 Sexual assault is not just a female problem. Men can be and aren't sexually assaulted. It doesn't make you less of a man. It doesn't change your sexual orientation. It doesn't matter if you were friends. It doesn't matter if you were drinking. It's not your fault. If you have any questions about an unwanted sexual experience, there are people you can talk to. Unwanted sexual contact and sexual assault are not easy to talk about. But just know you're not alone. Secure and confidential help is available.