 Are you to blame for the narcissist's behavior? Are you to blame for how they act or conduct themselves? Are you to blame when they become angry towards you? Are you to blame when they choose to abuse you? The narcissist would love to make you believe that you are the cause of their behavior. They would love to make you believe that you are the reason why they are acting that way. That's why they gas like you. That's why they sow seeds of doubt within you and try to get you to question your own memory, perception or sanity. They want you to believe that it is all your fault. They want you to believe that you are the cause of their behavior. That's why they're always in denial of the truth and of reality. They're always shifting the blame onto you. They're always projecting their insecurities onto you. They want you to believe that you are the cause of their behavior. And the reason for that is because it makes it more believable for them. It makes them believe that they are not at fault. It makes them believe that they are not responsible. Narcissists are very weak, insecure people who are doing everything they possibly can to avoid reflecting on their weaknesses and insecurities. You are not to blame for the narcissist's behavior. You are not to blame for how they choose to behave. The narcissist's behavior is a direct reflection of their thoughts and feelings. It is a direct reflection of who they are on the inside. As within, so without. It really has nothing to do with you. You cannot get a constructive or optimistic attitude from the narcissist. Because that's just not who they are. That's not what they're about. Just as if you squeeze an orange. You would get orange juice. You would not get apple juice from an orange. And you will not get a constructive or optimistic attitude from the narcissist. You are not to blame for the narcissist's behavior. You are not to blame for how they choose to behave. But you are responsible for being around them and enabling them to continue that behavior. You should hold yourself accountable for choosing to be around them. That is the only way that anything will change. The narcissist is not going to be responsible. They are not going to hold themselves accountable for their actions. So nothing is going to change unless you hold yourself accountable for choosing to be around them. But you are not to blame for their behavior. They choose to act that way and it is the direct reflection of how they think and feel. As within, so without. Do not let them convince you that you are responsible for their behavior. You are not responsible for someone else's actions. You are not responsible for how someone else chooses to treat you. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Couching and crowds you can email me at nagsfevercouching.com. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.