 What is the most painful thing you have been told? My best friend was shot down and killed in Vietnam the day after I left. I was told by my sister that she wishes that I had died when I tried to kill myself. They told me they were disappointed in me and that they expected more, expected better. Your parents are getting a divorce? Let's go with the death of my dad. I cannot do that. I can't. Who said you that you cannot do that? Mother, my father, everybody. The world. She said that to me like two years ago. Yeah, we were fighting and she said that to me. How did you feel? I was angry. Yeah, because I didn't want to hear that. I'm disappointed that my sister said that to me. My own family. It hurts me today. I can't go to the Vietnam wall and even see his name written on it without crying. It hurts even talking about it right now. I know I can. I don't think I can. I know I can.