 Hi, she was seven. Okay, so I have another video for y'all today and This video is going to be about how to identify Alpha males beta males and how to know if you're a Alpha female or a beta female now it gets tricky because some of these characteristics Are not going to fit you totally but You know for the most part also a lot of people take on qualities of both But you have to sort of weigh which one has the most Qualities and then that's what you put them in. Okay, so Let's start off by identifying the alpha male the alpha male would be the leader He would he would be the guy in the group that everyone looks to he would be Successful he would have his life in order. He would only expect the best use the best You know products He would be the guy who works out in the gym who wants to look good Has a career You know just The guy that everyone wants to be the popular guy. He has he's witty. He has good conversation He is a natural leader. He doesn't make excuses for anything He expects things he has high standards and he Only hangs around other alpha males, okay Now this this is probably the type of guy who owns a business who is like a CEO Who can take care of business? Okay, and these type of men prefer? Beta females which are submissive feminine easygoing You know Just looks up to them lets them lead doesn't have a problem staying at home being a wife Doesn't have a problem with playing a traditional role because He believes that the male leads and the female follows. Okay, and when I say submissive and follow I mean when you're with an alpha male you feel secure that you're taken care of you know That he's out there to handle in business and that he's gonna bring home the bacon and you don't have to worry about Excuses for why he failed because he's not gonna fail. Okay. That's alpha fee. That's alpha male and They prefer Beta females, okay Now they can work with an alpha female if she tones it down a notch. Okay and alpha females Are the women who are in control independent, you know, I Can do anything They they take action more than they talk They like results. They are the girl you see in a group of girls who all the girls look to you know as an example She has everything he she has her life together. She has part wordies in order and she's successful or she's You know, she knows what she wants and how to get it. So basically she's like You know And mean girl she would be What's her name forgot her name, but yeah, so she would be like the leader of the pack Now beta females are like the ones who you know, don't really challenge people. They just you know, okay That's nice. You know, let me fix your dinner. Oh, are you okay? You know, this is the kind of women most men like, okay Beta males beta males make excuses. They feel like failures. They have insecurities they They probably were picked on as you know, a child they probably Are eager to please they're probably needy they're probably You know, they don't fight back they don't stand up for themselves and they just You know try to make excuses for why their life is the way it is usually, you know They don't really have the qualities That are considered Masculine because they'll they're kind of like they'll do whatever you tell them to do because they fear losing you They will you know Do whatever you say, you know, there's no compromises. It's okay. Whatever you want and they're just basically pushovers doormats and a lot of women Who are alpha females like beta males because they can boss them around they can tell them what to do and the sisters of that but the thing that happens is Sometimes the alpha female gets tired of the beta male and because all they do is make excuses and They're not a challenge to them and it's just it gets boring So a lot of times they'll cheat or they'll leave the the beta male Okay. Now a beta male and a beta female if they get together, you know It's it might last longer, but the beta female will not feel secure You know, but she will probably go out and work to take care of her man because you know That's what morals say that you should do and it's the right thing and I love him and he loves me And I know money isn't everything and we're just gonna be together because love is the most important thing in the world Those two are like a beta Male and beta female they just accept what life gives them they struggle and they you know They try to make it. They will make it. They somehow make it, but they struggle and they they put a motion and love above logic and you know Tangible assets and stuff like that. So you have to kind of decide what type of life Partner and You know lifestyle you want According to if you're gonna choose an alpha male or a beta male or a beta female or an alpha female now two alphas together They're gonna be like a power couple. It's what I call a power couple, but the woman is going to have to let the man be the You know The king of the jungle, you know, she's gonna be the queen But she's gonna have to let him be the king what is what I'm saying so Just think of like a Beyonce and Jay-Z. Let's just use them as an example or Michelle Obama and Barack Obama. Now, we know that they're both alphas. Okay, but in order to make a harmonious Relationship she has to let the man lead and as an alpha female She knows what how important it is for an alpha to be able to lead so being feminine and a woman still she can kind of You know turn it down a notch in order to Let her man look, you know Like this, but she still has her alpha qualities when she's around other people. She's still, you know You know a queen an alpha female, but when she's in the presence of her man She's like, okay, you you're taking the show. I'm your queen You're my king or we're the same but I'm gonna let you have this because you're the more masculine and You know, this is what makes you feel good and since I love you. I'm gonna let you shine for now Okay, but when I get out over here I'm shining too and the alpha male will also recognize this in the alpha female and he will Let her shine, you know, sometimes as well, you know And it's not gonna affect his ego because she lets him shine when it's his time so that being said a Lot of like a lot of guys will Call the beta female of the beta males simps But the thing is how they're explaining beta males are not Simps, you know They they say a man who can take care of his family and who's successful and has money is a beta male That doesn't make sense. Okay, that sounds like a leader to me That sounds like someone who has their priorities in order to me. That sounds like someone who has, you know successful leadership So I don't know why they keep saying the they are beta males because they're not just because They are married to someone who they don't Require them to work That makes them more of an alpha male because they can handle their business and they don't need a Woman to contribute because they can handle it because they're alpha. Okay now a lot of those guys are actually beta males Who are upset and making excuses and They actually Wish that they could be alpha males, but they just can't so they made up the name simp For alpha males who handle business to make themselves Feel okay, you know, they might Take on a little bit of the persona of an alpha male, but they don't have they can't back it up You know, they don't have the numbers and the accounts. They don't have the leadership They don't have the resume. They don't have the woman who will you know Feel safe and secure with them. They don't have any of that. So to me when they claim to be alpha males You can't listen to what they say because beta males talk more than they act So you have to look you have to see what they have you have to see You know how they lead how they can handle business how they can do this this and that because a lot of beta males will talk talk a good game and Say they're alpha But if they don't have the funds to back it up They don't have the career to back it up if they can't make a woman feel secure and safe to back it up Then they're really just alpha male wannabes. They are beta males making excuses As to why they are where they are where they are So y'all can't let these guys confuse y'all just because they know some term alpha male or beta male they don't really understand that Alpha males don't talk about alpha males They don't have to they don't have to talk about beta males or alpha males because they're too busy grinding and doing what they need to do To take care of what they need to take care of you know, they don't even need to be They don't even need their ego stroke to be put in the category, you know But a lot of beta males will strive to be alpha males They will strive to be you know and a lot of alpha females will strive to be beta females Because it's easier to get an alpha fee an alpha male as a beta female So you see if y'all are confused basically a beta female. It's just you know the Feminine over nice. Oh, I'm gonna do this for you and that for you The alpha female is like I'm gonna tell you what to do It's gonna be my way of the highway. You don't you know how lucky you are to be with me And they will get with the beta male and they will be disappointed But they'll like controlling him for a while and then when they get bored of him They'll just throw him out but not to be confused with a nice gentleman alpha male because that's What they truly are, you know, they know how to treat women They don't they would never ask a Woman, especially a beta female To pay for their own dinner Okay, so I just wanted to clear that up for y'all and Let y'all know Those differences and if you have any questions Put them in the comments and I will try to answer them and also you can also go and Google alpha female beta female alpha male and beta male and Read their characteristics and then you'll know and you'll understand, you know Why a lot of these beta males Want to be alpha males and claim to be alpha males because they have an insecurity and they have excuses for everything and They talk more than they act They talk more than they do and this is one of the signs of a beta male So you got to look you got to be smart. You got to do your research. You got to be very observant Yeah, women are naturally clipped more clever than men when it comes to Thinking okay It's just a natural gift that we're born with and As you can see a Lot of women are always onto their man. They're always like two steps ahead. They always they already know what's going on They're you know, it's just natural so Keep that in mind when you're choosing a partner and Make sure you go and research the Characteristics of these types of men so you know exactly what you're getting. Okay. All right. I'll see y'all later. Have a good day