After The Break Up - (The Separation Period)
People make some common mistakes after a break up. One of the most common after the break up is not following a simple rule about a separation period. The separation period is usually at least a month that should happen right after your breakup with your ex. People often make the mistake of constantly contacting their ex after breaking up, leaving endless voice mail messages, and text messaging them to no end. Here's why this is a mistake.
You may think the action of calling them all the time to tell them how you feel is a great plan, but what actually happens is your ex will perceive you as needy and clingy. I'm sure these are not impressions you want to have and is obvious why this would only push your ex away. If you've already been bombarding them with text messages and phone calls stop it immediately and give them a break. Don't panic if they don't return your calls and do your best to avoid all possible contact with them during the separation period.
The separation period is, by general rule, at least one full month. This will let those feelings and heat of the moment things you said to each other die down so you can both think rationally again. During this month you should go over your relationship to find anything you could have done different or any mistakes you made so that you won't do them again the next time around. You can be sure that if you're feeling miserable your ex probably is too, so give them the same time and space to work through their feelings as well.
Meeting with your ex.
After the separation period is over the first meetings with your ex should not be anything relationship related. Keep it light, friendly, and have it be mostly small talk at the start. You don't want to stir up too many hurtful memories that may still be dormant from after the break up. You're both going to have to rebuild trust from the ground up so take your time and take it slow. As gradual increase in communication happens and trust is rebuilt, then you should find your own openings to see if the relationship will have another chance.
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How to get your head on straight. Use a Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression. You CAN feel better within minutes!
Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart. ,and I don't care what they say. This is all you need to look for PERIOD!
Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears.
When to apologize and when you shouldn't. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms. other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your chances.
The fastest and shortest path, bar none, back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you.
Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and breaking
the pattern Method you can. Quickly and easily turn back time.
The Instant Reconnect Technique - I almost didn't include this one because it may be too potent. It is "psychological judo" and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it.
Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date.
Decisions you should actually put off until you are back together.
Afraid you will just start fighting again once your back together? How to diffuse arguments before they start.
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