 And so, you have women who will meet a guy and maybe this guy has had a couple of good things going for him, his confidence is up and she's like, I want him. And a guy who isn't used to controlling his energy, this is his death in a certain sense because she will take the energy out of him. We talk about the term succubus. Succubus is an example of, it's an extreme example of feminine energy but all women to a certain extent are succubi. The flip side is that men want that and so women will seek out guys who have energy. If you ever go for guys, the whole thing about hypergamy, you can distill it down to women will never choose a lower energy guy than a higher energy guy. But the problem is that if a guy doesn't know how to control his energy, the woman can take all of it out of him because the guy surrenders into that death. He does not want to continue to produce anything anymore. And then what happens? You have a couple of months of the honeymoon phase, having sex all the time and then eventually she's just starts to feel I'm not really that interested anymore.