 You need to take accountability and take blame for every single thing in your life. Once we give away our power to anything in the outside world, anything that is not within our own mind, our own emotions, our own reactions, we lose. We automatically go into victim and blaming mode. And then we take on this notion that everything is happening to us and not through us. And look, it's not to say that there aren't things in your life that have molded your mind or given you trauma, but it is your job to learn and bring that awareness in and understand those things so that you can work with them, so that you can grow from them, so that you can learn from them.