 Why the narcissist never wins in the end? It may seem like they're winning right now After everything they did to you They lied to you Maybe they cheated on you they stole from you and Then they discarded you They just got rid of you like you never meant anything to them and you've got to think Why did they do that? Why did they treat you like that? Why did they do all of those things to you and to put it simply the reason why They treated you like that The reason why They were never happy with you. They were never satisfied with anything you did for them. It was never enough They were never grateful They never appreciated anything you did The reason for all of that It's because despite the arrogance and grandiosity Underneath all of that They know that they don't deserve it That's really what it is. That's what it all comes down to they know They don't deserve you They don't deserve all of the things you're doing for them and That is why they can't even acknowledge it They can't even give you any recognition because once they start talking about it and you'll see it when you talk about it then They just don't want to hear it Because it makes them feel bad They know that they don't deserve you They know they don't deserve anything you're doing for them. And that's how In the end they just end up sabotaging it. They just destroy everything And it's all from This reflection on the fact that they know they don't deserve it They know they don't deserve you That's what causes them to destroy everything Because you see everything in our lives It's a reflection of what we think we deserve Whatever you think you deserve in life, that's what you've got otherwise You would do something to change it and you wouldn't be able to sleep You wouldn't be able to do anything Until you get that reflection of what you think you deserve in your life And it's no different with narcissists Everything they get is a reflection of what they think they deserve But of course I'm not saying that occasionally They may get things good things Because on the surface they have this Arrogance and grandiosity that causes them to take action It causes them to Get good people and good things But beneath that They know they don't deserve those things So eventually they will do something to push it away. They will do something to destroy it I mean just look at it like this. They had you They had this wonderful person who was there for them You were loyal and committed Many of you wanted to marry the narcissist and have children with them You took them into your home you took care of them you gave them money You did all of these things for them So you were obviously a really good thing for the narcissist and yet they still managed to screw it up So you see how they never win at the end Because even if they do find someone else like you Someone who is there for them and takes care of them Deep down they know they don't deserve that after everything they've done in their lives All of the problems they've caused for people all of the lies and After everything they did to you So even if they do find a good person they're gonna mess it up because they know they don't deserve it And it would only be occasionally that they might find that and it won't last for long Even if they do and that's why You've just got to look at their social circle Look at their family and friends look at the people that they surround themselves with Because that's a reflection of what they think they deserve and this is for anyone You can look at this in your own life Remember when you were with the narcissist and you were there for them It's because deep down you thought you deserved that you got a reflection of what you thought you deserve If you didn't think that you deserved that You would have walked away a long time ago. You wouldn't have put up with that and that's why After some time We do realize that we deserve better And that's what causes us to leave to go no contact and to not respond to the Hoover attempts So you see that everything in our lives is a reflection of what we think we deserve Because if we really believe that we don't deserve something we're gonna take action. We're gonna change it And we're not gonna rest until it's done and it's the same for these narcissists everything they're gonna get in their lives It's a reflection of what they think they deserve. Yeah, they're arrogant and grandiosity May have caused them to end up with you because It's like they trick themselves. They're like in denial and They tell themselves that they deserve an amazing person like you But then after some time They realize That no They don't deserve you They don't deserve all of these things that you were doing for them. And that's why they sabotage it That's why they mess it up. And that is how they can never Win in the end It's impossible They're always gonna get that reflection of what they think they deserve It may not happen immediately after they discard you or after you leave But just give it some time and everything they did to you You know, you don't deserve that You already know you don't deserve what they did to you You know, you deserve more. That's why you're watching my videos and you're gonna take action and You're gonna get what you deserve in your life Because you believe that you deserve more After everything you've been through all of the suffering All of the trials and tribulations All of the work that you put in Everything you gave to the narcissist and you never got anything back a return You already know you didn't deserve that So you're gonna get a reflection of what you deserve It won't happen immediately, but just give it some time And you will start to see and they're gonna get a reflection of what they know they deserve And it's not gonna be anything good You can be sure of that That's why Hoover attempts are so common That's why it happens all of the time Because at some point they've got to get a reflection of what they think they deserve And then the only thing they can do is try to override it By coming back to you But hopefully by that time you will know what you deserve. You will know that you deserve better than that Because you do deserve better than that. We all do After everything we've been through we deserve Far better things than someone who lies to us someone who manipulates us Someone who abuses us Of course we deserve better than that But after everything they've done And with no remorse They didn't even try and fix things. They just ran away They moved on with someone else People like that don't deserve anything They're gonna get what they deserve You can be sure of that So yeah, this is it. This is why they never win in the end And there's really no way for them to get around it deep down. They know what they deserve After everything they've done And it's gonna catch up to them This is their karma and they cannot run away from it It's gonna get them and Your karma is gonna get you too Your good karma because you've been through a lot And things are things are gonna start improving for you Because you knew that you did not deserve all of the things that you went through They may have tried to brainwash you they may have tried to gas like you They may have tried to make you believe that you deserved everything that was happening to you But deep down you knew you didn't deserve that That's why you're watching my videos right now Because you know that you deserve more And you're gonna get more just give it some time so that is why They never win in the end. It's their fate It's their destiny They are already preordained to go through everything that they're gonna go through and it's the result of their own actions Their actions impact their emotions As I've said they're shame-based people who are doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame But they're never gonna get away from that You cannot escape your own emotions You can try to live in denial you can try to escape reality You can run to all kinds of distractions But it's not gonna take away the pain The only thing that's gonna take away the pain is if they self-reflect But by doing that they would have to take accountability for their actions And if they took accountability then they would try and fix things That's the only way that they can escape it and it's perfect the way That karma is designed So that people who Do take accountability for their faults or mistakes and do try to fix things and make things right Then they get less karma Then they may even be rewarded For those good deeds Karma has a perfect design, but of course they're never gonna do that They're never gonna take accountability Narcissists do not take accountability In their minds they didn't do anything wrong At least that's what they have to tell themselves They have to blame everything on you But trust and believe that they're not gonna get away with it. They cannot escape their own emotions They cannot escape what they know they deserve It's coming to get them Just give it some time 93 live viewers in here right now, but only 43 thumbs up Please hit that thumbs up button down below Let's spread the awareness get this message out there. All right. Thank you all for joining me Let me know your thoughts down in the comment section Do you agree or disagree? Love to hear from you. All right. I'll talk to you in another one very soon Have a good day