 we are back again i appreciate it yeah no far from it from england just out here at the beach drove about an hour and a half to get here it's not my local beach but i'm here now how's everyone doing yeah it's a cool beach i've been here before once before i find it quite relaxing like it's not too many people i come down here so i don't like being around large crowds because you never really know who's around you you know it's very windy out here but it's nice it's refreshing got a bit of sunshine there the sand's quite white at the top but then it gets more yellow the further down you go and then you've got a bright blue sea in the back which i really like it doesn't look like it is but it is i don't know why not i've got the option to do it so i thought i might as well take advantage of it since it's there so has anyone got any questions on narcissism or are we enjoying this view at the beach daughters yeah he says see you tomorrow because it's not it's not about you he doesn't care about what you want it's just all about him using you like an object if you imagine a coffee machine you don't really care about the coffee coffee machine once it's just an object and why would you care about what it wants it's all about what he can get from you it's all about how's he going to get the coffee poured into his cup so there's no consideration for you so you can tell him that you want to break away but it doesn't matter because in his eyes you're just an object or extension of him Liz i have done a video on the boundaries i think it's called narcissists and boundaries and from my research just about every personality disorder mental illness just anything that's toxic comes from poor boundaries if there were strong boundaries from childhoods none of that would have happened of course there are some cases where it can be passed on from the parents and they can be born with it but in most cases it is learned and it can be corrected with strong boundaries like narcissists is more to do with psychology the jazz belt spirit is more of a spiritual or religious thing so they're two different things really but many religious people do say that narcissists are possessed by the jazz belt spirit yeah it's a great beach here i might actually go and check out the other beach as well just down the road so keep an eye out and i might do another live now very soon