 Efective leadership through enforcement of positive values, the destination of a nation defined. Just like a to-in-van, a leader can be effective if orders around are influenced to grow. Effective leadership is the ability to help people grow in their own abilities while communicating the vision of an organization or society and enforcing right values. It is our collective responsibilities as citizens to ensure that everyone is tilted towards common positive values. This would consequently lead to breathing good governance system because those who get elected into office are from the part of the citizenry of a nation. Just like a cork of water fetched from a world or a stream is as clean or as dirty as the overall content of the entire way of stream. You may want to ask what values could we ensure that effective leadership enforces. This could be summarized as thus, brotherhood, love other tribe or ethnicity or race. They say varieties despise of life. Education, learning and development should be evolving and in tandem with progressive global views and highly beneficial to the younger generations especially. Empathy and tolerance, respect persons of diverse view. Be they religious or political. Differences should be complementary strength and not discord enablers. Rule of law or regulations. Respect order and institutions should supersede individual interest. Honour and integrity. Being truthful and accountable both as individuals or as an institution. Duty towards country or nation. Being conscious about national service and willingness to render assistance when necessary especially in turbulent times. Intentional economic growth and social development. Can you imagine having a rich man from a poor country? In conclusion, protecting and enforcing positive values is more important than conserving good or limestone or any other national resource. Our food for thoughts. Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your word. Keep your word positive because your word become your behaviour. Keep your behaviour positive because your behaviour becomes your habit. Keep your habit positive because your habit becomes your values. Keep your values positive because your values becomes your destiny. As from Mahatma Gandhi. An Indian nationalist. It is well said we agree with what you are saying… ...because worldwide said that… ...I think I have said in the last show about how the government is bad that… …中共 is bad. We all complain about government is bad… …this is bad, I think by now, over the years we know… ...so should our complaint still be that. That government is bad. Shouldn't we rather be focusing on what we can do… …to make sure that we get things better, not just… …for ourselves but for the entire area, now… …you made mention of the impact  늒  늕  늕                                                                        Now, the adjoining roads, I'm not sure, but most likely might be state roads. If we really love our country, while the federal government is working on the second Niger bridge, shouldn't we as states be working on the adjoining roads such that when the second Niger bridge is done, the people will see the full value and benefits of the second Niger bridge. You see, our values are wrong. I always tell people that listen. If we say today that President Buyer is terrible, this is bad, blah, blah, blah. We see all our politicians are nasty. You remember that we always say that these politicians are the same people that have been leading us since the 80s, since the 70s. But the question is, yes, since the 60s we've been saying there's corruption in Nigeria. However, what happened then that the consumption rates was way lower than what we have now. They stole. That's all we all see, so that nobody come and arrest you. I'm not the one saying it. But we all agree that there was corruption back in the day and you know, there was pure frame. Money was living in our coffers. Nigeria was losing money. People were traveling abroad, investing and blah, blah, blah. Yes. But how come the magnitude of corruption back then has increased like 10 times more right now? One of the answers I believe to that is the fact that our values have completely depleted from the 80s to now. So while you're still then being conscious of if these people see me, they will not honor me. Right now, you consume knowing that when I go to the people, they know I've brought them money. So you are encouraged to steal more. Because our values need to get this right. We need to get comfort. I'm sure comfort being a lawyer. Let's hear what she's saying. I think several times on this program, we've spoken about how bad Nigeria is, especially from the point of the citizens and the fact that we've lost the lessons that most of us grew up with, the values, the community that most of us grew up with. I mean, I think for me the most responsible statements that I hear from parents is, you know these children, they are of this generation and you wonder, what do these children, you gave birth to them. They came in as plant slaves and you are the one training them and you are blaming them for their bad behavior. So even we, I don't know whether it is the same mental health issue that has gotten to that sector too, when we are letting our children run riot because what we are instilling in them is what is going to continue on in their lives. It's what is going to now become the basis of the foundation of their own society. I mean, I love this topic, you know, bringing back those things that we grew up with, the sense of community, sense of duty, you know, sense of brotherhood and all that. But the truth about it is that it has been completely dissipated and we are not even helping because the next generation that we're bringing up, we're not teaching them. We're blaming them instead and saying that these children, that's how they are. What do you mean that's how they are? We must take responsibility at a certain point and it's not too late. But the problem is who will build the camps? Yeah, I'm going to just very quickly cite an example of a setting housemate, male reality show housemate, whose mother exactly pray a warrior taught him in the way of the Lord and still on social media and they showed her really praying and preaching to him, giving him Bible. But he still released his nudes by mistake. So she has done her part leading, bringing up a child through like enforcement of positive values. She has done her part. She's done her part. She's done her part. Exactly. She's done her part. But how many other parents did their part? Which made it interesting. Exactly. That's what I'm saying. She has done her part and the child still chooses to do his own part. No, but what I'm saying is at the end of the day, one tree doesn't make a forest. So the mother has done her part. But how many mothers did their part? For example, till her service nude pictures were released. I haven't, I've seen videos but I've never opened it. Why should I be so excited to go and watch? But the fact that I was trying to honor people's nude whatever doesn't mean every other person wasn't. Imagine a lot of people didn't even watch your comments. No other person will release such a thing. But anyway. When the sumon bonun of the matter, for example, your point is well noted that the parents can do their part but the generations will continue. This is the sumon bonun of the matter. The sumon bonun is that our value as a society is the summation of our individual values. So the more you have is just like in the world of finance, I want to go to the world of finance now. When you are taking a probabilistic outcome of a random event, let's say in the stock market or the forex market or in the equity. And then some of them are going to be winners, some of them are going to be losers. What makes you a profitable trader is that the winners are more than you. When you have good values, the values are more. The poor values or wrong values are there. But the moment the values are positive and are more, it will somehow neutralize the stroke. That's how I was going to make Nigeria work. We're just to play the devil's advocate. What part do you think we are leading to in this country? Is it more of the... I think it's trade-off. The country is enshrining the values. So our destiny is in our hands. We should stop crying. I just saw a video. I'm not going to mention the political party, but they know them safe. In fact, I'm sure others will respond too. Now this political party, they were distributing money. See the way the guy was just... The man was doing it as he was giving something that their life depends on. Women were collecting this money. Why women? Every party... Everybody, but I saw women more. Women are the ones in the market places. It's not a gender thing. It's just saying that everybody... I'm not saying Jedha. It's just general. I saw some women collecting the money. Now these women, we still come back and complain. Those poor people, both the men and the women will come back and complain. Definitely, I'm not saying that it's the women. I'm just saying that. I see a gender fight here. Women are coming from... Because that's what he's talking about. I like where Felix is coming from. Because that's where he's emphasising how the positive values were in society. In those days, even if a woman was poor, you could see, you would actually admire her. That the fact that she was in a certain economic situation didn't mean that she would sell her soul for it. But what he says that now, even women who are supposed to be in court, the costumers, the ones who are holding children technically and the ones now on the front line doing things to manage the positive values. That's why I mean that. Good point. Well, thank you very much, everyone. Thank you. So, the last part of the conversation after the break.