 Why the Narcissist is still with new supply? The Narcissist appears to be happy with their new supply. Things seem to be going well for them and you thought that it would all be over after a few months but they're still together and it confuses you because how can the Narcissist not be bored of them by now? How can the new supply not see all of the things that the Narcissist is doing? How can there not be any problems? Something must have gone wrong by now the reason why the Narcissist is still with their new supply is because their new supply is a codependent a people pleaser someone who cares a lot about whether people like them someone who has an emotional need to please others at the expense of their own needs and desires they have an excessive emotional and psychological reliance on the Narcissist it's an illness an addiction where they enable the Narcissist self-destructive behaviour they give them the ability and the opportunity to do it by providing whatever is necessary codependents function well in relationships where they're not getting anything out of it they don't care about reciprocation so they're well suited to the Narcissist they're made for it they don't know what a healthy relationship is meant to be like they just want to be with someone they don't want to be alone they want to make someone happy which is exactly what the Narcissist was looking for someone who will overlook their faults and failures to meet certain standards because they don't want to be alone so they will supply and empower the Narcissist no matter what the Narcissist does they will justify it they will make excuses as long as they don't have to be alone so they will stay with the Narcissist even though they're being exploited and abused because they're used to it it's all they've ever known so they can deal with things that you couldn't deal with things that affected you things that broke you down because they're toxic and unhealthy they're able to deal with it they expect to be lied to they expect to be cheated on they expect the Narcissist to steal from them they just don't want to be alone which is perfect for the Narcissist because now they can do whatever they want they can live independently they don't have to be domesticated or tame they can be bratshit they can act wild and crazy they can be low class they can have no moral values and they will still be accepted and tolerated so why would the Narcissist ever leave it's the perfect situation for them they can just lay in their own filth they can do whatever they want to do and this person is always going to be there for them which is nothing for you to be jealous of you shouldn't feel sad because they didn't do that with you that's a good thing you should be glad they didn't anyone who stays with the Narcissist for a long period of time must have something seriously wrong with them and most often people who do that are codependents they can't be alone they need to be with someone normal people can't be with codependents because they're very needy they're overly attached they're too emotionally dependent they act like Narcissists in many ways they will force you to stay with them so you couldn't be with a codependent just as you couldn't be with a Narcissist because you're a normal person but a codependent can be with a Narcissist because they will tolerate things that you wouldn't they will pay little attention to it so the Narcissist is still with their new supply because they found someone who can put up with them someone who can put up with their filth which is not something that you should be jealous of because they're not with a good person they're not with someone who is going to make their life better they're with someone who is enabling their destructive behaviour the Narcissist will always look for situations that work easiest for them they will always look for someone who is going to put up with them so that they don't have to change or make any improvements so that they can stay the same which is the perfect situation for them because no matter what they do their new supply is always going to be there waiting for them but just because they're still together it doesn't mean that things are better it's a toxic situation they haven't won there is no winning with a Narcissist thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you please like, comment, share and subscribe if you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description coaching inquiries you can email me at coaching.narcsurvivor.uk thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon