 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. Okay. I'm a little hoarse today because I lost my voice over the weekend, but I'm back Today's video is how to make your partner jealous So that they don't want to lose you or they want you back. Okay. These are some steps You have to take they might be hard, but they work. Okay. A lot of people do the exact opposite Which is why they have no luck. Okay? Getting an ex back or getting the attention they deserve from their partner now a lot of men are gonna chime in and say this is immature This is why I don't play games, but it still works. No matter what they're talking about. It still works. Okay first of all men have egos and Women know that so you need to play on it. They're ego. That is their weak spot. Okay ladies Men are naturally possessive by nature. Okay, so To see you with another man to think about you being with another man to visualize you Going to dinner Dates drinks and whatever with another man will bother them. Okay? If you're always available if every phone call is answered if every text is answered if they know where you are sorry you guys if they know where you are and Know that you're not gonna be dressed up but in sweats and you know, whatever whatever they're not worried about you They're not Gonna be jealous of anything, you know, so what you need to do is set up what I call your jealousy Plan okay, whenever you're not getting that attention when you feel like he's his attention is straining or if he's Already broken up with you and you want him back and you think there's a chance and you kind of still interact with each other You got to make them jealous. Okay? and This goes for any relationship type, okay could be same-sex whatever But you got to make the other person jealous and work on their ego or work on their weak weak spot Okay, for example If there's a place that you and that person always go and it's kind of like a special place to you And you want to make them jealous? Let them know you're going there. Oh, I'm going to you know such and such tonight just me and the girls Yeah, just me and the girls We're gonna have such a good time. I can't wait but get dressed up like you're going on a date like Look better than you ever looked when you went out with him like do extra by new underwear Make him think that there's something up. Okay? Um Get extra extra extra like like you're getting ready to go to prom. Okay? Get new stuff get new outfit new perfume new everything. He's gonna get suspicious I'm like, why are you doing all this to go out with the girls, you know? Oh, you know, we just want to look extra good, you know girls compete against each other You know, and then he's gonna say well, maybe I want to come to her You know, are you sure you don't want me to come? You know, that's our spot. Oh, no. No, no No, I don't want you to come And just like wear something very Sexy like y'all know that song freedom dress by Beyonce get out something very sexy Okay, to make him think that either a you're really going on a date with another man or B There's a possibility that you can meet another man that night That will replace him. Okay? And don't be afraid to get dolled up and go out with your girls and let him know you're going. Okay, and Like to get him jealous you got to do extra. Okay, and go out Don't answer your phone the whole night. Turn it off. Don't even answer that thing If he's not giving you the attention when you're not away from him dressed up looking like, you know You can grab any dude or whatever Then don't answer his calls now. Why is he all of a sudden texting? Let him wonder. Okay, this is gonna work on his mind So now that you're out and about having fun doing whatever you're doing You could be out alone. You could be really with friends or you could be with a guy friend a gay friend or whoever But come back later than you normally come back. Okay, don't come back on time Don't come back on curfew come back a little bit later. Okay, and then make up some excuse Oh, I had to make sure my friend got home. Okay. She Drank too much and da da da da da. He's not gonna really question that and just go to sleep. Don't talk about it Because you're not when you really went out with your girls and you had a good time You're gonna talk want to tell your friend your boyfriend. Oh, we did this. This is not it. Don't tell nothing Leave him wondering let him ask all the questions. Now you have his attention. Okay The next way like if you don't live with the guy and he stops calling and texting Send him an accidental text For another person, okay Like I had fun last night. Let's do it again and then See what he says takes back like oh, I didn't see you last night. What are you talking about? You know if he has to text you for a long time and you're waiting on him to text you back And he's been like two days three days and you have to text him first all the time Text them all had fun last night. Let's do it again And then if he texts you back say, oh, I'm so I must send that to the wrong number You know Bam, well, who'd you go out with now? He's texting now. He's texting right now. He's interested again Okay, and it's like oh, I'm sorry. I meant to send that to somebody else. No, no worry about it Then then you stop texting him. Okay, then he's gonna be texting you calling you da da da Oh, who are you going out with and da da da da? Okay, so Accidental text to the wrong person by accident. Okay Another way like let's say someone broke up with you didn't give you any reason just stop calling you Just communicating with you and it's been like weeks and you basically think they're cheating and you've moved on They've moved on from you. Okay, so this is what you do to get them jealous you Post like if they follow you on Facebook or whatever you post a picture of you any very attractive Person that you know and don't put any explanation just bam pick, you know Go find somebody that's very attractive and getting the selfie with them photo bomb Um, I don't know, you know and don't put any names. Don't put any explanation. Just put click, you know and Don't put your okay This is the worst mistake women make getting on Facebook getting all dolled up taking a thousand pictures of themselves after They've been broken up with by their boyfriend thinking their boyfriend's gonna Click and watch and he's oh, she's just doing that to get attention to get a new man But if you go ahead and take a picture with a new man in person It's it's already strike one jealousy. They're gonna be trying to call you so what you've been doing They're gonna act like they didn't see it. So what have you been doing? Oh? Then they'll probably bring it up. Oh, I saw your Facebook. Who's a new guy? You know, oh Yeah, oh, he's nobody don't worry about him. Why what's up? Well, you know, you look you know, you look pretty happy. Yeah, we are happy It starts saying we when you talk about him say we we we even though you're not a couple Even though you'll probably you know not be with that guy for real When you talk about him say we like a couple it's gonna get pissed. Okay, all of a sudden he's gonna want you back Okay another way is to Become very successful like start your own business Start your own online Whatever YouTube just do something that's really about yourself and that you could care less what he's doing because you're so super busy making money You know getting the things that you want or whatever whatever, you know, you got a raise you start your business You're you're about yourself now So totally get into yourself makeover, you know Look like a whole Improved version of yourself so that when he sees you or when he's you know Sees your pictures and things on social media and things that you're doing He's impressed and when he's impressed he's gonna be mad at himself For not, you know, giving you the attention that you deserved or dumping you or whatever And when he tries to get you back The first time you always say no the first time he attempts to say hey you want to get back together Say no because that's a test. That's a test to see are you doing all this for me? Are you doing all of this for my attention so that I want you back? Okay, I want you back and then like two weeks later He'll leave you again after he's gotten what he wants. Okay, so you always reject the first offer you say No, I don't want you back. I'm happy. I'm better without you. Oh my god Do you see all the things that are going on to my life? I know you're my Facebook page Like every when I dumped you or when you dump me everything just totally improved in every area of my life And just start going off about how your life is so much better without him. Oh my god, you know what? I got a raise, you know, I Found a nicer apartment You know, I got I Started my new business. I got a couple new friends that are so cool to hang out with and they're you know, they're just Teaching me all this new stuff and you know, just go on and on and on like you're excited to talk to him again But you're only talking about yourself and your great-grand life So where he gets to the point where he's so tired of hearing about everything He kind of either says, oh, I gotta go and hangs up or whatever This is how you know if he really wants you back if he keeps trying the third time Give him a chance to prove himself to you now I'm telling you someone will we're taking right back on the first one because they're so desperate But if you take him back on the first one, he'll he's gonna leave you in two weeks Okay, you got to wait for the third attempt ladies The third attempt mean he not gonna give up He really wants you back and not just because you're doing better without him, but he really realizes That he messed up and that he wants you back, okay, so on the third time give him a chance To make it up to you. Don't say okay. I'll be back with you. Oh, okay. Well, I'll let you Key words. I will let you make it up to me What do you plan on doing? This means the ball is in his court. He has to impress you He has to make plans. He has to do all that stuff. You have nothing to do with it Now he's got to sit back and think about all the improvements that you've had in your life How much you've upgraded now? He has to upgrade his thinking and his technique and his game Okay to impress you because now your life is just so much way better without him now. He has to come even harder To get your attention Okay, because you allowed him another chance See how you flip the script. Okay, so you got to make men jealous Reject the first two offers give them a chance to make up things to you and Let them prove themselves. Okay to get the man chasing you again to get that interest that you can't have this anymore type feeling That's what men thrive on. That's what they want to chase to prove themselves. A lot of them will say they don't But I guarantee you they enjoy it. Okay If they have the same old boring predictable girl who's at home wearing the sweats as soon as they get home Knows what she's gonna cook for dinner or knows what she's gonna call him text him and say what time she's gonna text all that if If that's so predictable, he's bored. He's gonna get bored. Okay, if you don't know what you're doing This is why I say ladies don't text your man as every day at the same time do it at different times Don't do it at all. Sometimes. Oh, I forgot keep them guessing if they can predict everything you do you're doing it wrong, okay? You don't want to be predictable like today. I'm my husband might might come home I'm not even here. You know, I might be out having cocktail or I might be out shopping you know, I might be home and sweats and watching TV I might Comment at the same time he does, you know It just might all be different every day. I don't text him every day. He don't text me every day Unless I need something from him or he needs something from me But to keep it going, you know, sometimes like You have to keep them guessing about what you're doing, you know If he sees like before he leaves that I look extra good that day. He's gonna text believe me. He's gonna be like What you doing? That means he's interested, you know Because I didn't tell him no explanation where I'm going, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah It's gonna text me if he's thinking, you know, hey She's looking extra good today. I wonder why oh, I just did it because I have to make YouTube videos, huh, you know Sometimes you'll pop home early. Oh, I got off work early very unexpected Spontane spontaneity is the key in any relationship and when you're making a man jealous You can't do the same thing over and over and back to back. You got to do something totally different like Even if you got a photoshop stuff girl, I don't care Photoshop yourself at a beach on vacation somewhere. Okay. I don't care. Make it look good though Because if you get busted, that's very humiliating Or post an old pic that he probably never seen of you on vacation somewhere and pretend it's new I don't know but figure that or go somewhere Take a picture of yourself and you know post it Just go do different things that you've never did with him like you have a new lease on life He's gonna be so jealous and he's gonna want you back because men always want their ex back if they really like if they really made a mistake they always want their ex back ex back when they're living better than them doing better than them and Happier without them then they want them back saying oh, I wasn't you know I want you back now. I want to enjoy you now that you you know, I can see you can do better than me, you know, so Then you have the upper hand when you get back in the relationship because you're like I was happy without you You beg me back, you know Now you have the upper hand, okay Believe me it works if you follow that you will be successful in what you're doing if you give in if you get You're gonna suffer even worse because he's gonna dump you right again. Don't get weak I said the third time ladies do not take him back the first two times He begs you back the third time and let him prove himself to you Don't just take him back say I will let you make it up to me and I will decide if I want you back You are the one who chooses if you want him back in his life Even though you're doing all of this for him. He doesn't know it He doesn't need to know it Okay, so believe me it will work. You just have to stay strong focus on your goal Know that man will fall into your trap because they love the chase They always want what they can't have and if you're living so much better than You are when you were with him. He's gonna think that He wasn't good enough for you and he was holding you back and that he's the problem and that will affect his ego And he can't have that okay. I will see y'all on the next one. Bye