 they don't get that intrinsic reward from connecting just on a regular basis, so very low amount of connection. But maybe if they're in the circumstances where they're in a good mood, the mental health is low, the environment's right, they're with the right people, they feel comfortable, then their emotions go up steadily and it gets to a point where they can feel it, and then there goes the hot, they turn hot. They want to connect with everybody and everyone and they want to share and they want to feel and they want to socialize and communicate and it can sometimes feel a bit overwhelming, especially if you've only experienced that sort of cold like side of them for the amount of time that you've been dating.