 Hi, I'm Matthew Kos from commitmentconnection.com and today I have another question from a woman in our community who Here's what she asks. I would love to know just how to avoid the headaches and complications of meeting the wrong guy I know it starts with me, but there's got to be some rules to this I think what you're asking me is how do I avoid getting into a relationship with the wrong guy because You know, they're only You know, if you're looking for the right guy There's probably a lot more wrong guys out there. I mean lots and lots and lots more wrong guys out there So, you know, the more attractive you are as a person the more Men are going to approach you and the more wrong guys you're gonna meet And so really you you can't really avoid meeting the wrong guys But you what you can do is avoid accepting the wrong guys into your life and Avoid accepting the wrong guys into the relationship. Most of the women that I know who Get into who meet the right guy. It's not because they somehow avoid meeting the wrong guys it's because When they meet a guy who's not right for them They quickly move on the women that I know that End up in bad relationships for their entire lives They meet the wrong guys and they stay with them The women that I know that get into great relationships. They meet the wrong guys and They quickly move on So, you know, I'll just give you a quick tip here So the right guy for you is going to be a guy who shares similar values Has a similar values system and someone who can grow with you on your path and his path To wherever the two of you are are going in life And so you that's those are the things that you're gonna want to look for is shared values and a similar growth path so that's it for this video if you want more information on how to Attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you subscribe to my youtube channel. I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon