 There's nothing I hate more in my life than seeing the people around me stifled and getting stuck in their own ways. There's two levels to that problem, I figured. There's the people that know they're stuck and know they could be better. And there's the people that were never even educated or given a chance to know that they could be better. If you're watching this, you're probably in the first group of the people who do know about self-development and the fact that you can change yourself and you can become successful and you can accomplish your dreams. But for some reason, you know, for some reason, even though all your friends talk about self-development and all your being fed is you can be successful, you can make your dreams come true. Well, let me give you very bad news. If you'll take a look around or even if you just check the statistics, all of these so-called self-development people, and you can find a lot of them on Twitter that are over 30 years old, are mostly broke, not millionaires, not living their dream life. I had a guy, a guy who, I post some of my, I write an article every day and sometimes I post them on different forums. And there was this guy who wrote back to me, he's like, it was basically a complete and full guide for habits that took me two years to kind of perfect. And what I call like the most efficient manner of habit-setting that I've ever came across and created on my own from years of suffering and experience until I got it perfect. And this guy was like, you know, I think that I can definitely see places where you can improve on this guide of yours. And I was like, oh yeah, well, I think it's as close to perfection as you can get, but if you have any suggestions, I'm all ears. And so this guy wrote, well, look, I'm in self-development for the last 30 years, and I can clearly see many, many places where this could be better. I mean, I've written many products and books. And I figured anybody with over two years of self-development knowledge should know how to improve this guide. And then I wrote him again. There were two things, there was what I wanted to write and what I actually wrote. So what I actually wrote was, okay, man, cool. Well, would you suggest, you know, show your cards? Don't just talk the talk like, okay, what's the idea? But what I wanted to write was like, look, dude, you've been in self-development for 30 years and you're still like posting. At a forum with like a weird pseudo nickname. What the fuck, dude? Like if I was in 30, I was in self-development for 30 fucking years. And I would be like, at this level, you know, and I'm not gonna kind of make too many assumptions, but you know, somebody who posts at forums. Who has like a weird nickname. I mean, I'm just guessing, I might be wrong. This might be just a weird habit of him, but I guess this guy's not really, you know, kind of a grand cardone or a Tony Robbins or a Tai Lopez. I mean, if I was in self-development for 30 years and at that level, I would probably kill myself. Or at least think very, very thoroughly about my current path in life and how far it actually got me. So yeah, self-development, it doesn't entitle you to shit. It doesn't mean you're gonna be a success. Maybe it means you're gonna have a bit of, you know, maybe a bit above average life. Because you know more about meditation and you read some books. But where you get the real like type of success that you strive for, it's from being extremely aggressive with your goals. Taking massive, massive risks at strategic opportunities. Being obsessed, mega obsessed. Thinking day in and day out about your goals and dreams and doing whatever it takes to make them happen. And also adopting a do or die level of self-discipline. And what do or die means is I would rather die than not accomplish my daily goals. It's really that simple. Because if I'm not gonna accomplish my daily goals for any excuse, I'm not gonna accomplish my goals either. Because my goals are basically my daily goals multiplied by 10, 20 or 30 years of consistency. Now you may be thinking at this point, wait, but if you do the same thing for 30 years, why would you get a different result? Well, I'm not saying I'm gonna do the same thing for 30 years. I'm saying I'm gonna be consistent with taking daily actions that move me forward in the areas of my life which I need to be abundant at to consider myself as successful. So my life, the way it looks is really like a very steep, continuous upcycle right now. And even in the down phases when I'm sick, when I'm down, I keep pushing and doing the daily goals because then I keep moving up against the gravity. You know, the increased gravity of the sickness or the depression or whatever the fuck might happen. Also, when I said goals, I don't go for midterm goals, you know, like five years from now, 10 years. And I also don't go for goals where it's what I call scarcity goals, like let's say I need more money right now, so I'm just not gonna make goals based on that. And the reason for that, the reason I only set goals based on the longest, biggest, most ideal, incredible things I can imagine that I want for myself is because when you think small, when you're like in scarcity, you think, oh, if I just get this, I would be amazing. Or if I get this, my problems would be solved. Then when you think small, you tend to go small. So if your goal is, let's say, making an extra $2,000 a month, that's like the goal you're probably, most likely, unless it's a do or die situation, you're not gonna put in the required actions to make that goal a reality. Whereas when I focus on my long, long, long, massive, almost impossible goals, because they're so big and scary and I know it's gonna take so much time to get them, I end up taking the most massive amount of action I can every single day. For example, my goal isn't to get to 100 more subscribers or 1,000 or 10,000, my goal is to get to 10 million subscribers. So this goal is so long and scary and far away and massive that I just ask myself, okay, that's like the most massive thing you can possibly do. And that would be making five videos a day, which by the way, this video is my sixth video today. And I just do that daily and that's the meaning when people say, you know, aim for the moon, aim for the stars. I don't know, you know, you're in self-development, you know that sentence, like, aim for the moon, you're gonna hit the star, you might hit the stars or something. They don't mean just aim there, they mean when you aim high and you actually take the appropriate actions, then on the way you'll actually pass through the scarcity goals. So scarcity goals are like, you know, I just want 20% more money, I just want one girl and I'll be happy, stuff like that. They usually start with just this and I'll be okay. So when you aim so high, you end up, you know, like to the stars, you end up taking massive action like the most literally the most amount of action you can possibly take every day. So either way, and by the way, the think behind the action is bigger, so you're even more inspired when you take action, the action is even on a higher quality level. So then you get all this inspiration and shit, you take massive action, the most action you can take anyway, and you pass by the scarcity goal without even noticing. You know, you aim for making $10 million a month and you actually go for it by taking, you know, by upping, you know, crazy, crazy sales activity or something like that. And then you end up actually passing your scarcity goal on the first week, because on the first week you already made like $5,000. You have no idea, it really doesn't work like that, but again, you have to aim through the wall, not at the wall, it's like in karate. If you have like a board and you need to smash it with your karate chop, if you aim at the board, you're going to break your arm. But if you aim through the board, then you're basically going to break it most likely, or you know, you might break your hand, but at least it will be a cool story. But yeah, that's like a theory about it. So that's like a bit more about the kind of the philosophy of how I do what I do. I have a disdain for anybody who's not willing to go after their dreams. I think it's fucking pathetic on one level. Obviously that's like my lower self. On the higher self, I believe I want to help everybody. I want to make sure that everybody has the proper kind of knowledge they need to actually go through, go after their goals. And whatever is stopping you, I want you to know that it can be easily fixed. And I learned it so many times in my life by being coached and also by me coaching people. That all you need is one good conversation with somebody who's what I call like a key master. Like somebody who was like really good at unlocking stuff that holds you back, like mental blocks. Just one good conversation with somebody like that and you'll find yourself surging, like soaring through the skies. Because literally all you needed to do was solve this one thing that was blocking you. So, you know, I offer free conversations, free Skype calls. Basically they're used as a filter to know who I want to work with, but I won't kill you. If you just contact me and say, hey Robbie, I just need your help and that's it. I don't intend to pay you, I just want your help. I'm a generous guy, if I can help, I'll help. So, yeah, let's go solve that shit. Don't drag with it because when you do solve it, the worst part is you realize how much time you lost. All this time you thought you were making progress and you're just standing still full gas on neutral. I mean, yeah, you know, there's all this rationalizing. Like, yeah, I know it's about the struggle man, the struggle makes it worth it. And you learn from the hardships man, that's the way of success and the journey. But you know what? Fuck it. I mean, like, if there was a way to achieve your goals and learn the lessons without going through those struggles, would you still want the struggles? Of course not. Nobody wants it to struggle. They may be rationalized that it's good because of the lessons you get from the struggle that help you become successful. But what if you could have gotten these lessons without struggle? Simply by associating with people who already went through that shit and then you just on the fast track to your goals, wouldn't that make a bit more sense? Do you want to be the guy who gets his goals accomplished like Grant Cardone at like 60? Because he fucked up so much? Or would you rather be the guy who did it at 30 or 40? And again, kudos to Grant Cardone. Like, he's one of my biggest inspirations in the world. I'm definitely not using him as an example of somebody who's like a loser or something. He's the biggest boss in the world. I'm just saying this as an example because this guy only woke up when he was like 50 or 45 to his true potential. I mean, if he would have woken up when he was 30, the dude could have been like, not just president, he could have been like the ruler of Earth. I'm being brutally honest. So yeah, I don't appreciate wasting time. I want to get what I want as fast as possible. And I know that the lessons are a key part of it because if you don't have the lessons, you won't have the proper constraints and motivations to actually keep you on the path of the right behavior. But on the other hand, I also want to get the lessons as fast as possible because I'm not 16 anymore. I don't need to be in pain to learn a lesson. The way it was back then is I would learn the lesson and then I would... One moment, I would learn a lesson and I would be like, okay, I learned not to do something, but then I would keep doing it maybe because the lesson wasn't fully learned, maybe because it was just a breath, but like, for example, if you are not consistent with your meditation, you're not going to maintain the habit or it's better to set low intensity goals and actually do them than to just do high intensity and not even take action because it's too much for you. So I had to learn these lessons over and over and over and over again, but today it's enough for me to learn these things just once. So I just learned the lesson once and I'm good. I don't need to go through shit. So if somebody is like, hey dude, don't do it like this, do it like that, because it will be more effective and I can rationalize it. I can fully rationalize it like, oh, I completely understand why. Or if somebody is like, hey, don't do this or don't do that. And again, I can completely rationalize why. Well, I'll just immediately apply it and I just won't make that mistake. I don't know if it's an age thing or what. Anyway, this was the sixth and final video for today. Thank you for watching. If you like these kinds of videos, please tell me because I definitely love talking. I love talking more than anything to be honest. So I'd love to make more of these, especially in two weeks when I start traveling again, like holy shit, I'm going to have a lot of chances to talk a lot. Thanks for watching. Like, subscribe, comment, you know.