 When you forgive somebody you set the prisoner free and then you realize that prisoner was you You release yourself from the shackles of them controlling your life in the future It's not being a victim It's being a victor when you release your ex when you release the person that hurt you and then God takes the Unfortunate situation and use it for your good because the Bible says Joseph looked at his brothers after the death of Jacob And they said we feel so bad about what we did and Joseph says do not be afraid because What you meant for evil you didn't do it unintentionally you meant intentionally God turn it for my good why because I refuse to stay better I refuse to stay offended. I refuse to switch churches. I refuse to hold the grudge I refuse to walk around not talking to anybody I refuse to let to develop this very thin thick skin and a very thin skin in my heart I chose to keep my heart soft. I forgive you I love you and I'm expecting God to reward me in Jesus name