 Hey, this is Mary with Brad Ransom from the 21 Convention Melbourne. We're on the last day so You were talking about guys wait for the perfect approach the perfect situation. Does that ever come up or how do they avoid that? Yeah I think the biggest challenge that most guys have is they're super like analytical and then they're trying to find like What the situation is especially if there's guys or girls around and everything now is looking like okay now It's the right time and for me the reason why I think most guys get into this basically is that they're they want to be the selector So it's kind of I talked about doing this each day is being the one that that's the girl I want and pushing over the hurdles kind of what's ever in place there Because it's kind of like a life thing to move towards is there's always gonna be something in your way He's kind of got to deal with deal with the punches as they go in there And I think most guys have a very idealistic view of what pickup is basically Everything as opposed to just like taking what they want and dealing with things So I think I keep up his energy and momentum like we're just sitting at home He's like well, I could go out tonight, but maybe I should maybe I should not really that energized or jazzed up to do it What should he do? I think the biggest thing is having if you have friends for me back in the day Before I had a big network of people that I was going out with I just had my roommate He wasn't even really into like pick up stuff at all, but what he said he was We just go out. He's like, yeah, let's go out and the nights that I didn't want to he pushed me And the nights that he didn't want to push him so having like that background is good But also I think the hardest part about going out solo is basically just getting out of the damn house So you just got to get me like what do you want out of this, right? If you if your goal is to be more successful have more success you got to do it take action And have that mental discipline so guys out there want to see more of your stuff They're like they see this video and they're like, oh my gosh for that guy. He's fantastic. Are they going to see you? Lately it's been the YouTube channel so I've been doing all the V blogs like this type of stuff And that's just through my YouTube channel, which is rst Brad Just rst Brad on YouTube if you just Google Brad Branson I'll my kind of blog come up and I feel that pretty much almost any sticking point or problem guy would have You'd easily access it from Brad Branson.com Okay, this is Mary with the 21 convention from Melbourne. I'll show you with Brad Branson. Bye guys. See ya