 I'm busy, busy, busy, busy, because busy is an easy way to say I'm not interested in a relationship. It's kind of fascinating though, because the guy will be on a dating app the next morning, or he's probably already on the dating apps, looking for the next fix, because that's what dating is. It's an addiction for many men. They need this fix of companionship, connection and sex without any real desire for commitment. And it's one of the reasons why when women work with me, there's a link to schedule a discovery call with me to see if working with the coach is right for you. My job is to teach you radical honesty. My job is to teach you to lay your cards on the table. And more importantly, the rules of engagement before you ever have sex with a man. So the second thing that could happen is by sending out this message, you might find that he genuinely likes you. And there was a situational thing happen that caused him to temporarily pull back.