 Hey what's up you guys it's Lloyd here so obviously I've been getting a lot of messages about the current predicament right now. Most people are in lockdown or being quarantined in their own house so they can't go outside and a big thing that I've talked about on this channel a lot has been going out and talking to women and obviously at the current state you can't do that. So what do you do in this scenario because I know a lot of guys are worried maybe they were talking to a girl beforehand things were going pretty well but now that they're in quarantine they're worried that they're going to lose her because they can't see them in person. And then I also hear about a lot of other guys too that didn't have any options before the quarantine happened and now they really don't have any options or get pretty pessimistic about their prospects in the future. So I'm going to be talking about these two things because look man when this first started I was worried about my dating and sex life. Not so worried about it anymore because I've pretty much done a lot of the things that I'm going to be talking about in this video. And actually this is covering a lot of material like there's a lot of stuff in this that I won't have time to cover. I'm going to be doing a more in-depth presentation on this on a webinar that I'm going to be doing this Saturday at 12. So if you want more information about that I would love to see you. The webinar is 100% free so just follow the link in the description below. Say you're attending and then click the link when I put it out and show up dude. I would love to see you. You're going to be able to ask me questions as well too. Okay cool so let's talk about the first scenario. The first scenario was where you're talking to a girl it was going great then bam coronavirus happens you're quarantined and now you can't see this girl in person so you're restricted to using your phone to try and contact her okay. And what I find the biggest problem with this is that a lot of guys who are very good in person and very charismatic and you know that everything seems to be going pretty well. A lot of these guys they can't translate that to technology when they have to do it through a message when they have to do it maybe even through FaceTime or something like that. They can't be that person anymore they change and dude I really sympathize with these guys because I used to be this too you know when I first started going out and trying to better myself I was very very against using the phone I was very very against using dating apps so I basically all that I did all my development was on speaking to people in real life and I think that's awesome. I think that's the most important thing however given the current circumstances that is not the best thing so luckily years ago I decided that I was going to make the effort to make sure that my digital presence my digital personality was up to par with my regular one okay. So it is kind of a skill that you have to learn and one of the things that I'm going to give you to start off with I think a big reason why a lot of these guys they tend to not be as cool as they are in real life over the phone or whatever is because for them technology and messaging it's kind of a stressful situation so like they text a girl that they really like and they're waiting for the text message back so they start to get stressed they start to get nervous and when you get stressed your body releases cortisol so when you release cortisol you it basically turns into a fight or flight that means your body cannot think of funny things it can't be silly it can't be fun and so you're in this mode where it's like you're literally just trying to make sure that she likes you and you start being needy it just and you scare the girl off okay it doesn't work so how can you get over this well the the first thing is to stop your body from releasing so much cortisol stopping so stressed out I know is easier said than done but one of the things that you can start doing is start by just having fun stop trying to expect for her to text you back and instead go for something that you think you would enjoy okay put yourself first again this is something that I always talk about okay because if you're always thinking about getting the next text message basically you're gonna start putting yourself in a stressed environment and then your body's gonna start releasing cortisol then you're not gonna be able to be that fun charismatic guy okay and ultimately it doesn't really matter so much that she text messages you back it matters that what you're communicating via your text messages and your messages and even if you try really really hard to say the most not needy things if you're stressed out it's going to come across I've been doing this a long time so the best way to do it is just to eliminate that stress to begin with and again it's easier said than done so start with what I just recommended to you and if you want more information about that I highly recommend that you attend the webinar because I'm gonna be going over all the stuff that I used to kind of help me get less stress when I'm texting a girl that I really like especially a girl that you feel like is outside of your league because I know some of you guys maybe you met a girl who you feel like is you're putting them on the pedestal and everything and you're already putting yourself in a bad situation okay so start with that alright now let's say you don't even have any prospects didn't have any prospects before the corona virus you really don't have any prospects right now okay so how do you get a girl just by sitting on your couch doing nothing well you're not exactly doing nothing you're gonna be on your phone okay and you're gonna be on probably a dating app or something like that so using dating apps how do you do this well things have changed a little bit you do mostly what you do pre-quarantine but during the quarantine basically your goal is to get them on like a FaceTime call or like you can even do Skype or Zoom or something like that do one of those things and there are a lot of fun dates that you can do over them you can watch a Netflix movie or something like there's actually a way that you can sync up with another person's Netflix account and you guys can watch a movie at the same time and you can have them on FaceTime Skype whatever and that can be a fun thing for you to do too I actually don't think that's as good of an idea because you're just kind of sitting there doing nothing and you know if you have funny stuff to talk about that could work but ultimately I think a better thing might be to play some fun games you can like honestly just have a meal have some wine do that but something else that works too and you know this could be a fun idea is you do like a painting class together or you can like there was one that I did with this girl where we basically drew what we thought each other like represented with what a little information we knew about them and then we would draw the picture and then we would show each other and then we would talk about it like it was a super fun game that we played so get fun get creative with this okay if you want more ideas I'm gonna have a list of all the ones that I've ever used on the webinar but hopefully a couple of those will set you in the right direction okay so yeah the main goal is to try first of all you know get get the matching with you so your picture's got to be good and generally having good pictures is the most important thing when it comes to a dating profile so you match with them you banter with them for a little bit I would recommend that you change from the dating app to a phone number a lot of girls are given out the snapchats I would I would give a little bit of pushback they want to push you on snapchat because that usually means the beginning of the end of you talking to this girl so there are ways that you can work with snapchat but generally I would say you'd try and get off of it and you know say hey I don't really use snapchat you know it's just this is text and sometimes that works okay so now that you're texting then try and go for the FaceTime call I would get it while you're hot while you're kind of messaging if you try and organize a FaceTime call that can work sometimes too but then she's gonna get nervous like the way that she does for a date I would just FaceTime call or while it's hot if you guys are messaging back and forth pretty quick say changes are she's doing nothing the only time she won't pick up is if she feels like she doesn't look that good or if she's really really nervous and there are ways that you can get over that too but that's the general format for what I would recommend and then also too if you get comfortable on the FaceTime calls and she's comfortable enough with you dude I've had some of my students literally have the girl come over so they didn't know about this girl before the coronavirus coronavirus hits they meet this girl over a dating app they FaceTime a couple times and then they actually got them to come over and they had sex it was awesome it was a coronavirus love story you know how often do you get to hear that well you're gonna be hearing about it a lot more if you attend my webinar so it's a free webinar you guys I don't normally do this is totally 100% free so if you want to attend that I know this is a tough time so that's really why I'm putting out there a lot of good information for you guys because I know the usual videos I don't think is gonna be enough for people in this given scenario and that's what I'm all about on this channel so yeah I would love to see you guys there it's gonna be Saturday at 12 there's a link in the description below and I'm also gonna post it as a comment so click on the link if you want to attend but I would love to see you guys there thanks a lot 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