنا محمد is interested in هايش رضي الله عنه خل الله عليكم من الخير والبركة what great thing الله سبحانه وتعالى has given you what a blessing what good thing that you are getting so she said what's that and خولة رضي الله عنها said أرسلني رسول الله أخطب إليه عائشة I'm here to see to ask the hand of عائشة he wants to marry عائشة so روما رضي الله عنه was very happy for that news and she said إن شاء الله that would be the best thing that we will have but I will talk to أبو بكر and when أبو بكر came back she told him إذا بكرنا ده أدخل الله عليكم من الخير والبركة so he asked what is that and she said the messenger of Allah sent me to ask you that he wants to get married to عائشة and سيد أبو بكر سبس for a second and he said can he marry her and she is his niece because they were considered brothers سيدنا محمد so she went back to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم عني حولة and she told him what أبو بكر رضي الله عنه سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her go back and tell him قولي له أن تأخي في الإسلام وابنتك تحل لي tell him you are my brother in Islam and I can marry your daughter and by this أمرو من رضي الله عنه was the mother-in-law to the best of the creatures now if we want to talk a little bit about the relationship of the mother-in-law to her brother-in-law to her son-in-law so when someone comes to marry your daughter consider this man as a king who is going to treat your daughter as a queen and treat him well be good to your son-in-law ignore so many things that you might see here and there if you were not addressed to say something about an issue do not start it do not talk about it so be the example follow the example of أمرو من سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so many problems happen between a husband and a wife and with a word everything is fixed up everything is okay back again everything is good so now when things happen like this the the relationship between the husband and the wife always by love so a word might solve a whole big issue but if the parents know about this thing they will have one hold against that that son-in-law and when things are big enough then there will be so many problems between the in-laws and the son-in-law and the same thing without the daughter-in-law so both should be treated as a real son and as a real daughter so this was سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to أمرو من and what happened we all know the story the incident of when سيد عائش رضي الله عنه was accused of doing something حرام so the story the group of who seemingly believed in God but not actually believe so they would say we are believers but they would not be believers so they looked for an opportunity to disturb سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and his companions so they were started all kinds all kinds of methods to acting their aims they even slender the privacy of the messenger of Allah سبحانه و تعالى so they acted arrogantly they acted meanly to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so this incident is this slender by the head the leader of the hypocrites against عائش رضي الله عنه so normally سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم would take one of his wives with each expedition he would go to and this time it was the expedition of and his wife she went with him and listen to the story how عائش رضي الله عنه she said there was an expedition with the messenger of Allah and this expedition took place after the verse of هجاب was sent down so she was carried in a kind of a chair on a camel she was light so she pulled the chair it was not heavy so she was put on in the chair and the people in charge lifted the chair up and put it on the camel and she said we traveled like that now listen to her she said when we approached Medina we stopped somewhere for a break and we we spent some time for some time then Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ordered to set up when the order to move was given I left the army alone to relieve myself after that I went near the camel I had ridden and when I got there I checked my chest and I noticed that my necklace was lost and that necklace was gifted to her by her mother so she said I went back to look for my necklace however while I was looking for it I missed the army I thought those who had joined the expedition would never leave before checking that I was in my chair so when those who served me they thought that I was in the chair so when they lifted the chair to put it in the camel they did not notice that I was not there and I was not a heavy woman so they did not notice that I am not on that camel and they moved so she found she found her necklace and she returned to the place to find that there is no one there what she did so she went back to the place where she had where she was looking for her necklace so she wrapped herself and fell asleep so one of them was one of the Sahaba who always stayed behind the army and checked if they left something and went back to the army so around the morning time Safwan came to the place where she was and he noticed a sleeping person so he said she woke up hearing him and she told him what happened so he got his camel made he stepped to the front and asked to mount the camel and she did and he took her back to the army which stopped for the next break before getting back home and they caught the group and while Safwan was bringing on the camel they were seen by Abdullah so the leader that was the leader of the hypocrites and he said who is that person and they told him she's Aisha so Abdullah that that leader wanted to make use of this simple incident so he expressed his evil intentions neither Aisha nor that man will be acquitted of this incident and he accused them of doing some shameless things he uttered many other mean sentences and the rumor soon spread among the soldiers of the army Aisha did not hear that and nobody told her so when they arrived Medina she was sick and she had a fever for almost a whole month and the people of the Medina were talking about the slander but she did not know anything about it the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم he with her parents had also heard about it but they did not say anything to Aisha they concealed the whole thing from her so sayidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم would come in look at her and he would say how is it a patient that he would leave Aisha was worried about this attitude of sayidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم but she did not know the reason one day she wanted to relieve herself and there were no bathrooms and no restrooms in the houses so she would go out a little bit away so she was with one of the women her name was أم مصطح so one night she went with أم مصطح to relieve herself and when she suddenly she said مصطح and this was a special phrase of curse that would be said between people so Aisha said مصطح why did you curse your son and she said to her I cursed him due to what he said against you she said what did he say again about me and مصطح told Aisha but she did not hold it and she started to cry and she came home and her illness started again and one day the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم entered the house and greeted them and he said how is your patient so even but سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم is not even mentioning her name so she was suffering a lot and she asked him يا رسول الله I want to go to my mother's house and he agreed so she went there and a few days later سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to came to them and again سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to them and again سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to them and again he would see her crying and crying so there was no revelation from Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم and سيد محمد wanted to consult his companions what to do it has been over a month now this this everyone is talking about it and الله سبحانه و تعالى has not revealed anything in this regard so سيدنا عمار سبت رسول الله عمار سنجرب الله this is a big slander I definitely know that it is a lie a lie of those hypocrites God protected you even from flies is it possible that God will not protect your family from such such disgrace also سيدنا عمار سمان said something very beautiful and nice about how Allah سبحانه و تعالى protected سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he will he assured him that he will protect the honor of the family and so on so سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to Abu Bakr رضي الله عم and after greeting them he looked at Aisha رضي الله عم and he said I have heard such and such things about you if you are free and away from those conditions God will state that you are free however if you have committed such a sin ask for forgiveness from Allah سبحانه و تعالى when a slave of Allah confesses his sins Allah will treat him with mercy Aisha رضي الله عم with a broken heart said when the messenger of God ended his words she she teared and and he she looked at her father and she said father answer him and he didn't he said oh my daughter by God I don't know what to say to the messenger of Allah and she turned to his mother and her mother said the same thing so she said by God I know you have heard these rumors and you look as if you know you have believed them so if I were to tell you that I am not guilty God knows that I am not you would not believe me and if I were to tell you that I did something bad God knows that I did not you would really believe me so she said the only thing I will say the only thing I will say فصبر جميل وعلى ما تصفون تيشنس is almost fitting الله is the one so for help against what what you described she had a great faith in Allah SWT she was sure that Allah SWT would help her because she knows that she would never do anything to please Allah SWT الله is just enough to show everyone that she was free and clear of these accusations so Allah SWT revealed Aya's down and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم looked at Aisha and said God acquitted you and stated that you were free and away from that slander so أبو بكر and أمرو من became very happy now imagine imagine أمرو من she was crying crying for her daughter she knows who she raised she knows who Aisha is a word out of politeness out of respect to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so in return سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم respected her a lot and this is how again the relation between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law should be complete respect of caring so this was the story of Aisha رضي الله عنها and how her beloved mother dealt with it very wisely she would comfort her daughter and she would assure her that الله would not leave her so in the sixth year of Hijra أمرو من رضي الله عنها passed away Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم went down to her grave made dua for her and asked Allah سبحانه وتعالى to grant her forgiveness so this was أمرو من the wife of سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عنه the woman whom Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم described by saying من سره أن ينظر إلى مرأة الحور العين فلينظر إلى أمرو من anyone who wants to know what أحوري looks like we know that the woman who will accompany the faithful Muslim believers in paradise so anyone who wants to know what looks like should look at أمرو من this was أمرو من رضي الله عنها now we move سيدنا أبو الله بن مسعود about whom سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم gave so much good information and he loved أبو الله بن مسعود so عبد الله بن مسعود was a person who loved سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so much he was so close to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم if people were asked to leave سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he is always permitted if people are away he is there so how how did this relation happen so we'll go back from a little bit and we will see that عبد الله بن مسعود is a person who is thin very weak who is short who is dark colored he is very weak he is from Huzail but he lived in Mecca and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم gave him the name أبا عبد الرحمن he was very generous he would dress always and he would have lots of perfume and if he is passing by then he would be known that he passed from this area even if people did not see him because just of the perfume that he has what was special about him الله سبحانه وتعالى raised this person because of the Quran because of his love to the Quran he was very smart الله بن مسعود was of the very early time of the people who embraced Islam at the very beginning and his story of how he became a Muslim is really a nice one he says I used to go with sheep to graze the sheep of أبا عبد الرحمن سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم أبا بكر passed by and they asked me is there any milk and he said yes there is but I cannot give you it's not mine I am a master and I cannot give you from this milk سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم do you have any any sheep that does not give milk he said yes here is one so سيدنا محمد wiped the she and it gave so much milk he made and then the was so so impressed with what he has seen so he came to say the and he came to him and he said to him yeah teach me and he became a Muslim and he said he said teach me of the of the Quran and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم put his hand on his head and he said you will be a boy of knowledge you will have lots of knowledge so that was the meeting between سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and عبد الله من السعود so as soon as he سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم told him about the Islam of course he became a Muslim so from that day he started to be always with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he would never leave him he was the best to recite the Quran after سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so one day the companions said قريش did not hear the Quran yet is there anyone who can do that so even مسعود just stood up and he said I'm going to do it I'm going to go to قريش while they are meeting on the Ka'bah and I'm going to recite the Quran so he did and he read as much as he could from Surah to Rahman so he was the first one to make the non-believers listen to the Quran أول من جهر بالقرآن so the people the people they looked at themselves and they said what is been Mu'ad say what is he saying and he he kept reciting the Quran loudly and they were so angry and they started to hit him to hit him الله until he came back to his companions and he was bruised everywhere on his face and he did not care so they said oh this is what they were scared that will happen to you he said they are not a problem to me if you want I will do the same tomorrow they said no no no you already made them hear what made them angry so سيدنا عبد الله was a great person a great companion he was so brave in غزوة بدر he helped the companions to kill أبو جهل سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم gave him his sword on غزوة بدر and in غزوة أحود he was also very brave he stood fast he came to Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم to defend him and he was he had a very good special close relationship with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so as I mentioned what made the best merit for عبد الله المسعود was the Quran that was his his amazing character that he enjoyed so his recitation would touch the heart and that's why سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to tell him read استقرقني or he would say استقرقني النبي سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم would ask him to read the Quran for him and he would say would I read it and it was revealed to you he said I would love to hear the Quran from someone other than me and he used to love to listen to the recitation and he used to say من سره أن يقرأ القرآن رتبا يقرأه على قراءتي أم عبد على قراءتي ابني أم عبد so if anyone wants to read the Quran exactly as it was revealed he should read it the same way that ابن أم عبد reads it عبد الله المسعود how he reads it سبحان الله so this was his position this was his rank with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so let's take this moment and talk a little bit about the Quran different emotions can affect different people when you hear the reciter if you eyes might be recited to an audience someone get affected they would feel that these eyes are talking about them they would feel that themselves within the eyes they would shed tears and others might not be touched at all so this is the status of the heart the Quran is the words of الله سبحانه وتعالى so when you want to receive them you want to receive them with an open heart so the heart does not have if the heart does not have the love of the dunya then it will be immediately affected when it hears the Quran so there are steps to get connected to the Quran first of all take baby steps and later on you will be able to have big leaps assign yourself 5 minutes a day if you don't read the Quran at all just assign 5 minutes then later when you find yourself you are able to do more make them 10 minutes and after that you will feel that your heart starts to get connected to the Quran and you want to do more and more and when you read the Quran try to understand the meanings of the eye as you are reciting learn the proper pronunciation learn the three truths one at a time practice it to another rule remember the more effort you put in learning the Quran the higher the reward is Prophet Muhammad SAW SAW said such a person who recites the Quran fluently will be with the noble righteous scribes in heaven and such a person who exerts himself to learn the Quran who recites it with great difficulty will have a double reward so don't say I don't know how to recite I'm not gonna do it no do it and you will find it difficult at the beginning keep going don't stop don't let the shaitan whisper to you that you cannot do it or you are doing mistakes or you will get bad deeds don't listen to these whisperings just follow what Allah SWT wants read get connected to the words of Allah if you have a letter a letter from a very dear close friend you would read it once twice, three times but this is the word of Allah after that you would get port of that letter but with the words of Allah you will feel that yourself wanna read one khatm after the other and each and every khatm you learn something new either a word a tashkeel word that you used to read it wrongly or you would understand something or Allah will give you the light of opening for for an ayah, a special ayah or you will so many things will happen to you when you are connected to the Quran try to get the obstacles that hinder you from learning the Quran get rid of arrogance get rid of loving of this dunya get rid of loving of anything that controls your heart other than the love of Allah the love of messenger of Allah and the love of the book of Allah empty your heart imagine your heart as a cup that is filled up with love of dunya wealth, cars and you want to fill this heart this cup with the light with more but there is no space for it so the first thing to do is to empty this heart to clean it and then fill it up and this is what we should all do we wanna empty our hearts from any love related to dunya we want the dunya to be in our pockets not in our hearts so our hearts should be clean and ready to receive the divine light and when you are learning the Quran listen to reciter this will help you a lot to improve your recitation when you listen when you have the light now you have to apply these so that you are reciting it's not just the words that we are learning no we want to implement these words in our life apply them fully and then learn the next few ayas so when you read the Quran and you read or you believe just listen carefully to what is coming after it imagine imagine that the Quran is addressing you there are things you have to do and things you have to be away from so be try to have a good relation with the Quran empty your heart to be able to have this good relation so sayidna was the person of Allah and after the death of sayidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم everybody recognized his position because they knew how sayidna Muhammad used to talk about him how he was so close to sayidna Muhammad everybody witnessed his ورع what is تقوى تقوى أن تعمد الله كأنك تراه فإن لم يكن راه فإن هو يراق that's part of إحسان تقوى sayidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم تقوى ها هنا and he points to his heart always have in mind that Allah is with you الله معي الله ناظري الله شاهد الله معي يقرأ كل أشياء نفعل لا يمكننا لا يمكننا to have Allah look at us and he sees that we are doing a bad deed what if someone dies doing a bad deed then that that one will will cause his richness that they after so this was sayidna sayidna another thing about him he used to to always blame himself this is what we should all say every night sayidna Muhammad used to what did he used to do before he sleeps he would scale his deeds of the day what did I do what did I say what did I look at what did I listen to where did I go who did I hurt with my tongue sayidna Muhammad once mounted a sofa and he pointed at his tongue and he said يالي سان وقول خيرا تغنم وسكت عن شرن تسلم من قبل and تندم so he is talking to his tongue saying say good you will be a winner say stop of saying anything bad then you will be saved before you feel sorry so remember when a word is said you cannot take it back you will wish that oh my god I did not say this word you might break the heart of people because of a word that you might regret forever so incidents might happen and you might say I wish I didn't say what I said sayidna Muhammad talked about that and he said so these tongues are the reasons for people to be in hellfire a person would say just word and he would not care about it or he did not he did not mean it in a bad way but it will be a punishment for him it will be a big punishment he broke hearts of people so this was sayidna this was the lesson we got so many lessons from today's sahaba this is how we should follow this is why we should follow these luminars these stars that sayidna Muhammad talked about and praised when he said بأيه مقدديتم my companions are like the stars whoever you follow you will be guided one day a person came to sayidna عبد الله and he said to him I saw in my dream the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم on a high place and you are and he is talking to you and he said come to me it has been so long so sayidna Abdullah knew that it was his death and it was just a few years after that a few days after that dream and he passed away so this was sayidna Muhammad who will always be remembered when صورة الرحمن is recited he was the first to get the people of Quraysh the non-believers to learn or to hear the Qur'an for the first time وصلى الله عليه وسيدينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم وسلام وعليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته