 Y'all got to forgive me. Been working all day, didn't have soccer practice with my son. So didn't get a chance to shoot a video, been in meetings all day and working, and then soccer practice. But when the pop on here, you know I was just talking to my son. Not too long I got a ride to my office and pick up the hoodies for my wife. So y'all remember I told you the consistency gear. I think it's called consistencygear.com. I gave that business to my wife. And so y'all, y'all have to, you know y'all ladies be always talking about, you know, understanding what a woman, what a woman have to deal with and what a woman got to go through and how women got to do it all. So y'all got to understand, y'all ain't got y'all hoodies yet because my wife, she 100% be focused on family life and our sons. So she's just now, after y'all ordered two weeks ago, she's just not getting to put them together because she wanted to do it. She wanted to do it. I could have did it but she wanted to do it. And I cannot explain to you a woman's schedule. I do not understand it. I do not understand it. I don't know what she be doing but she be appointments and the boys and you know, doing what she gotta do. So y'all hoodies is on the way. Somebody wrote in asking about it, only one person to ask about it. And you know what? I don't know how many hoodies so it wasn't that many because it probably only had about 50 to begin with. But y'all ain't got them hoodies yet. It's been two weeks and only one person wrote in. And she ain't really writing in rules. She just like, hey, I ordered this on such and such and they ain't heard nothing about no shipping yet. And it was probably one o'clock in the morning when I seen it, I wrote it back. I said, hey, you know, I told you this my wife business now and she just been tied up, but she doing it on Monday. So my wife seeing that, you know, that made her go on kicking the high gear. But that's another sign that a lot of people don't talk about when they talk about couples doing business because if my wife was my staff and she didn't get to them hoodies in two whole weeks, she'd have got fired. So for those y'all who ordered my little McCart game, my staff was in the office today and that's what she jumped on. And I told her, hey, you could go home. And she said, no, D said they need to be shipped out today. So I'm going to go ahead and package them today. So I said, okay, but that's the difference when you have a employee versus a wife. And that's what a lot of people don't talk about when they talk about doing business. When you do business as a couple, you got to tread lightly because that could mess up your relationship because love and business is two different things. A lot of people don't understand that. That's why I try to tell people that don't say marriage is a business deal. Because if you go into marriage with that mindset, you're going to fail. Because if marriage was a business deal, guess what? Out of them went off on my wife and out of them fired them. Out of them took the business back. Listen here, these people ordered these shirts two weeks ago, but as my wife, I can't do all that. Hey, baby, you think you're going to be able to get to them hoodies? Because listen, I ain't trying to mess up what I got going on when we get in that bed room. Listen, I ain't trying to, oh, you didn't get to one yet? Oh, okay, all right, no worries. Yeah, I'll let the people know, yeah. So me being 16 years, when I see a couple who they business partners, they do business together, I am not jealous. I am not jealous. It was this one powerful couple that I knew of, they had this fitness company. And man, I used to be jealous of them because my wife was in their fitness company, like they was her fitness coach. And I was jealous of them. I'm like, man, they making so much money. Cause they charge $99 a month and they had like a thousand clients. So I'm like, these people making a hundred thousand a month, making a raggedy workout plan and meal plan. And guess what? Last I heard, they went through a divorce because when you do business together, it ain't easy. So that's why I told y'all, nah, I told y'all, I'm giving the bed to my wife. Y'all got to be patient with her because she is 100% focused on the household and the family. And what you have to understand, some women they try to say, oh Tony, she could be focused on 100% on business and 100% on family. You can't be 100% in two places. It's impossible. You might think you are, but let the people that you're serving have a say in that and they're gonna let you know, no, you 100% over here in business but you about 70% in this household or you 100% in this household but you about 70% in this business. It's impossible for a human to be 100% in two things at the same time. So I just was talking to my son because I'd be working. I had a call today at five. I missed my coaching call at five, I had to reschedule until tomorrow. I missed it because I was working. I was in a mean with my staff. But because I don't get off at five like a typical man, my son's, my youngest son, he'll step behind on the soccer field then the other boys because they daddy get off at five o'clock. But for me, because I'm a life coach, my job is different. So a lot of times I have to coach after five and because his school different as well. So he don't get home from school to like four o'clock and then practices at six. So he got to do homework and try to get something to eat a little bit. Whereas other kids, my son school 40 minutes from the house because he go to private school. Whereas most people, they're gonna go to the nearest public school. So the kids get out of school at the same time, they home in five minutes. My son get out of school, he has to wait. He have to wait 30 minutes to get picked up and then another 40 minutes to get home. So because of that, we don't get the same amount of time that other dads get with their son cause they son get home in five minutes. So I'm coming up here to get the rest of the hoodies for my wife to mail out to y'all. So see, this is the thing. It's a lot of stuff that people talk about that don't actually be true. And we got to learn about that though. And you got to realize that. My wife said the smalls, I wanna see the one small up here. She said it doesn't matter if I'm small. Y'all forgive me, man. So listen to me. I came on here cause guess what? The video I did other day, I seen the same excuses. People feeling sorry for themselves. You know, women feeling sorry for themselves. And think that when a man, think that when a man is asking a woman, when we say that we want a woman to understand, to build with us, think that we telling a woman the sell and all of that. And guess what? A guy hit me up. A guy hit me up. And the guy who hit me up, we supposed to go live on Instagram. So the guy hit me up. And this got what y'all, this what y'all want. This kind of guy what y'all want. You know, tall, dark handsome brother, muscular, got the big smile, beard life, got everything y'all be talking about. And he married. And he told me, he say, man, what you said? He say, man, you spot on. He say, man, you spot on. He say, that's what I'd be trying to tell him. He say, he said, if I, he said, because my wife built with me, now she got a seven figure man. She got everything she could want. He was like, well, has she come and said, Oh, I got the hell. This, this, this, this, this, this, this, this. He was like, for one, he was like, one, I wouldn't have needed it if I had all of that. He say, two, it would have come with ego and arrogance. And he said the same thing I said. I said, you know what? I'm glad to hear I ain't crazy. And so this one I'm trying to tell y'all, it go both ways. It go both ways. Men gonna have to compromise. Women gonna have to compromise. It's gonna go both ways. And we both giving up something. A woman gonna need a man for certain things and a man gonna need a woman for certain things. And different things gonna come in different seasons. Different things gonna come in different seasons. At different times. But at the end of the day, when we get back to our purpose, when we get back to that point, and we really can identify that character and really say, you know what? Can we mesh together on our values, our integrity, how we see the world, how you wanna vote. Okay, that's how you wanna vote. Okay, we see out of eye. If we can see out of eye, then we could build. And it's gonna take two. It can't be an advantage one way or the other. Can't be an advantage one way or the other. It got to be a level playing field, but you got to understand what means what. A lot of times we miss interpreting. We miss interpreting values. And we don't understand what real value is. We don't understand what really means something. And we get caught up in the wrong things. And that's why we fail in today. I seen a video, I feel like it was a prank. I couldn't have been serious, but I said, you know what? I wouldn't think this is serious, but I can't really say. Cause the way the world lives today, but I don't know if y'all seen this on Instagram to where the lady was telling the guy, he got a pay that was like dating in the DMV or something like that. And the lady was telling the man that the man got to be able to, that she in a relationship unless he could bring more to the table than her man bring to the table. And so like her tuition got to be paid. And I say her tuition got to be paid. Her bills got to be paid. I say, now, while this look like it's a skit, look like it could be a joke. This based on reality. Cause it'd be women saying that. And so it's like, that ain't how it's gonna go in our world. And so right now, what we have is men asking for unrealistic things and women asking for unrealistic things. And I'm gonna tell y'all the truth. I'm gonna tell you the truth. If people know that they ain't dating in the background, I'm at the office. Ain't nobody crying. This is an office. That's noise. They probably heard the paper crinkling from my hoodies. And that's music down there playing at the little bar. If people told you how their happy marriage actually works, nobody would believe it. If married couples who stay together told you what the marriage looked like, nobody would believe it. Because people don't understand how much compromise is in marriage. People don't understand that. And a lot of times people be talking and they be talking and they think they got something that's so special. That's so special. Like I heard a guy, it was a guy talking online and he was talking about, he was saying, oh, it's some relationships that they only having, they only sleeping together twice a week. It's some marriages only sleeping together twice a week. And so he talking like, you know, the woman just got to be ready, Freddie. Anytime the man ready. The thing about it is, when I thought about it, I'm like, you know what? This man has never once showed a child. He don't have kids. Like every couple have come together intimately four times a week when you don't have kids. But when you got kids, that's in the middle, that's in a prime and they have multiple sports. And then they got to, and you got to get up at 430. If your woman got to get up at 430, 5 a.m. And then she don't go to bed till midnight, 1 a.m. She's sleeping three to four hours a night. I guarantee you she not finna be on her bike no four times a week, getting power drive. Especially if she got to drive two hours a day with her kids. So I had to realize like, okay, that's why you got to take everything with a grain of salt because people could be giving you their blueprint and that could end up your red print. It could end up ruining your relationship because you feeling bad about what somebody else. So when I first heard that, I'm like, I'm like, man, my wife ain't doing me right. But then I thought about it. I said, oh, our life don't look nothing to like. Like our life totally different. And so that's what you got to realize when people actually tell you what they marriage look like. Nobody will believe it because every two people, you got to come up with your own game plan, your own strategy. And the question is, are you happy? And so if you happy with what you got, then that's all that matter. And if you ain't happy, are you willing to express what you need? And when you, what you need is your spouse willing to accommodate those needs. If you willing to express and they willing to express and y'all willing to accommodate, then you got everything you need. You got everything you need. But what I'm gonna tell y'all right now, okay? I'm gonna tell y'all something and I want y'all to understand this. When you go through my channel and you watch my videos you go all the way back, you click on videos and you click on oldest and you go in order and you watch the whole videos. What y'all is gonna see is that I'm real hard on the men. That I'm real hard on the men, that I tell it like it is. And I give away the game so that grown boys can't play the game. I shut the grown boys game down. So you would think. Now that's what I'm trying to do. Shut they game down, right? But here's what you got to understand. In the spiritual world it doesn't just affect one side. So right now women is starting to lose their mind. Women starting to lose their mind. So men was losing their mind but now women starting to lose their mind. So men took a stupid pill. Now women's trying to take a stupid pill. One part to the next. When men doing good, women gonna do turn and my now being drug into something that I shouldn't be in. Am I now acting in a way that I shouldn't be acting? And so you got to look at that and you got to be real with yourself about it and make sure that you're not getting pulled into the trap. And so when you look around and you start to see it where women were sensible and looking like the victim, now you see a lot of women perpetrating the nonsense. And now the leaders of the women movement is these loose booty rappels. Loose boot rappels and actresses and R&B singers. And what are they telling you? What are they telling you? They telling you to be gender fluid. They telling you to be bi curious. They telling you smoke weed. They telling you now it's like when you think about it now we're starting to have more voices for men raise up to be positive. And see now it's starting to shift. Yeah, men are still on their ignorance now. But you know the guy, the guy with the ball head, the light skinned guy with the ball head. Oh, he looked black and white. The young boys like him, like my son. My son be talking about the man to go. I said, why don't you ever say nothing like that? Sitting in my presence talking about this man to go. You sitting in my presence. Well, about to get slapped in the mouth. So I heard the man, his name Andrew Tate. He said a couple of things that I'm like, wow. I thought this man was red. He's red pill. He red pill in the sense of he think he could have a bunch of women that he just can have as many women you want to have. But then now he, I seen the video where he talking about a man need him one woman and then he need to settle down and not be cheating. I say, whoa, okay. So now when you got so-called a mantle spear starting to talk sense, that let me know that my voice and the other men who think like I think our voice is getting louder and he got starting to sit down and say like, hold on, he got a point. Hold on, he got a point. Like, hold on, this ain't really simping. This really winning. And so, but then when you look at it, when you starting to see more women pop up and talk foolishness, you starting to see more women pop up and start saying, promoting threesomes, promoting smoking, promoting all these different things. Like the shoulder they got with the lady. Got the black woman on there with her three husbands, three boyfriends and this going out there and it's getting off. And I'm trying to tell you, what you got to realize is that it's gonna be a shift. It's gonna be a shift. You gonna see this spiritual confusion go from one gender to the next and it happened in seasons. It happened in season. So you're gonna see the men be lost for a season and then you're gonna see the women be lost for a season. And you got to check yourself. You got to check yourself and you got to be able to pay attention and say, okay, what am I doing? And where am I here? Where am I operating from? What am I hearing? And this the thing with me. What I have to do is I have to be sensitive to the spirit. So when you spirit lead, you don't just talk on one message and just stay on one message. You're sensitive to the spirit because it's gonna be sometimes where this group got to be talked to and it's gonna be sometimes where another group got to be talked to. And you got to understand. So you have to think about this and that's why I tell women all the time, don't think like a man because when you thinking like a man, you thinking like a grown boy. You're not actually thinking like a man. So when you say think like a man, you actually imitate the grown boy. So when women start trying to do these different things almost in competition, you start to lose. Kayla say, I'm not building with a grown man. And that's why you're gonna be single. That's exactly why you're gonna be single right there because you're gonna have to, when is a man ever fully built? You ain't fully built. I guarantee you still over there broke busted and disgusted because if you're not broke busted and disgusted, you're not finna be in the comments with this kind of mindset and with no picture. And you might be a man with no picture on your sister account, making her look bad. They upgrade with your help and get a new one when they do. That's still your fault and that's not true. That is not true. What you think? Look at Denzel Washington. Look at me. I was on food stamps. Me and my wife was on food stamps. Look at the brother on RC Blaze. Look at even Snoop Dogg who in the world still with the same woman. Look at Jim Jones still chasing after Chrissy. Don't nobody, y'all listen to one Kanye West song and then look how he living. That's the kind of man that gonna build with a woman and leave. What sense do that make? What man, you talking about grown, you ain't talking about no grown man. You talking about a grown boy. So you got to understand what you talking about. Talking about men entitled to their preferences. We are entitled to that decision. Ain't nobody telling you what you not entitled to. What I'm telling you if you want something different than what you got. If you want something different than what you got then you gonna have to do something different. You gonna have to build with a man or character. And what you got to realize this is not no exception. This is the rule. Where you see how many men you see that built with a woman. They just showed more chestnut or somebody like that the other day been in relationship 28 years. Men do not build with just cause you got left by a grown boy, you are the exception. And so you write the exception don't make the rule. So every man I know who done built with a woman that is a man is still with that woman. What the world you think I'm gonna build with my wife for? What you think a man gonna build with his wife and then go take that to another woman? That don't make sense for that woman to reap the benefits. That don't make no sense. And then you got to understand it's grown boys who will do that. But in that case that is also partially your fault because you didn't get with a man or character. You didn't get with a man or character you got with a grown boy. You got with him because you was hypnotized what he had in his pants, his swagger, him being in the streets, him being a tough guy. You ain't get with no, you ain't get with no man who was moving like no square who was going against the grain who was doing what other men wasn't willing to do. You ain't get that kind of man. You got with a man for the wrong things. And that's what you got to realize. That's what you got to realize is you have to understand what's out here. And this the thing when, and this the problem with the ignorance is when they just, somebody I like to post today, they showed the man Matthew Hussie say he charged $10,000 for a one-on-one and the man has never been married. And that's what y'all are listening to. And then when a married and faithful man try to give the game, people want to argue. When somebody who in the trenches, when somebody who in the trenches, people want to argue, Kayla what you got to realize it's not that your opinion don't agree with mine is that you are ignorant because how are you going to argue with somebody who is getting data from three and a half million people online and has been in the trenches doing this for 15 years. So when your resume looked like my resume, then we could argue. But when you going off of your small circle in your city and I'm sitting here with a globally recognized brand and they spoke on three different continents and got three and a half million people that I'm getting bombarded with thousands of messages a day about what people going through and I'm taking and bringing the consensus. How you finna argue with me? I can see if I'm sitting on here and the brother who got a million followers online and he in the relationship space, I can see if we argue and so it's like where you seen a man build with a woman, a man that you would literally want. It's like we seen Swiss Beats leave Moshonda for Alicia Keys. Do you want a man like Swiss Beats? We seen Kanye West go to Armenian women. Do you want to Kanye West? Is how he be talking? It's like when you seen a man that is desirable, when you look at his character, you look at who he is, have a woman build with him from scratch and then leave that woman. And then a lot of time you have to understand why a man, a lot of times it be cheating going on and you don't even know why they left. You don't know why they left. I remember a man, he left his woman because he bought her a brand. He got an Infiniti and she went and ordered a brand new Range Rover and he like, man, an Infiniti truck is nice and this where our budget is right now but you going to get this Range Rover that's twice the cost just because you want to look a certain way to other people. And so he said, no, we can't build together. So a lot of times people don't even be knowing the inner workings of what's going on. So you have to really think before you speak and then what you have to understand, this was anybody who listened to me got to understand. I don't have an agenda. So it's different if I'm telling you, A, be with this kind of man and I'm out here single for the picking and I could put you on your bike. I'm married on 16 years and at the top of the game. So I can't even benefit from telling a one-sided, if I was telling a one-sided thing, I can't even benefit from that. I can't even benefit monetarily if I'm sharing a message that is angering and upsetting women and women to one follow me. I can't benefit, but you know what? I serve God. So I don't kill if you get mad. I'm going to speak the truth for those who God has given the wisdom enough to listen to somebody who's at a vantage point and in a position that they are not in and analyzing the game based on tens of thousands of case studies and bringing the report from that data. If you can't respect that, then you are ignorant because the Bible say there is wisdom in a multitude of counsel. So if I'm sitting with, if I'm sitting online, if I'm sitting online and I got, if I'm sitting online and I got 100 friends on Facebook, I got, if I got 5,000 friends on Facebook and then somebody come to me and they got 500,000 people on they thing and we doing the same thing and they getting emails and they doing one-on-ones, I'm going to realize that this person with 500,000 got way more doubted than I got. So if they come and report to me something, a change and why are they reporting this to me? They're not selling me a book in the title of what they saying. They're not doing nothing of that to where it's a clear agenda. Wisdom gonna tell me, let me shut up and listen. Let me heal, let me get over my heartbreak from when I got left because I helped a man build. See, the thing about it is, is some women have helped a man build, but you helped a man build that you were seeking his approval. So he never wanted you from the start. Y'all never were compatible from the start, but you help him build because you wanted his approval. You wanted him to look at you and say, oh, you're beautiful. Oh, you're worthy because you were out your league trying to get something that will make you feel good because you wanted this man who his type liked the star cheerleader. His type liked the dope boy girlfriend. His type liked the girl from the suburbs, this certain type, the girl with the perfect body with the perfect shape. So now when you get his attention, you wanna win him because you seeking his approval. But what you don't realize is because this type of man never paid you no attention, he still don't want you. He only want you for what you could do for him. But because you're looking from your insecurity, instead of from confidence and wisdom, you get played. And then when you get played, you meet a man who genuinely wanna build with you and genuinely need you, and then you take the approach, I ain't got, I'm not gonna build with a robot. Like who would say that? The only way you would say that is from what somebody just said in the chat, relationship trauma. That's the only way you would say that because what human is even built, what human is even built. Look at, look at Steve Harvey. He went and got a show. Steve Harvey show, it got canceled. Oprah Winfrey had a show. It had to come to an end. It's like people go up and go back down. My wife just went to a concert. These people are now back making money when they had years of almost radio silence, almost crickets in their bank account. And now they back making money, doing shows. Now all of these retro shows is going on tour and they selling out. But how you think these people felt over the last 10 years when they season had ran out, but then it come back around. So it don't matter if you got to get with somebody, yeah, judge show don't pay what the show paid what he had. The show he had was paying 40 some million dollars. And that's what you got to understand. You, anybody can have a show. I'm on TV right now. I got a show. It ain't changed my life. It come on tomorrow night on MTV at nine o'clock. It ain't changed my life. So you got to realize people always still building. You could go on MTV tomorrow night and I might be on there if I'm on that episode and somebody gonna think I'm, somebody gonna think I got it. And I ain't got it for you. My wife's still building with me. 16 years in the marriage, she's still weathering storms. She's still got the budget and got to go without in certain seasons. 16 years in the marriage, you're not going to meet anybody at any age that you're not gonna have to build with. If you don't have to build with them financially, you're gonna have to build with them emotionally or spiritually. And I guarantee you that you will rather have the task of building with a man financially than having to build a man emotionally or spiritually. I guarantee you, cause you know a man who has not built emotionally or spiritually, that means you're getting cussed out. That mean you're getting cheated on. That mean you're getting talked down to. That mean you're getting disrespected. But if a man not talking down to you, cheating on you, cursing you out and the least of your worries is having to help him and build with him financially, that's the best scenario you wanna be in. That's the best scenario you wanna be in cause the easiest change for a man to make with a woman, with support, with somebody believing in him is going from broke pocketed to rich pocketed. The hardest thing for us to do as men is to grow spiritually. So listen, I'm gonna take the devil off and I'm gonna say what got to be said. And that's why I try to tell you, I ain't no mantle spear. I ain't no mick towel. I ain't no, I am a challagot. I ain't none of that, all that extra. I am a challagot. I ain't no mantle spear. I ain't no red pill. I ain't no mick towel. I ain't no simp. I ain't no, I'm not on the woman side. I'm not on the man side. I am on the side of God's plan. And whatever the season say, whatever the spirit say got to be said, that's what I got to say, regardless of who don't like it, regardless of who upset with it. And I trust God for my livelihood. I do not pander. I'm not finna come on here and say what women want me to hear because 95% of my audience is women. I'm not one of those guys that's gonna say whatever for a check. I'm gonna tell you what need to be told and I'm gonna tell you right now, the female gender is taking a stupid pill and y'all bumping y'all head because you are competing with grown boys. You competing with grown boys. You letting grown boys get a microphone and get up under your skin. And got you working for them, got you seeking their approval, got you on your bike and then you getting dogged out by grown boys and then you getting mad with grown boys and then you taking it out on grown men and you missing out on grown men because you hurting and got trauma from grown boys. And that's what you got to realize. But hey, I don't got by home I say I won't gonna be on here too long. I got to get in here because my wife trying to get these hoodies out y'all. Now listen, got me another shirt. It's a thick T-shirt. Now I'm gonna tell you these really for me to wear but so the fellas y'all get one of these shirts when I release them for your husband or your brother or your uncle or cousin but it's unisex shirts. So later y'all put this here on with some leggings or some, you know, sweats or some jeans or what have you that thing on they gonna set y'all right. Now it's a nice old shirt and it got consistency on it. So I'm finna drop that. So if you miss any part of this you just coming in and you hearing this here live go on back and listen back to what I said and I'm trying to tell you we going through a season right now. And this the thing I got a million videos talking to men and getting men in line and giving away the game to shut down the grown boys game but what I'm more concerned with right now what I'm more fearful of right now is the ignorance that women biting off. It's a lot of ignorance and with women going on right now and I'm gonna tell you it's gonna be more detrimental to women than it is to men. That's the one I want you to understand that's why I'm sharing this to you because when a woman when you go pick a man for his money and all you focus on you mainly focus on financial stability you're gonna get hands put on you. You're gonna get hands put on you. I'm trying to tell you you're gonna get cheated on you're gonna get dog. I'm trying to tell you when you get out here and you saying oh men could do it so we could do it start worrying about what a man could do because that's not a man that is a grown boy. So why are you trying to compete with a man? When you're trying to compete with a man you're gonna end up with AIDS. You're gonna end up with children out of wedlock over and over and over again because you're dealing with grown boys and you're competing with grown boys and you're not listening to grown men and so it is absolutely asinine and absurd for a grown man who is not trying to sleep with you and who is not selling you a book in the title every single video and who is not trying to be with you because he is married and been married for 16 years and women on here arguing with me and then eating out of the hand of single relationship coaches. Single relationship coaches is leading y'all to a relationship hell in a hand basket with gasoline pennies on and then when grown men who is married and faithful and living right come try to give the game it'd be a whole sector of winter. I'm not gonna be listen I'm trying to help you. I'm trying to help you and if you mesh round and let me step into that gas station and hit the lotto I'm going on somebody island and I'm finna shut up and I'm finna let the world go on down but listen Lord got me out here serving and he said Tony you can't retire yet because there's still some people that got their ears open and they wanna listen but listen the thing about it is what I have learned is even the people who pretending to want to listen still do not be listening because when that hard thing getting y'all face y'all forget everything you heard on the video when you get that little bit of red wine in you and you had that little bit of capital grill and that thing in your face standing up you forget every video you don't watch Oh what time is it? Oh I get it ooh and then wake up the next day crying Lord forget it Lord Lord Oh my God I was asking it for 4 years but then he called then he Nope that's cause you weren't listening that's cause you were checking the box trying to pretend like you were listening to make yourself feel good I went into the course I was training the staff today we go into Tony Gassel Academy we search a certain name we searching like typing some letters of a name names come up I'm seeing names of women who signed up on my academy 3 years ago they got the free course they got the free course I click on it they then did 0% of the free course I say why can't he give away knowledge here the course is free and y'all doing 0% of it and then he'll come with charlatan or sell you a course for $3,500 and buy it in a heartbeat and finish it in a day I say and that's why they say people don't value free and forget we have to pay Jesus nothing for salvation we backwards we backwards we backwards as a society and that's why Satan got us got y'all not a busting wide open in a hand basket twerking with the gasoline draws on listen to me it's time to get right time to wake up and smell the Folgers in the morning Folgers send me a chat it's time to wake up and smell the Folgers in the morning I'm trying I'll be out here crying in the wilderness it is 1051 it is 1051 and I thank God for my wife that she don't give me no hard time by these by serving it's 1051 I'm crying in the wilderness and folks on the argue with me watch what you see in the comments about look at the video I did yesterday I think I did it yesterday go read the comments why men get to do this and women get to do this listen the men ain't winning you comparing your life to grown boys the men suffering men who picking a woman solely off of her looks they suffering these men being these men is being raked over the coals like listen the men who picking women solely off their looks these are the men that's getting set up to get robbed watch the news these men getting set up and getting robbed some of these men losing their life because they picking with their little head instead of their big head these men not winning so women keep talking about oh men get to pick a woman based on her body and then we are being asked to compromise and to build with a man listen do you see that cellulite do you see that cellulite do you see that stretch mark so let me ask you this what man is just getting to pick you based on your body who out here looking like J Lo other than J Lo who nobody and she got monty she ain't got money she got monty you hear me and she the only one that's looking like that so if you want to spend five thousand dollars a month to look like J Lo then you could do that but I guarantee you anti-man that get with a woman today is fencing to be dealing with some kind of body and so ladies now you all be honest with me and you gonna tell me are y'all telling me you gonna have to deal with this her body this her foopa this her muffin top this her edges this her lay front yeah this lay front whoa this soul in finna get whoa yeah this her it's like and I ain't judging I ain't talking bad about you but what I'm saying is we got to be realistic and stop thinking that a man who need a woman who gonna support him and build with him is not compromising something too he compromising too listen to me every every single man that is a good man that is building with a woman he compromising something too I'm telling you like it is he is dealing with something that is not ideal that is not ideal when you see majority of women when they that how it be that how or it be that make up or it be something else going on all of us are human don't none of us look good but to our mama and god and so we got to start walking around acting like we God's gift to the opposite sense and we got to realize that we all compromising we all is overlooking something if I take this line off my wife compromising this headline she compromising that on 510 I ain't going to speak on what I'm compromising on her but she could tell you she could tell you I ain't all the way where I want to be now I'm still working on this working on that working on this and that everybody is giving up something so what I'm trying to tell you is if we want to have marriages you have to remove preferences and you got to have standards you got to have standards and so here's the thing like the gentleman I was telling you who reached out to me he said Tony exactly what you said not he is the description of what a lot of women tell me they won't in a man but and he's married to a sister strong beautiful black sister but guess what if he looks at the media the media is not going to tell him to pick a woman with his wife's complexion so he going against the grain and he say I'm going to love my wife for who she is for what the media say I'm going to love my wife for who she is not because of her body or not because of her hair or not because of her complexion I'm going to love her for her and that's what we doing as good men we also are looking at a woman's character so I'm looking at my wife's character and I want me a woman like my wife who she went to the concert she sent me a picture of a young lady who had on some purple panties with a purple see-through mesh pants look like stockings and so all the booty cheek outside the panties is out and you can see everything all the leg all the booty cheek you can see all the leg you can see all the booty cheek I said baby you ain't wear that she said I absolutely would never wear that and she out there she said I'm looking at some of the women and they whole booty is out she said they got on booty shorts of skirts and they stop halfway on the booty cheeks and she say it is so much cellulite she said I just are they friends I say well it's the body positive she said I understand being body positive but you still could be sexy while being classy she said I seen the young lady who had on a camo skirt with a high split and that still looked good it still was classy even though she was showing lead with that split and she like it's just women losing self-respect and calling it body positivity and calling it I could do what I want to do but I he'll walk around looking like somebody to drop the brick on their head and they lost all their sense and so this the thing so I want a woman who ain't like my wife but guess what because my wife gonna dress a certain way that also gonna correlate to where her personality may not be as make love, make love, make love, make love, make love so I have to understand okay do I want a woman who always trying to drop it hot on a handstand and superly all too much because that personality probably gonna equate to this woman who gonna be going outside with nothing on so if I want a woman that's more conservative I got to understand that in certain times, certain seasons she also gonna be conservative in other areas and so I got to make that compromise you can't say you want this tough guy you want a bad boy but then you also want him to be this devout man of God it don't go together so if you want a man that's gonna be faithful to you that man is rational he thinking that man may also be the type of man that when a man at the game cuss you out he may say baby come on let's go let's walk away what you ain't no man you ain't no man you gonna let him cuss at me like that and the man realized like what am I going to prove by trying to fight this man over words he said when if he is easy enough to cuss out a woman in public he probably got something in his waistband that he could pull out and use on me where we could defuse this situation de-escalate and walk off and I'm not losing my manhood so that's a compromise some people don't understand that if you can't have and I remember my wife told me that a long time ago she say listen if you want this crazy crazy freak in the sheets it may be another type of personality that come with that outside of that so yes we gonna do everything and yeah we gonna be there but it's not fitting to be like what these people see in the script club on no you know all that right there like it's gonna be respectable still it's still gonna be and so I had to realize like okay boom so here's the thing the same type that don't mean my wife won't you know do some or if I push her to the point to where boom she have her little friend she might have her little friend but and she might have a guy friend she know from high school from college but she ain't finna go bless it wide open whereas when I see this other woman who she dressed with the mesh pants on and the whole booty when she go to get her revenge when she go to cheat she say hey yeah I slept with the man like whoa you married nine you just went and slept with another man out of revenge like how do you feel about your body like what kind of why would you like why would you because he cheated why would you go and risk catching HIV catching general awards catching herpes just to get back at him like why degrade yourself versus walking away so then what we got to understand hey I just hit an hour God bless y'all I got to go for real now but see this is the thing man I'm serious about this thing man I'm serious about this growth I'm serious about this change I'm serious about this health so my wife waiting on me to bring y'all hood is in so she can finish the package and I'm up here shooting video hey God bless y'all we'll talk soon thank y'all for the blessings and so I seen somebody send me a cash out God bless you popped up on the phone God bless you and watch this back you just getting on here watch this thing back and get this in your spirit and I want you to understand where I'm coming from I'm not coming to you with no agenda I ain't coming to you with no foolishness I'm coming to you and I'm giving you the game and I'm telling you like this right here if I tell you aunt if I tell you aunt can pull a train you better hook up the chain I'm telling you when it come to what I'm telling you about when it come to this love and relationship stuff I have never had anybody come to me and tell me Tony you was wrong because I ain't gonna say nothing unless I know I got thousands of case studies and evidence to back it up and I'm telling you we are in a world that is full of technology and we are weaker and wiser we're growing weaker and wiser and you got to come to a place that you start if you are single the only parameter that you need to pick a partner is character character integrity same one in the same you put them all together character and integrity that's the only parameter do not focus on money do not focus on height do not focus on weight male and female both size choose based on character we in a lost society your school teachers school teachers are sleeping with the kids they out here sleeping with the kid police officers selling drugs shooting people in the bike we are in a lost society if you are picking a relationship based on anything other than character and integrity you are going to get burned I'm here to tell you but when you got character and integrity that person could get a hairline put on they could get veneers they could get lipo if they wanted they could get their ears pinned back they could get a nose job they could go to the gym and lose weight they could go and get surgery to get taller anything today could be changed money could be made I know people that was garbage men who went into multi-level marketing and now are millionaires if y'all want money so bad how that man get into multi-level marketing and he could become a millionaire if he do it the right way if you just want the quick riches just go do that then I'm going to tell you the truth now I'm not going to do it because I'm not going to be knocking on people's door begging nobody for nothing and I'm going to tell you I see their cars I see their clothes and I know what they pay me for my services for ghost writing and author consulting and business consulting so I know they got it so if y'all also worry about money then listen get you a man with character and show them a money play if you a man you sew word by the body then get you a woman with character and y'all get in that gym and what that gym don't do if y'all believe in lipo then go they got the lipo not where you are to wake you ain't even going under no more you getting numbed but you ain't even getting anesthesia so listen everything could be changed but that character and that integrity so y'all keep out here listening to people telling you oh you oh a woman got the you know cook and clean do you know I know do you know a lot of women who are the slimy is scandalous most scandalous women you going to ever meet cook three meals a day because they know dumb men think that mean something boy if y'all uber eats and shut up by cooking and cleaning and get you a woman that you could trust and the same thing with y'all women you talk about financial security do you know the most financially secure men is scammers because when they go broke off your car they go get on my car the most financial secure gonna be scammers the men who really real got character we gonna have ups and downs high season low season but one thing you know is we coming home it's 11 o'clock at night I could be out here clapping cheeks my wife ain't came out here y'all ain't seen my wife come out here and what you doing why you still on the phone why you still you went to get the hoodies why you ain't y'all ain't seen my wife come out here now time because she don't bother me when I'm working I could be out here clapping some cheeks right now but when you get to a man with character he finna be by his purpose and he finna be faithful now yes you might be broke sometimes but listen they got a soup kitchen for you and then it's gonna be another business and you gonna build back up it's gonna be highs and lows you wanna be financially secure get your scammer get your scammer I'm gonna tell you the truth I'm gonna tell you the truth if a man if you a man and you want a woman that's gonna cook and clean go get go hire you a woman that work for Molly made go pluck your script off the pole she used to working for money she'll rather cook and clean than to dance go pluck you a script off the pole but if you gonna get you a real woman with character and character she not gonna feel like cooking every day she not gonna feel like sucking and ducking every day I'm guaranteeing you but when you hit that low point in your business when you get laid off or your the pandemic or something happening change your business model she gonna be faithful to you she not finna bless it wide open for another man yes she not gonna cook every day yes she not gonna be cleaning every day yes she not gonna be sucking and ducking y'all waiting on the curse word I don't curse and but guess what when push come to shove she gonna be faithful if you to pick you a woman with character and integrity listen to me I'm trying to give you the game I'm giving the blueprint Jesus was out here giving the blueprint they put him on a cross this is the thing we can't even talk common sense I could come out here if I came out here and I said you know ladies it's time for you to consider being one of many for a man because it's scarce out here and it's time for you to stop hoping and believing that you're gonna have a man all to yourself and it's time to be okay being in a polyamorous relationship and if I came out here with that message you know I have more people listen to that foolishness I will have more people listen to that ignorance then people that listen to common sense and wisdom and that's the sad thing about our world hey this Tony gas I got to go I'm doing like my uncle and my dad and my uncle them be talking I don't think I go and then talk another hour a God bless you we'll talk soon