 Welcome back to the 21 convention 2021 of Orlando, Florida 15 year anniversary at 21 summit our next speaker is a returning speaker to the 21 convention First speaking last year in Orlando, Florida here at 21 summit. He's also the founder of Bond found it over 31 years ago out in, California He's an amazing man or amazing as some of you might already know and he's a pastor and a reverend for Christian men Without further ado, please tell me welcome back to the 21 convention stage Reverend Jesse Lee Peterson Welcome back, Jesse Good morning Hi y'all I'm still sleepy from cuz we got in like really late last night So I gotta wake up first. I want to say congratulations to Anthony and 21 summit 15 years. That's amazing Bond has been around amazing. Yeah, I Was saying to Anthony earlier that Bond been around 31 year, but it doesn't seem to be 31 years And he felt the same way and I really admire Answering from what he's done because he started off as a what teenager. How old were you? 17 when he first started this organization and it proves that if men really really really really want to do something They can but you have to have a made-up mind And you must be willing to endure all things in order to succeed in life Bond been around 31 years and then I want to take some questions for you guys, right? Cuz I like to deal with the folks But bond been around 31 years and our purpose is to rebuild the family by rebuilding a man and And the reason I started bond 30 The purpose of rebuilding a man because when I first started I Realized that black men were weak and that they were blaming and that they were crying racism And they had leaders and they thought that that white people were their problems And I realized that it's not racism. It's not they don't need leaders They need to take charge in their own life So we started bond in order to wake black Americans up to tell them that it's abnormal for a man to be weak Do we have any weak men here? Can I see your hand? Nobody wanna admit it, huh? I'm sorry I said that first But uh, and so we started out with just dealing with black men But after a while the principles that we talked about applies to all the men mankind So we open it up to everyone and so 31 years later We'll deal it with men around the world men and women now because the women like oh We need help we need help so we started working with women as well And I know I'm speaking tomorrow to I guess married men and family like that I think and today all you guys a single man for the most part, right? I'm sorry What okay, and so What I want to talk about is What first I want to let you know that there's an order to life and that orders God and Christ Christ and man Man over woman and woman over children and it's abnormal Abnormal for men to be emotional for men to be angry. Oh Any male have in a man here has anger. Oh Good, let me see your hand again So it's so I know it's early, but you can we can talk nobody watching just around the world Let me see the guys with anger. Oh Okay Did you know that any man that has anger is a woman? Hi ladies Did you know that any man that has anger is a woman? Right you a bitch, huh? I Any man that has anger is a bitch. I love that word. I Use at first. They say don't say that word in LA. That's a that's a mean word But that word explains everything and so what we want to do today this morning It's to show you how to overcome that anger because it's totally Abnormal for a man to have anger men are not angry. They are logical They they deal with things in a simple way and they have no fear and no doubt So what I wanted to do this morning because some of you like slap makers too, right a lot of slap makers Who want to be a slap maker? Oh? Okay, I Want to talk to you about the anger with the hat. Can you go to the mic? Uh-huh, the one that's got the bitch in him That would be me and so and so you have the bitch in you I Got the bitch in me. Yeah, and what does the bitch feel like? Bitter bitter bitter better and you've been married before Married divorce married widowed really and what happened with why did you divorce the first time around? Well, I didn't divorce she did and why That one's complex, which one do you want my failings are hers yours mine didn't matter so what now My failing was number one not ripping her out of that damn university where she was taught all that feminist bullshit Oh, that was my first mistake. You were married to an educated woman an educated woman Never never never never ever ever ever But never never never never ever ever Never married educated woman Educated woman does not make for a good wife or a good mother Because she's going to be in competition with you women think that they're equal to men and they're not But when they're educated, they're even worse If why did you marry an educated woman? She wasn't educated at the time and why did you let her go get educated? I thought I was supporting her. Oh you did And so and I'm asking this because You're supposed to start thinking for yourself, right? Why did you think you were supporting your wife and getting educated? Well, I I was educated and I thought it would be of good value to her too. I was wrong a good value to her And now you realize you're wrong. I was wrong. So do you want to do you have kids? None that live you say window none that live Good, you don't have no kids. That's good. They're all dead. They're all dead. They're all dead Your kids are dead all of them. What's wrong with them? Well lost two to miscarriage one to abortion. I don't want to talk about that one and Well, I was a slut maker. Yeah, and one I lost to drugs. Oh, I see the So, what do you think about all that that you've gone through? My choice is to become more empathetic and compassionate Towards other men and what they go through. Don't feel sorry for me. I've learned lessons. Let me warn others I think what you've gone through is amazing Did you learn anything about yourself through that? Still learning still learning, but you haven't learned anything other than you want to be more compassionate toward other men Yeah, I'm gonna take this pile of shit and I'm gonna grow something good out of it. Oh really The thing I want you to know is the tough times in life are your best times in life It's like when life is seen to be well and all is going good That's no good. It's okay to have it, but when you're going through Situations and when you're going through those tough times Those are your best times in life because you're not gonna grow in life until you have those good I mean those rough times in life But a lot of people think that the rough times are the bad times, but the rough times are the best time I got in the last 31 years. I've gone through literally hell, but it made me a better person and So I want you to learn to appreciate those rough times. Those are not bad things Do you want to overcome being a bitch? You bet. Let's bring it on. Let's get rid of her. You want to get that, right? It's not normal for men to be angry because men men represent God The man came from God and the woman came from the man But in today's world started with Eve Satan is the woman's God and God is the man God And so when you're dealing with the woman you're dealing with evil versus good, right? And it's the man's role because good can overcome evil Evil has no power if it cannot deceive you or cause you to have fear It has no power and it's the man's role to bring the woman out of her hell But anytime you go into the woman's world You're going into hell and you will suffer and you will die She will destroy you because you're in hell a man should never move in with a woman Me to go and live with her. He should never follow her anywhere She should always follow him because if you follow her you will suffer So the way you can overcome being a bitch Is you got to overcome your mother? Because that spirit of that that you have in you came from her and you have to overcome her and return to your father and When you return to your father God would give you back your identity Before your mother turned you away from him before she traumatized you you must forgive your mother Otherwise every woman you get involved with Will will be your mother you're attracted to what you hate and and so every woman even those that seem nice They could be white black Chinese oh Japanese or any of them it's the same spirit. We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against spirits and personalities Right, so you're attracted to what you hate and you're never going to be able to deal with a woman until you overcome your mother Would it also be accurate to say I projected you? Rejected projected you progested. Yeah, I projected some of what You're talking about on to my wife Absolutely because every woman you get involved with you become the boy and she'll become your mother Man are looking for love from a woman, but women don't have love And no such thing as a woman of love right women get the love from man as you get it from Christ and so Women hate men that they can control like that. They hate you But they love it and they hate it because they need you to be strong But they would accept it if you're weak in order to control you and destroy you if your mother still living No, she died in August. She died in August. Oh But you're gonna have to forget how about your father. Is he still living? No, he died in 1991 You know how weak you are right? You see how weak and Bitchy you are right. Oh, I see it. I don't like it, but I see it Yeah, well don't have an opinion about it's enough to see it and forgive them even though they're dead Realize just as you can't help yourself They could not help themselves and forgive them for it God will forgive you and he would take your mother's spirit away from you and replace it with his spirit We should have been of your father But your father couldn't protect you from your mother because every woman he got involved with was his mother And so he couldn't protect you Forgive them and God will forgive you and I I'm telling you man You you'll wake up and become yourself again, and you would never have fear doubt worry No one or anything will ever be able to control you again And if you should get married again, you will be able to guide your wife in the right way to go instead of being Destroyed by her What do you think about that? No, we're hearing you I'm sorry we hear you I hear you. I'm happy to be here in a disagreement with that None none, you know God said that we must be born again, right? Everyone who was born of the woman is born into sin what they call sin Meaning that she turns you away from your father and when you had turned away from your father you take on her identity and you think like a woman and you feel like a woman and It's hard to function in life like that But when you forgive them God will renew your mind He would give you back a logical mindset and you would develop suck control and that's what women need That's what they're looking for. They're looking for men who can Leave them rather than follow them a man should never follow a woman any man ever follow a woman Yeah, yeah a man should never do that. It would never work out All right, any questions or just agree about that No, maybe a conversation offline not when we're being recorded. Oh, I see. That's why you hold it back a little bit No, there's just a lot more truth to it, and I know what's under it But this is not the venue right now for that. Oh, okay Amazing. All right. Well, I appreciate it, man. Thank you anybody disagree with that So What we've been doing and I have to tell you I would the issues in life are never ever ever physical With it's spiritual all the time and there's this empathy between men and women and women can't help it Because they hate the image of a man is not her But it's the spirit that made a home in her and the reason that men are so subject Sexually for women is because they're looking for love. The woman is your God And until you overcome your mother all women will always be your God And they will always control you and you can never ever ever ever ever ever ever satisfy a woman It doesn't matter how much sex you have how much you buy her what you do or don't do for her You can never ever ever ever satisfy her and so you should never try to please a woman You should never because you can't do it God created the woman and he can't even please her the God Just think about this God created the woman, right? He gave her nice hair. What does she do? She cut it off a well weak He gave her a nice breast. She cut that off and put on fake breasts And now they they're cutting out the butt and putting on fake butt And so God can't even please us. So why are you trying to please her? It is a weakness to try to please the woman But I understand a lot of men are doing it because they don't know it about it They have been told try to please the woman the woman is wonderful. She's special The woman is not wonderful. She's not queen and she's not special She's just another human being that is a female that came from the man and man came from God And so what they really really need is for you to leave them. It's that normal for It's that normal for men to be afraid of women Men are afraid to be aren't how many men have been slapped by a woman. Oh Whoa Everybody What not everybody? So you've been slapped by a woman. You can come up into the mic for me. So we got And so what happened It was about 19. She caught me cheating. She slapped me. So what now? I was 19. She caught me cheating. Oh, she caught you see. Yeah, and she slapped you Yeah, did you what did she do when she slapped you start crying? no, uh just uh I do stop her You stop her. Yeah, just grab her hands. Oh, you know, it's so how does she catch you cheating? She caught my car at the girls place Oh, I see and so will you live it with her at the time? No, you were not only 19. Oh 19. It was college. Yeah, okay And the reason I asked because what I noticed is that a lot of men today have been told do not defend yourself from the woman That you're bigger and stronger. And so you should not defend yourself And so in the airport and when I counsel with men around the world They're being beat up by their wives by their girlfriends and they're not defending themselves and to me that doesn't make sense because because of it that the hatred of a woman and she need men to be strong when you let a woman smack you or You bring it out the worst in her and you make her her want to do it again and again and again But if a woman know that you're not gonna put up with that kind of stuff She wouldn't do it It's like in this issue between black and white people, right? The black people know that not all not all not all but the black people know that white men are weak and that they're not gonna Speak up so they call them names They take their stuff away from them and it's just over the years It's just brought out the worst in the blacks and like why you're bringing out the worst in the women when you don't defend yourself I have made it clear because I wasn't raised that way, right? I remember I when I was growing up I have like seven sisters and five brothers. Well, I have five brother, but three of them three is dead now. They're dead, but Whenever my sister would hit me or something as a little kid I was smack her back and she was gonna cry to my mother. Oh, he hit me He hit me and she would ask that you hit him. She's like, yeah Well, you should get hit back if a woman hit me I made it clear you going down. I Ain't gonna put over that. I remember being at a grocery store recently And there are these two black women in there one fat with a fro and the other one kind of not so fat and Oh, and I didn't have a mask on and so I saw that I was right behind them in line and they were saying to the They were saying to the teller. Oh, he doesn't have a mask on and I pretend not to be paying attention And they're like, oh, he should have a mask on and at first the teller will try to ignore it And they kept on it and on it So finally the teller called the manager over say and told the manager that I didn't have a mask on right and So she said sir, can you put your mask on my scar? That's okay. No problem. And I put it on and when I put it on I said tell me two bitches to stay out of my business And when I said that they got to They were so mad they saw you know black women all right When you fight a black woman you gotta fight a black man And so they were like When I call them bitches, they're like, yeah They were carrying on I had my Trump sign my Trump shirt They're like just a Donald Trump supporter and they were right up and down the walk in the store Yelling and screaming and they came over to war me as though they'll hit me I said look, I would advise you not to hit me because I'm not like those little millennial men that you could hit and I said, yeah, if y'all bitches hit me you're going down Yeah, I said it's so loud the whole snorkeling here And and then and they ended up they ended up I Leave this soil they were all bitchy fussing and arguing walking out right but they didn't touch me Men are so supposed to be of love of strength and love is not an emotion That love that you feel as an emotion is not real love that love come from hate it come from anger Real love come from God and in real love. There is no fear. No doubt. No worry. No insecurities No depression No anxiety. It's nothing but perfect peace I have perfect peace in my life and I was a beta but at one time But no one would ever beat me but I was a slut maker I used to think that I could not live without sex when I was before I overcame that issue I used to think that I had to have it and so when I would break up with one girl I would have to find me another have her waiting in the West Wing in order for me to break up with the one That's how pathetic I was anybody else been like that you go for woman-to-woman Yeah, and I used to literally think that I could not live without sex But it wasn't until I over Began to examine myself and I wonder why am I so weak? Why am I so emotional? Why do I have fear and what I started to wonder about thing and question things? That's what I started to understand God caused me to see that I wasn't myself I was in a fallen state. I had not overcome my mother I must return to the father and so I went to my mother at the age of 38 and I said to her Because he caused me to realize that I had this anger and I become like my mother Because you become like whatever you who ever called you to become angry You become like them and you take on their identity And so I didn't know that though until he allowed me to see that and so I knew I had to forgive my mother And so I went because God said when you forgive them don't ask for forgiveness You forgive them and God will forgive you and he'll take that identity away from you So I went to her at 38 and I was shaking in my boots and I said to her You know all my life I've been resenting you because you tried to turn me away from my father you seem like a mean person and I'm sorry for resenting I realized now that you couldn't help yourself and I become like you and I can't help myself So I become like you and when I forgave her he forgave me and that was like 32 years ago And my life had just gotten better and better and better to a point where I've gone through hell But I literally have no fear And and I don't feel brave. I just don't have fear. I don't I'm not I'm never depressed I'm I never fear anxiety. I never worry about anything. I don't live in my head anymore I live in the present because when you live in your head all thoughts are all lies all the time And they will build you up to let you down and when they let you down and build you up And that's why you want to jump off the bridge So in order to be and what what this world need is for men to become men again You really need to return to the father so that you could guide the women in the right way to go Because this country is going to hell in a hair basket And the reason is going to hell in a hair basket because the men or we the women are taken over And the last thing you want is for a woman to take over because it's not in her nature to lead Women were not created to lead It's not in they don't know how even when you're raising children The woman needs a man to guide her in how to raise his children And so men you got to overcome That mother's nature in order to become man again Because it's going to get worse if man don't wake up and you need to be able to deal with women straight up But without anger without hating them you need to be honest You need to be of love and all the way you're going to become that way is that you got to overcome the fallen state And everyone can overcome it if you get to know yourself If you really really want to overcome it there's nothing that you cannot overcome And this has happened around the world when I deal with men It's the same problem it starts in the home And the women are going through the same thing because they're just like their mothers they resent their mothers And they become like her and so this thing goes on from generation to generation to generation And if you don't overcome it you'll find yourself living with mama until you're 60 and 70 years old I literally know guys Who are 60 years old and still living at home with mama They tried to move out when they were younger But the mother would not let them And now they're stuck and they hate themselves for being there and they hate the mother for keeping them there So you really got to take charge of your life, but you're not going to be able to do until you overcome the nature of the woman Let me says Yeah, any question any question about that? Have you overcome your mother? Yes, you you went to her I didn't go to her but I set a level of Standards and if they don't meet them then I just I push it And why did you go to her and forgive her for what you've done to you? I don't know I don't care You don't care, but you should care. Why don't you care? Just doesn't matter to me. What does that mean? How old are you now? 31 oh What doesn't matter to you? Um just having Honestly having my parents in my life doesn't really matter to me Well, you don't need to have them in your life Right, you just need to overcome them so that you don't repeat the same. Well, I think psychologically I have overcome them because I watch you all the time. You watch me. Yes. Oh, so you know what I'm talking I know exactly what you're talking about. And so why have you are you afraid to go to her and forgive her? No, I think I just don't care But I don't understand what and don't you want to have you were created to lead and if you if you don't care How will you lead? I have to forgive her to be able to lead. Yes Because right now you have her identity because I have not forgiven her right Okay, I don't really understand what you mean. I don't care. What is it that you don't care about? I don't know Do you know why you were created? No, you're not just created to be a slap maker Right. Did you know that? I do now No, you said it Look guys, you guys can relax. We can have some fun. It's not a big deal. All right Did you know do you know why you were created? to uh I'm sure it's got something to do with carrying out God's work or God's plan absolutely you created So that God could create love through you the love from from him through the man, right? And if man love is happening on the earth and family, we will have peace on earth But as long as it's coming through the woman, we're just going to have the hell that we'll uh a deal with you Supposed to care and when I say care, you don't want her out thinking. Oh, I care. I care. I care, right? But it's you always you it is so amazing to be a man Really not a beta male, but a real man It is so amazing because you were created so that God could create love through you and bring peace up on the earth But because men have not overcome their mothers. They don't know that they they're not bringing love. They're bringing hate They become like what they hate. What what do you think about that? I agree And so how long you've been listening to me? Uh, probably a year and a half and are you still a slap maker? Yeah But And so you've heard me say go to your mother you've not done it. No And it's because you don't care I guess yeah Are you afraid to go to her? No, I'm just kind of comfortable with the way I am and I don't I don't see how Going to her is gonna benefit me. Oh, so you don't believe that that that can possibly work. Oh, I don't know I just I you know, I feel I feel like a real man. I don't have anger. I lead Um, I exhibit a lot of alpha male qualities. I don't think forgiving her is going to improve that So when god said go and forgive her he was like He was lying You're like, you know, I thought you just said that No, you were like no god said that if you have Art with anyone go and forgive them. Don't ask for forgiveness, but forgive them and I will forgive you you'll be free Couldn't I just forgive them in my mind? Do I have to go and tell them I forgive them? Right? You have to jail them because what's going to happen when you face her You're going to get your courage back And telling her your mind is a cow of the way out and it's because you're afraid to face her And when you face her which if she started crying, that's fine If she get angry, that's fine If she if she fall out and die, that's fine like oh mama did and And go into the kitchen If she died go into the kitchen and looking at draw right next to the civilware. That's where the insurance paper is And turn the paper in real fast before you tell your brothers and sisters And have a little cheap funeral and go live your life But you're not you're not going to be free until you face her Because she took away your courage when she made you when she imposed a will on you She took your courage away as well. And so Uh, that's why you have to face it. You're going to shake in your boots But it'll be the last time you ever shake with anything or anyone about anything I grew up in a single parent household under my father's Under my father not my mother Oh under your father. How'd I say with your father? Good Oh, yeah, so you don't resent your father at all There are some things that I don't agree with. He's a beta male all day. He's what he's a beta male He grew up. He his father wasn't in his life telling american Emotional crazy yelling screaming type people and he was raised by his mother So he's got a lot of beta male qualities very emotional So, uh, I don't agree with and so have you forgiven him? Um, yes, I have you went to him. Yes. Okay. How'd they go? He didn't like it That's fine. It's not about them liking it or not and about you overcoming them They don't that's why God said see human beings don't forgive It's impossible for a human being to forgive. But what happens is you apologize for judging them Anyone who has anger has hatred and anyone who has hatred is judging And when you judge, you become like what you judge, right? And so that's why God said go and forgive them and I will forgive you They don't have to apologize. They don't have to admit they can get mad But long as you forgive them, you will go free your whole world will start to change You will overcome and it'll be amazing And life will just become amazing for you. You will find yourself dealing with all kind of issues Are you able to go and talk to your mother if you wanted to? Yeah, absolutely So why have you gone to your father but not your mother? I don't know. I think I think um Understanding my father was more important to me. Okay. I just I mean Yeah, I'm more concerned with uh father-son relationship than my relationship with my mother. All right. It's just unimportant to me Well, you will always be controlled by women Until you overcome their nature You're gonna always look to get love from them. They don't have it sex is not love As a matter of fact when you have sex, it's a it should be a quick quick bam bam. Thank you, ma'am It should be all the licking and lapping and lasting for half an hour and you know what I mean You're not into that, right? Yeah I'm not I'm not looking for love. I don't women. Let me get that Well, you have said do you do a quick bam bam. Thank you ma'am. Sometimes. Oh, okay. Yeah. Keep it that way because what happens Will you have what happened when you go for a long time you licking and lapping and you carrying on Then the woman is controlling you You're worshiping her because you're doing it for them. Yeah You're worshiping her. You'd be surprised. I'm about is really a spiritual battle And it's the battle between the men and women and a lot of women don't understand what they're doing either And you'll be surprised how you're being controlled by evil When it should not be that way you should overcome evil. You should not be controlled by evil And so do what you want, of course, but I suggest you face your mother So you can completely become the man that you should be Because women need that your children are going to need that if you ever make children Otherwise it's not going to work That makes sense it does so If you do have children, how do you prevent the mother from Influencing them and and what's going to happen when you return to the father You're going to see that he would provide all your needs And so why why you're just living he'll provide all your needs And if your heart desires to be married he will add a woman unto you a man should never look for a woman Because when you look for the woman, you're going to find the wrong one every time But because god loves us so much He will add the right woman unto you and you will have a marriage that will last you until after your part And you will be able to stand between the woman and your children so that she doesn't pass that spirit on to them You will see it. You will have the right relationship. It will happen naturally But if you look for a woman online anybody ever got a woman offline by going online Wow, what's that making Now, you know, you weep when you go online to get a woman What? A woman would you don't know masculinity draws women unto you You don't have to look for that, right? But if you have not overcome that You think that you got to look for them. You got to buy them. You got to get them money A lot of men are spending their money on women. They're taking them on trips They're buying them expensive things. They're putting them up in apartments and things like that I know and you don't have to do that You should do that because all you're doing is encouraging the woman to use you to hate you And women don't respect men that do that. I remember in high school. I was dating this girl in the level of truck rape And at that time we had like bubblegum machines at school and it cost 25 cent to get one And so one day she said to me hey, jessie you got 25 cent. I'm like, yeah, why? She said I want to get a bubblegum I'm like wow this woman tried to use me And so I gave her the 25 cent and I adopted her Because I thought she would use me for my money Because in those days men weren't wasn't weak like that. We didn't give women money Sometimes we take them out by the McDonald kind of dinner But we didn't worship women the way men are doing it today And because we knew and understood the order of things And so Men are weak to women and it's just making things worse. It's not making it better guys It's not going to get better Until you overcome that and you'll see how to treat her in the right way Because you would treat her the way that you've been treated from your by your father within right Everything you're looking for Everything you want your talent your purpose everything you want is inside of you. It's not on the outside It's on the inside and when you forgive you start living from within rather than without and then when you live that way You cannot go wrong. You must you must return to the father. You cannot go wrong, right? So I want to encourage you guys you got to ask individuals Start questioning things Overcoming that father state otherwise your kids are going to suffer and each generation will get worse and worse and worse Because the father's weak The father got to be strong and you're not going to be strong Until you overcome that emotional state which come from your mother. You were not created that way It did not come from god. It's that normal for men to be emotional like that You got to do it now. You could suffer and die. I mean no sweat off my back I'm just here to tell you if you want to be free you got to overcome the female nature You must be born of the father You must return to your father. The worst thing that can happen to a man and a female but in particular male Is to be turned away from his father. Our issue is the spiritual matter. It's not physical at all Any question about that? No, I watch you all the time, man. I Yeah, it didn't help me a lot. I was for sure Yeah Well take the next step and go and forgive your mother and you haven't seen anything man You will it would be as though you never went through anything It'll blow your mind the only thing that keeps you down is that emotional state and that mindset. All right Yeah Well, thank you, man. Thank you. Just you jesse has helped me see a lot of things very clearly and Honestly after watching him just about every day during lunch. I mean I get to laugh and it's really funny But he's helped me see things a lot clearly and uh Proved my life pretty good, man drastically. So watch this guy go see your mother, all right all right, so Uh Any question for me Anybody about in it? Okay. Come to the mic Hey, jesse. Hey, sir. Yeah. Nice. That's Sergio the music boy You guys heard of Sergio the music boy I'll do a radio show uh money's in front of I guess podcast and it's on from six to nine And we play Sergio music on there. He just came what's your name your new song surgeon? Oh, uh, douchey Douchey. Yeah, it's on my youtube. Yeah, a very nice song. So check it out. Go to jesseley peterson dot com uh, or Sergio What's your thing? Yeah, Sergio music boy Sergio music. Yeah. All right, and Sergio used to be a beta I was still working on it. Oh, okay. So yeah, I had a question because I was talking to attendees here and some of the speakers and uh, I hear that they're talking about how We're not slot makers, but that it's the woman's choice and it doesn't make us slot makers So I kind of wanted to hear Your perspective on that it's a woman choice. Yeah, so it's like they're they're saying that Oh, it's it's not us. We're not doing it. It's the woman choosing it. So we're not really slot makers. Are we? when women are Especially millennial women and younger, right? They are sluts today. It's hard to not to see a slap When I'm at the gym and these women wearing these tight clothes all of their butt and And they're looking around to see who's looking at them But what women are women are looking for father's love Because their mothers have turned them away from their fathers and that emptyness that all human being has When they when they are not closer to their father growing up It leaves a void in your life and in that void you start looking outside to fulfill that void And that's what women are doing women are looking for a father's love. But instead they get screwed, right? It's not the woman's fault. It's her job in that father's day to tempt you In order to control you because women are not that intersex But they'll do it because they are like sex dealers and men are sex addicts And so women will do it to control you But they prefer not to do it. They prefer you to correct them and bring them out of that state And it is the man's fault Starting the home with the fathers and the mothers the thing But it's the man fault that she's in that condition Because he won't break her out of that state He doesn't understand that he needs to overcome his mother So that he could break her out of that condition And if you notice women are getting worse today as men get weaker Women are getting worse. They're not good for house. I mean for wives They're no good for mothers because they need the men to help them overcome Yes, he is responsible for her action But it's really the responsibility of man of the man not to take advantage of her weakness to resist her Or her seduction and we get married You can guide her in the right way to go you have a good wife and and kids and we can create a new So every time like we go out and like let's say we're trying to look for women out in the streets And uh, every time we see one and you know, we tempt her or whatever we talk to her We have this intention of having sex with her It's it's really, uh It's really us to blame Yes Because you're looking for a mama's love you might not realize it But that's what you're looking for But once you overcome mama when you deal with women you're going to deal with them in a perfect way It's not that you won't deal with them, but you won't be subject to them They'll be subject to you and you'll be able to get to know them You will not have sex with them before marriage So you can see if this is the right person for me and she will see if it's the right person for her And when you win and if you do get married you would have all the issues that will happen today Divorces would be nonexistent or less Every your kids will have a chance But it is the man fault because if he resists he she she can't tempt him It's her job to tempt you, but it's your job to resist it But you can't resist it if you don't have not overcome your mother because you're looking for mama's love All right, so you go out looking for women No, you don't go out looking for them. No, oh, okay I do go out have fun, but not with that in mind. You should have fun. You should Enjoy women enjoy human being period but enjoy women but not for that reason women need men to be strong But men cannot be strong until they return to their natural state of being That's the only way it's gonna happen guys No other way because they would deal you sex Just to control you and sex is not love. It's just a ego feeling it makes you feel good And it's never enough the more you get the more you want right because it's just like going to a drug dealer And he's giving you your your drug free at first you become addicted You keep going back and after a while it's not enough you want more you want more and they end up destroying yourself And sass the only reason that we need sass is to make children To get married and make babies if you don't want to have children. There's no reason to have saps No reason at all Y'all might be quiet. Why are y'all so quiet? What? No Why well, that's all I wanted to all right. Thank you, man. I appreciate it. Absolutely appreciate it Any other question about anything? Yes First of all, this is my first time seeing you and this is absolutely mind-blowing. Thank you. Thank you. Uh, so A lot of I guess I would say conventional wisdom is as men we have to Have consistent sex with our women to keep them satisfied and from strength Is that something that you disagree with wholeheartedly or what are your thoughts on that? Having consistent sex to do what? No to keep her satisfied to keep her satisfied. Correct. Oh Is that and your question is what? Do you disagree with that if you're 100 percent? Okay, because women use sex to control the man And and when you stop having sex with her or you get it under control She'll say to you oh You don't love me. You don't care about my Emotions, you don't care about how I feel right what she's really saying is you are not letting me control you anymore I can't control you. I used to have control over you and now you're not doing it. That's what she's saying And so but it's best not to do that A woman love a man that she can't control and she was always trying to tempt you to bring it down But she loved that's why it's good not to have sex with them before marriage So that when you do get married you can make all the babies you need to make And then once you make all your babies then stop having sex Because if you're not going to make babies, there's no reason for sex So when they're saying you're not meeting my needs. You're not being my emotion. I feel disconnected Really what they're saying is you're not letting me control you And I used to control you when I first met you you catered to me. You gave me what I want We had a lot of sex. You're just saying they had control over you. That's all they'll complain about Don't give it to that guys. Otherwise, they will destroy you So just a quick observation and another quick question. Yes Um, so you're saying sex is used by women to control us one 100 percent. Okay. I Women are sex dealers and men are sex addicts. Okay Question two marriage is obviously ideal, but The legal ramifications of divorce You know push a lot of us away from getting married involving the state and the government and our affairs. How do you You know avoid that or if you do it the right way, you wouldn't have to worry about that If you meet a woman in the right way, you don't have sex with her before you marry her So you can date for a while get to know her she'll get to know you and you will see that this is the right woman to marry And it's not a woman that would do that to you, right? Because you got to realize the nature of a woman is evil And she cannot help it. So when you get with her you start having sex with her You're giving her authority over you. And so if you do divorce She will destroy your children. She'll destroy you. She'll take everything you got Just to get back at the man because that nature hates him But if you do it right you love what's right with all your heart All your soul all your might along with nothing else Love god first and then love your neighbor as yourself. It wouldn't happen to you Understood But because you're doing it the wrong way you're getting you're doing it in darkness You're setting yourself up to be destroyed by the woman It will not go right when you start out doing it the wrong way And i've been there i've done that and i understand that but you've got to start doing it the right way If you want to turn out right if you have sex with a woman before marriage it ain't gonna work Because you're doing it the wrong way if you get with an older woman it ain't gonna work Because you're doing it the wrong way a man should never ever ever ever ever ever Get involved with an older woman you get involved with mama As she will control you and it will not work But we got to do it the right way in order for it to work Because the courts are not for the man They are on the side of the woman because this world is of evil Controlled by satan right and satan is working through the woman So she's like ruling the world because her daddy satan is of the world I'm a father of heaven and inside of us if we live that way we can defeat the evil So when you do it wrong you can expect the court to do that But if you do it the right way the courts cannot interfere with your life because you're married the right kind of woman So thank you very much. All right. Did you overcome your mother? I will today Oh, you didn't know about until now, right? Yeah, okay. All right any other question Okay, well, I have a few questions and I'm gonna close this out. Um The man in the blue shirt Yes, can you come over to the mic for me? He's like what What Hey, what is it? Hi What hi, hi How old are you 24 24? Did did you know that all thoughts are all lies all the time about anything? Sorry, could you say that one more time? Did you know that all thoughts are all lies all the time? No, did you know that there's no such thing as a true thought? No, why did you know that? because I never thought about it that way, uh, do you think you create your own thoughts? Yes, and how do you do it? But just thinking how do you how do you start just thinking? What are the steps to start thinking? From what you believe what you see your surroundings give me an example how you create your own thoughts I'd say uh, let's say to me. You know how you got up this morning you got dressed you did You can tell me that stuff, right? So how did you create your own thought the first one you had this morning? How did you create that? I guess just routine Can you give me the steps of how you did it? Well, you gotta take care. Well, I know I gotta take care of myself in the morning. So Right, that's to go through the steps of what you want to do your teeth shower Use a bathroom all that stuff get ready for the day amazing it's just like nature like So you're the creator of your own thoughts, right? I wouldn't Yeah, I'd say so. Yeah, and so do you sometimes create thoughts that bring pain upon you and Caught you to do the wrong things? Yes, why would you create thoughts that would hurt you? I don't know. I don't answer that question Uh, and I have a reason to ask you guys this right, but let me ask um Have you ever wondered why am I creating thoughts that would bring pain upon me and make me make the wrong decision and think like that? Yeah, time to time I don't usually have an answer for that you haven't got an answer for that Is it possible you're not the creator of your own thoughts? Yeah, that's possible Because the one thing I want you guys to know You don't create thoughts They are not from God and they are not from you and every thought that you get is a lie No such thing as a true thought all thoughts are all lies all the time about anything And I'm saddened because I really want you guys can get to know yourself to pay attention to what's going on We really really pay attention to thoughts They make you think about the future that doesn't exist Or they make you think about the past that doesn't exist They won't let you live in the present and all we have All we have is right now Everything else is an illusion Whatever happened yesterday. It's over. It doesn't even exist anymore But Satan will remind you to make you think that it exists now And when today is bad for you, he'll tell you tomorrow would be better And when tomorrow come if it comes then it's even worse and now you're disappointed But if you can learn to just live in the present rather than living in your head You have an amazing life life would just unfold for you But you got to overcome the fallen state first You are not your thought anyone that think that they they are of their thoughts They have the mindset of a woman. That's why women are so crazy They live in their heads and their thoughts make them feel good Make them feel bad make them feel up or down and they live by that Men are not supposed to live in your head. You're you're supposed to live in the present Where the father is not in your imagination All thoughts are all lies all the time and you're not going to be able to overcome them Until you overcome your mother's identity You really have a mindset and then your mind will be renewed and you will begin to develop a logical simple Right in the present mindset and you cannot go wrong when you do that it's impossible But when you live in your head thinking about yesterday and tomorrow you're going to screw up all the time You're going to judge yourself you'll judge others and you will not have a good life So you must overcome that so you can overcome the mindset you got to overcome That female nature so you can overcome that illogical mindset You don't create your own thought man all thoughts are all lies And I want you to notice because a man don't wake up and come back to common sense is over It's going to get worse before it get better because the man are weak And there's nothing worse To a woman to children Then to have a weak man weak father weak husband weak boyfriend or whatever So you got to overcome the thoughts all right? All right, and of course it is disagreement with that You guys can disagree we can argue we can yell whatever But we got to get it right. Yes, sir. How would you start? How would you start to overcome as you say? Number one you got to start get to know yourself If you know yourself you're going to see that there's a battle going on between you I mean a not you which is the darkness of imagination and the light of God that lives within your soul of your belly There's a warfare going on in there And you can't fight that you just have to observe it And then you see how to deal with the warfare that's going on the outside inside of others But you got to get to know yourself You must overcome the spirit the identity of your mother And return to your father and life would naturally start happening for you, but you got to overcome anger Okay Do you still live with your mother? For now, yeah How old are you 24? Bird Um Do you know what a beta is? Yeah Do you ever heard of a beta? Yeah Oh You heard my show before Uh, no Oh good Uh, why are you still living a home with mother with mama? It's just for the time being to like, uh It's not it's not permanent. It's just temporary. How old are you 24? It's permanent You should have gone when you turned 18 years old a man should never ever ever be at home after 18 years Oh, except with some type of emergency, right? Sometimes you just can't help it But any man that's home at stay home at 18 after 18 is a beta male Why don't you move man? What's your I guess it was always like instilling in me to like always like take care of the mother as you get older Take care of the mother. Yeah, you're not your mother's boyfriend You're not her husband. You're not responsible for your mother Your parents were responsible for you. They're supposed to take care of you. It wasn't a An investment. You're not an investment They decided to make a baby is their responsibility to take care of you and your responsibility as an adult to get away and start your own thing And then if you want to take care of them, you're doing it the right way But it's not your responsibility to take care of your mother I I did the show one day how mothers are horny for their sons Did y'all know y'all mother want to have sex with you your mother's horny for you That's what mothers would get rid of your father and make you her husband You know something before she let you go and then if you do if you are fortunate enough to get away Let's say you moved to west hell But while you were growing up your mother would say I don't like west hell I would never live in west hell, right? But then you grow up and you move to west hell. She'll move to west hell Just to control you And if you're dating she won't like your girlfriend. I don't like her. I don't like the way she treat you I don't like this, right? It ain't her business The woman not dating her right But the mothers that keep their sons around like that or follow you around or call every day to check on you They're horny for you They want to have sex with you Isn't that amazing idea? What do you think about that? Otherwise, why would your mother need to around? She doesn't because of that anger They have a they're horny for their sons and that's why they destroy your relationships They destroy your marriages They don't want to move in with you and live with you and your wife and they'll divide you from your wife And the wife is mad because they're horny for their own sons You got to overcome mama so you can take control of your life. Here's what I recommend On my website Silent prayer dot video on my youtube channel right now What Silent prayer dot com I mean dot video I want you to start doing that so you can settle down And when you settle down you start to see from within and god will guide you he will show you how to overcome all these things And you will overcome by getting to know yourself All right, but you got to pay attention to self so you can forgive her for what she's done She set you up for you to stay there as long as you can And if you move she's going to follow you. I make you feel guilty You're not responsible for your mother Your father's responsible for her not you and if she ran your father off she's responsible for herself not you So I recommend you get two jobs three jobs You move out and you start dealing with the issues of life so you can grow up Men grow up by dealing with the issues of life. You don't grow up by staying at home with mama If you don't deal with situations, you can't grow into a manhood You got to welcome tough situations Don't get upset about them overcome them and your life will get better But as long as you're protected from them, you only get worse in life I remember when I was growing up my grandparents and my mother Told me at 18 you're out of here You're going to leave here at 18. I'm like, where am I going? They're like, I don't know and I don't care but you're out of here, right? And I grew up on a plantation down in Alabama under the chemical laws and all that But what they did they taught us to work and to be responsible How to save our money to take care of ourselves, right? So when I turned 18 I finished high school That May and I moved out and moved to Indiana got me a job moved to California And I went through I've gone through hell, but it made a man. I don't make me better or not better And my my mother didn't follow me anywhere. My grandmother or grandfather didn't follow me That's abnormal man. You got to get a job and get away from your mother You don't owe her anything But forgive her for doing that to you know She couldn't help it What do you think about that? I think you're right Yeah Any questions about that become my time is up any question about that? No All right Well, forgive her man and go live your life get two jobs Three jobs you can do it, but you got to get away from mama. Don't be afraid to take care of yourself. All right So Any questions? No. All right. Thank you, man. I appreciate it. All right Mr. Jesse Lee Peterson So here's what I want to recommend. I know I'm gonna be talking tomorrow But you got to take responsibility for your life guys. It's abnormal to be weak It's abnormal to have anxiety depression to be angry to be insecure You will create it by God to be of love and love is not a feeling It's not something you can taste or touch It has no fear no doubt no anything so that he can create love through you And we will have the world would be amazing if men were to wake up. All right So go to my website at jessilyp and uh www dot silent prayer dot video check us out at jessilyp Peterson dot com Or rebuild the demand dot com. All right. Thank you all so much. I appreciate it. Thank you. Jesse