 When the narcissist makes the biggest mistake of their life When the narcissist first met you They love bombed you They overwhelmed you with their words actions and behavior They manipulated you They seduced you They showered you with affection gifts and promises For a future with you It made you believe that you had met your soulmate It made you believe that you had finally met the right person for you So you were all in Because you didn't want them to think that you were not interested And you thought they were serious about building this relationship with you in the past You may have been cautious about getting involved with people But this time It just felt right It felt like you had finally met someone who understood you It felt like you had finally met someone who had your best interest in mind It was very flattering for you So it was hard for you to resist their charm, but you felt like you were making the right decision You felt like you would be a fool to not give them a chance So you invested your time and energy into this relationship You gave them everything Because you wanted to make them as happy as they had made you But this is where the narcissist made the biggest mistake of their life Because when the narcissist love bombed you They demanded all of your time and attention They expected all of your focus to be on them Without considering that you had other commitments in your life As soon as your attention was on anything other than them They got very angry They called you selfish They said you only care about yourself They were very mean Because they couldn't understand how you could have anything else going on in your life So they turned against you When the narcissist loves bombs you They expect you to act how they want They expect you to do what they want you to do If you don't They will begin to devalue you They will take away all of their kindness And then they will punish you They will get very angry Or they will give you the silent treatment Because they don't understand how you could have other important things in your life They lack empathy So they cannot share your experience Everything has to revolve around them They demand all of your time and attention Even when you weren't around them, they would bombard you with texts and phone calls It's like they could never be alone When if they had just given you the time that you need for yourself Maybe then things wouldn't have tuned out this way The biggest mistake the narcissist made Was to devalue you Because they did it without any justifiable reason And by doing that, they ended up shooting themselves in the foot But even the character you saw in the beginning wasn't real It was a false character they used to manipulate you So they knew the relationship was doomed from the start They knew that you wouldn't want anything to do with them Once you had discovered that it was just manipulation But once they let their masks slip That's when they know it's game over Now all they can do is keep you down And make you think you're not deserving of anything better Because they already know they're no good When the narcissist makes the biggest mistake of their life They found someone who was there for them They found someone who cared about them They found someone who loved them Even when they were angry Even when they had these irrational behaviours You still stayed by their side And you may even have taken responsibility for their actions You may have tried to fix things for them But that still wasn't good enough They took you for granted They demanded more and more Nothing was ever good enough for them Because they never learned to be grateful They never learned to appreciate what they had with you So in the end, they just ended up pushing you away They ended up showing you every reason Why you should not be with them Because they couldn't control their own emotions Although the narcissist may have made the biggest mistake of their life They don't tend to see it that way Because they were playing a game right from the start They were deceiving you And they don't really believe that anyone could ever love them They believe that they are unlovable Which is why they created a false character Which is why they manipulated you Because they knew that was the only way that they would be able to get in with you If they had shown you who they really are right from the start They knew that you would have run away So they had to manipulate you At least until you had invested something into the relationship Because once you've invested something It's harder for you to walk away But they don't see it as though they made the biggest mistake of their life They see themselves as the victims They believe that you wronged them And that is why they become so bitter and resentful towards you Because they believe that you have wronged them Narcissism is a coping mechanism and a defense mechanism For how the person really feels about themselves They don't want to self reflect They don't want to hold themselves accountable Because it's too painful for them to deal with So instead they blame you for everything that went wrong They become very arrogant and entitled They start a smear campaign against you Even though deep down they know what they did to you Deep down they know that they made a big mistake But they bury it beneath their arrogance and entitlement They act like you weren't good enough for them When deep down they know the truth And it's that shame that eats away at them It's that shame that makes them want to destroy you Because you become a reflection of their insecurities You become a reflection of everything they hate about themselves Thank you for watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching at narksofivert.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon