 Six signs you have beat the narcissist. At some point, the narcissist chose to abandon who they really are. They chose to abandon their true identity. This is usually a response to an earlier injury. They then chose to create a false self. This ideal character is everything they wish they could be. It is superior to everyone. It is always correct. It always does the right thing and anyone who invalidates their false self must be wrong. This character is self-absorbed. It only cares about itself. It's only concerned with its own interests and needs. They use people and things to prop up their false self, to boost their false sense of self-importance. But when you invalidate their false self, or you question or confront them on something, you will see a different character, a person who no longer seems self-composed, a person who seems uncertain or anxious about themselves, a person who cannot handle criticism. This is when they can become dangerous. But when you see them acting in this way, it means that you have beat the narcissist. So here are six signs that you have defeated the narcissist. When the narcissist can't get their way, narcissists always have to have their way. Everything has to pan out in the way that they want it to. They need to have control. They need to be able to influence your behavior and direct the cause of events. They need to get what they want. Narcissists are very crafty. They will skillfully achieve their desired result by deceit or evasion. They will conceal or misrepresent the truth. They will give indirect answers. They will do anything they possibly can to manipulate and control you into doing what they demand. Which is why if you avoid anything that allows it to exploit you, it destroys them because you have prevented them from accomplishing something at your expense. Which is something they feel entitled to do. When this happens, they will become offensively impolite and ill-mannered. They will become very primitive and they will seem ignorant and uneducated. Two, when they receive criticism, narcissists cannot deal with criticism. You can tell that you have beat the narcissists by how they react to you when you criticize them. Narcissists do not like criticism because they have inflated egos. They have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance. If you give them any constructive criticism, it will cause a narcissistic injury and narcissistic rage. They will become very angry. When you see a narcissist act in this way, it means that their ego has been bruised. Free when they're not the center of attention. They always have to be the center of attention. The spotlight always has to be on them. They feel that everything should always be about them. They don't care if there are other priorities. They don't care if there are other things that are more important. They only care about their own satisfaction when you refuse to treat the narcissist as a center of attention. This can be very bad for them. It can cause them shock, distress or grief when they are not granted privileges or special treatment. Narcissists have a strong sense of entitlement. They believe that they have a right to whatever they want. And no one has the right to deny them of what they want when they're not given what they want. They will become very angry. It bruises their ego. It crushes their exaggerated sense of self importance. And that is when they will begin to act in a very strange way. It will seem like they are losing their minds because they have been beaten. Five, when they're caught breaking the rules. When they're caught doing something that they know they're not supposed to do. When they're caught doing something that they know is not right. Or when they're caught disregarding someone's boundaries. Narcissists will lie to you. They will do anything they can to avoid taking a responsibility for their actions. When they are caught doing something wrong in situations where they are unable to blame someone else. They will become very angry. And they may even try to manipulate people. Into thinking that they were reasons for their actions. They may try to justify what they have done. Six, when they're held accountable for their actions. This is the fastest and easiest way to beat a narcissist. When you hold them accountable for their actions. It's all over. They will react in ways that you may not have seen before. Because they know that they've been beaten. Narcissists don't believe that they can ever be wrong in anything they do. They always think that they have a genuine reason for doing whatever they're doing. They always have a justifiable excuse. And they don't believe that anyone has the right to question their actions. But if you force the narcissist into taking accountability for their actions. 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