 I want you to stop right now with taking everything in as a directive because it's shaping your personality and the people that love you are aware of it but the struggling to stay around you the struggling to continue to like you the struggling to keep including you and you wonder why maybe it's to do with this where have I taken every emotion and not seen it as data what do I do with this I'm gonna stand up and watch it a minute I don't think so no thank you if I was up here today and threw a ball out into the audience and it came to your direction and it was aiming for you you would instinctively catch it that's what we do with emotions you don't need to catch it even if people say even if people say this is for you says who