 Now you have to look inside and say, am I being needy in this moment? You know, are you in this state of fear that he's going to be talking to other women? Are you in a fear that he might end the relationship? If you're in a state of fear, ladies, you gotta work on that on your time, okay? That's not his responsibility to address your fear at the same time in a healthy relationship, expressing a need and then making a request is a very valid thing to do, okay? So it could look something like this. I have a need for safety, validation and connection.