 Hello everyone. Welcome to another Narc's Fiver life video. I hope that you enjoy this view of the mountains and lake behind me. Okay, so let's talk about it. Things Narcissists do when you're not there. When you're not there, the Narcissists will be indulging in one of their many addictions. And yes, they do have many addictions. There are many different things that the Narcissist likes to indulge in when you're not there. So, they may be indulging in food, sex, alcohol, drugs, pornography, shopping, gambling, video games, social media, dating apps. But the number one thing really is their addiction to people. So, they may be on social media, uploading their selfies, taking pictures of their new car, their new watch, whatever it may be. They're going to be bragging and boasting. They're going to be talking to other people. They just can't be alone. They're not going to be out in the wilderness meditating. They're not going to be out here with me here. Checking out this mountain lake. No, they're going to be on dating apps. They're going to be on social media, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. They're going to be seeking out new sources of supply. They can't be alone. And at some point, when you're not there, they will be glad anyway because then that gives them the opportunity to seek out new sources of supply. Every supply has an expiry date. Eventually, they get bored. They lose the feelings that they once had for you. Your supply loses its potency. So, sometimes it may seem like they prefer to be alone and you may start thinking to yourself, hold on a minute. I thought narcissists don't like to be alone. They can get very confusing there. But you have to think that these are the things that they're going to be doing if they are actually alone. Because they may already have another source of supply that you are unaware of. And when you're not there, that's who they're involved with. But they don't always have to be with a person, not in person at least. Sometimes it's enough for them to be messaging and sending pictures on social media or on dating apps. That still gives them supply. It still makes them feel attractive and desirable. It still makes them feel powerful, special and important. So, you have to remember that while narcissists may be greedy, they are also scammers. And they will take whatever they can get, whatever is available to them. So, even though they may not have an opportunity to meet someone new right now, it's enough for them on social media or dating apps. It still gives them that feeling, that potency of new supply. They're still getting that, they're still getting that two second high. So, yeah, this is what the narcissist is up to when you're not there. They may seem like they're well behaved when you're around, but trust and believe that when you're not there, they are up to no good. They are doing things that may make you look bad, things that may affect you if you knew about them. And of course, that is why they wait to do these things when you're not there. They don't want to deliberately just put it in your face, but of course sometimes they will do that. If they think that it's going to hurt you, and if they think that you're still going to be under their control, they might use that to get supply as well. But if they fear losing you, they're probably going to do these things when you're not there, because they want to keep your supply as well. Narcissists have addictive personalities. They have a lot of addictions, a lot of things that they like to indulge in. And yes, these addictions are probably not going to be something that you approve of. They're probably not going to be something that you like them doing, but this is what they will be doing when you are not there. It's good to be aware of it so that you can protect yourself from these individuals. Because a lot of times they get you caught up in things, things that you were never participating in, things that you wanted nothing to do with. They just bring this garbage into your life. Suddenly now you have to deal with it. But I'm all about bringing the peace to you, the love, the joy. Let's not forget why we're here, to experience this world, this life, to be at happy, to be at peace with ourselves. Don't let the Narcissists ruin that for you. Don't let them bring you down. Don't let them ruin your mood. Yes, they will be doing these things when you're not there, but try not to let it affect you. Life is too short to worry about. Stupid, reckless people who cannot control themselves, who cannot control their actions. Sometimes you've just got to take a deep breath and remember all of the things that you have to be grateful for. And then you won't let this person ruin your mood, ruin everything that God or the universe has laid out for you. So yeah, like everyone today, to just take some time to practice gratitude. I don't know, it may sound silly. After everything you may have been through with the Narcissists, you may be thinking, How can I be grateful for anything now? So much of my life has been destroyed. I feel miserable. But the truth is, sometimes we just don't feel grateful because we've been taught to have this lack of appreciation for what we already have, despite what we may have lost. So just make a list of things that you value in your life that you are grateful for. And just take some time today to smile and be happy for those things. Because whether it's God or the universe, you have been blessed with these things. So take some time to appreciate them. Sometimes you don't know what you have until it's gone. And there is so much to appreciate in life. Sometimes you just got to take the focus off of the Narcissists. And look at this world that we have been given. Take advantage of your freedom. Yes, the Narcissists will be indulging in their many addictions when you are not there. But when they're not there, why don't you do something nice for yourself? Get a manicure. Get a massage. Go to the beach. Just start living. Because I know if you've been with the Narcissists for such a long time, you haven't really been living. You've just been existing. You've been on autopilot. And that's no way to live. So get out there and just start enjoying life again. This world will not be your forever. I do hope that this message has inspired you today. And if it has, please give the video a thumbs up and share your thoughts in the comment section. Share this video. And as always, I'll catch you in the next one very soon.