 When all is said and done The narcissist does this if you want to know what the narcissist does When it's finally all over You only have to remember the things they said About their ex when they first met you That will tell you everything you need to know The narcissist gives you this story That their ex was crazy Their ex stalked and harassed them Their ex was obsessed with them And when you first met the narcissist you were interested in them You wanted to be different than their ex You wanted to save them and they ate it up. They love bombed you And then they later devalued you They gaslighted you until you finally realized that you need to leave Or they discarded you and then when all is said and done The narcissist does something They talk about you to other people They describe you in a negative light They blame you for everything And they may even tell you directly Or you may hear about it from their flying monkeys They know how to create a false narrative that works in their favor And that makes them look good They will play the victim They will say that you did something bad to them And they will use this to secure their new source of supply They will use it to make the next person feel bad for them So that they try to help them Or they will say that you were lazy They will say that you were unwilling to work or use energy They will say that you thought you were superior And that you thought you didn't need to put in the work Or they will say that you were mentally unbalanced They will say that you were crazy You were obsessed with them You stalked and harassed them You made accusations about them They will describe you as something you're not Without giving you the ability to defend yourself Which makes you look bad to other people But if those people aren't smart enough To realize that the narcissist is telling lies about you You need to step away from them And spend time with people who do understand But when all is said and done The narcissist is always going to describe the relationship In a way that makes them look good They're always going to describe it As though something was done to them Was though they were too good for that And they're going to damage your reputation They're going to make you look bad The narcissist is not going to move on And tell people they lied to you They cheated on you They played mind games with you They're never going to tell people that They're going to describe it in a way That makes you look bad And in a way that makes them look good They're going to give people a false narrative But you need to see it as though you've had a narrow escape You've avoided a disastrous situation Because if they're saying these things about you After the relationship ended What were they saying while you were together Narcissists are masters of manipulation They know how to lie They know how to make up a story They lie a lot Because it helps them to protect their feelings of insecurity It makes them feel like they're in control It makes them feel better about themselves It protects their false sense of self-importance But when they try to move on You will have the last laugh Because they're not going to be rising off into the sunset Their new supply will suffer the same way as you did But when all is said and done You can be sure That their feeling lies about you to other people They've created a false narrative And they're using it to get by You just have to hold on to your reality Remember what they did to you And avoid anyone who they have misdirected Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at Thank you for watching I'll talk to you soon