 Chrissy says, I'm in a new relationship and he and I are both independent. Should I be worried about not knowing what he did last night? We spent Friday night together and talk during the day on Saturday. Well, if our, it depends on whether you should be worried. It depends on what you guys have talked about. If you're not in an exclusive relationship, then it's really none of your business, what he's doing. And if you are in an exclusive relationship, then you guys should have some agreements on certain things. And if you want to, if you're in a relationship, like a committed relationship, then you should have communication about what's going on. And if you're interested in what's going on with him, he should be open and honest with you about what he did last night. And so that's kind of the scale of where you are. If you've never talked to him about being exclusive, then you need to start having that conversation. Otherwise it's really none of your business. And so you, if you're not, if you're in a committed relationship, you need to start having communication with him about what's going on and start having clear, more transparent communication with him. It sounds like it's more of like a kind of a new type of the thing. I don't know, but and if it is, then you want to kind of figure out where you are in that spectrum.